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Boyfriend
Okay this is kind of strange for me, I never post questions on my love life....so here it goes.
I have a boyfriend who is 17 and I am 14. (Its only a two in a half year difference, I'm almost 15) so we've been dating for about three weeks. He told me he was going to wait till' he said I love you, until he really meant it, and he did last night. The only thing is, I don't love him back, I know that for sure. But I am not even sure if I like him. He is an amazing guy. But when we kiss, I don't really feel anything. I get butterfly's when he says I love you, but other than that I don't really feel anything.
I've heard people say that you should get like butterfly's or w/e when you kiss, but I don't get them. So I don't know if I even like him.
I miss him when he is gone for long periods of time, and I look forward to seeing him and stuff. But I don't know.
I realize that this is REALLY limiting information, but from what I've told you, can you guys just kinda tell me if you think I like him or not?
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you can't judge if you like someone by asking other people. i'm sorry, but only you know your true feelings.
if you feel any bit of love for him, then you want to be with him.
if you miss him when he's gone, then he's obviously an essential part of your day.
& if you don't get butterflies in your stomach, maybe its because you want them to be there, so when you kiss me, you are thinking about why those butterflies aren't there.
& you don't really feel butterflies, its just an exagerrated thing, mainly meaning you get excited & you like the fact that your two lips are touching. =)
<3good luck
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If you are not happy with the relationship, but happy with the guy, you should probably consider breaking up. I have had those experiences before. The guy is CRAZY over me, but I dont want anything to do with him. lol. I want to be happy, and feel good in my relatioships, how about you?
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I think you like him. Loves a big word for one your age, but you do like him.
I wouldn't stress to much over the butterflies thing. Follow whats in your heart. You like being with him and miss him when he's not around.
So stop waiting for butterflies. They aren't always around. :)
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