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Hey! My name is Molly and I live in CALIFORNIA. Though I have only been on this Earth for 15 years, I have experiecned a lot. Here's a little about me:
I love to give and get advice. I also love dancing, shopping, boys, animals, friends, family, and a whole lot more!
Ask me anything anytime, I will reply very soon!

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this is kinda a dumb question but my friends were talking about how a guy wanted my friend to give him head. They were all laughing and I had no idea what they meant so i just laughed too! So my question is what is giving someone head? please explain.

hmm. i think that all sexually related materials are very self-interpreting.
one girl said blow-job, which could mean a many of things, depending on the context, and another girl said sucking it. but, i think, considering how your friends said it... "give him..." meaning she wanted to do something to him, which would probably mean blowing it, (rubbing it until it blows out semen ... lol ) or sucking it until it blows out semen in your mouth... weirdd.. haha.

anyway, hope this helps!!

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what are some of the healthy choices there.
is there somewhere i can look to see the nutrition facts?
much thx. :]

omg i love starbucks!
well, i always get the caramel apple spice, and thats just like apple juice with a little bit of caramel in it, but they serve it only during cold months, which is a bummer cuz its so good.

i also really like the new "vivano"'s. they have banana chocolate (which is so good, and very healthy, considering it has real bananas in it, and a tasteful touch of chocolate) and orange banana mango, or something like that, depending on the starbuck. They are made with real fruit.

There are also teas, such as tazo, and that is very low in calories, if thats what youre looking for.

well, hope this helps! If you have any other questions, i am a very avid starbucks drinker..:]

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I'm tired of staying on a Friday or Saturday night! There's just nothing exciting where I live. I have quite a few friends but we just have nothing to do. What are some fun things that I could do with my friends? We live near a mall and near the movies, but like ... those get really old really fast. Any ideas?

Oh! I live in a place similar to you! Nothing to do! But, it is a place where you have to use your brain to think of ideas.
You can have fun at a friend's or host a party/slumber party. Have every one bring food, games, movies, nail polish, hair stuff. You know.
You can also have a camp out if you live in the mountains or near a campground. Have boys tag along with some marshmellows(:

Think of some creative ideas. hope i helped.

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My best friend has guys asking her to hook up all the time, right and left and sometimes i wonder if its because she has big boobs, i mean all they talk about is that she is pretty big, but i feel like being around her makes me realize how much guys dont notice me.

I mean i do have a pretty good amount of friends, but not a lot of guy friends. I really wish that guys would find me attractive, and want to hook up with me and actually have interest in me. But idk how to achieve that. I mean i get told everyday that i look really cute by a lot of girls and that i dress so cute and have like the best style. But i have a feeling it's because im not confident enough with myself and around guys. I'm sorta shy you could say. How can i change that?

Wow. I feel the exact same thing. I went to Hurricane Harbor (water park) with my good friend one year, and it was the same. Boys talking to her in her bathing suit, while im standing right there, trying to do something with myself, or trying to engage in the conversation, but that hardly works.

I dont have much advice because you and I are in the same situation.

But, I think that love comes when you are not looking, so to speak. And maybe stop thinking about who likes you and who doesn't, or does he like me or not.

Live your life as if you don't need boys to make you feel better about yourself. Be confident in yourself, and know that you only need you in your world. lol.

You can take strides to make boys to like you. Hang out with them! They will get to know who you are better.

As for the friend-with-boys thing. Really, you can't do much about that. Keep in mind that in the end, the girl with big boobs always gets gyped: has sex, left with a baby and no husband. (Not to put down your friend. lol)

In short, don't think about it. Boys will LOVE you in their own time. Just know it'll come.

Sorry about the lllooooonnnng answer. Hope I helped.

Molly

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Im 20 years old, im engaged and getting married this july. and im a virgin. i am TERRIFIED of the thought of having sex. my fiance says he will respect my feelings, but it just really scares me. i dont kno what to do. i love him so much, and the idea of sex, like connecting with someone because you love them so much is nice. but im terrified of the what happens. i know that probably sounds ridiculous to a lot of people, but i could really use some advice.

Thanx

Hi. You probably shouldn't feel rediculous about this topic. Some people are ready to have sex at different times, such as 9 years old to 90 years old. Well, you know. Different ages.

You should not be ashamed, you will be ready when you are ready.

That is a really good thing that your fiance respects you, that is a good attribute in relationships. He will wait.

Don't pressure yourself to have sex when you don't want to, or are afraid to. Then, you might end up even more scared than before you did it!

However, you can (if you want) look up the facts of sex and what happens. Ask your fiance, friends, family, professionals. Maybe knowing the facts and what you are supposed to feel will calm you down. Fear is the unknowing. Get in the know!

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where can i buy cheap polos? besides old navy ? thank you :] (meaning under 25 dollers! )

for $24 at hollister...lol.
or:
~Kohls
~K-mart
~Walmart
~Target

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Okay this is kind of strange for me, I never post questions on my love life....so here it goes.

I have a boyfriend who is 17 and I am 14. (Its only a two in a half year difference, I'm almost 15) so we've been dating for about three weeks. He told me he was going to wait till' he said I love you, until he really meant it, and he did last night. The only thing is, I don't love him back, I know that for sure. But I am not even sure if I like him. He is an amazing guy. But when we kiss, I don't really feel anything. I get butterfly's when he says I love you, but other than that I don't really feel anything.
I've heard people say that you should get like butterfly's or w/e when you kiss, but I don't get them. So I don't know if I even like him.
I miss him when he is gone for long periods of time, and I look forward to seeing him and stuff. But I don't know.
I realize that this is REALLY limiting information, but from what I've told you, can you guys just kinda tell me if you think I like him or not?

If you are not happy with the relationship, but happy with the guy, you should probably consider breaking up. I have had those experiences before. The guy is CRAZY over me, but I dont want anything to do with him. lol. I want to be happy, and feel good in my relatioships, how about you?

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all my mates have kissed some1 , i havnt, what is the first kiss like and "how do you"kiss lol!
13/f
sadie x

Well, I am 15 and I have had a boyfriend now for two weeks, and we havent kissed yet. I have had previous boyfriends, but I never kissed them, because it didnt feel right. I know you are feeling left out and maybe even pushed, but the right time for kissing will come I promise. There will be a special someone in a special place. If it doesnt feel right, dont be dragged into doing it. Dont be afraid to say no. But, anyways, Itll come soon. Hope you have happy kissing!

Molly

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I'm 13/f. My clothing style consists of Hollister, Juicy, Chanel, Abercrombie, etc. I ALWAYS sweat in these clothes. Is it the material they're made of? Or is it just my body. Because my friends where these clothes too & they don't sweat AT ALL. I told my mom about this & she said to just take showers twice a day instead of once - it worked a LITTLE but I'm STILL sweating. I told my mom to take me to a doctor and see what's wrong but she said it's a serious problem - ppl who sweat like NON-STOP have a SERIOUS sweating problem. Does anyone have any ideas on what new deoderant I should switch to or anything like that? I'LL TAKE ANYTHING! xO`

Hey, I had the SAME THING happen to me. Well, my mom got me this not-so-famous brand of deodorant, and, it works so great! It is the liquid Dry Idea. You can find it at Rite-aid or Walgreens, or anyother drug store. I was sweating all the time without it. But anyways, I dont think its the type of clothes you wear. Well, hope this works for you!

~turrrrrrtlemolly

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In your opinion (meaning that if you tell me what you think you'll get a 5), do you think that people should miss out on church in order to do yardwork, study for an exam, play in a soccer tournament, etc? I just want to know what qualifies as an acceptable excuse for not going to church. What other good reasons are there for missing church? -no I'm not trying to avoid going to church-

Thanks!

I think that missing a few church days in your life will be ok. You will not be lesser of a person or a better one. Im sure it will be ok and forgiven if not.

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i have to baby sit 2 kids. ages 6 and 9. my parents are best friends with their parents so my mom doesn't want me charging them a lot because our families are really close and they live next door. they are pretty good kids - if you put them in front of a tv they're perfectly quiet for 2 hours. how much should i charge an hour for the both of them?

i rate

Well, you can try 5-6 dollars an hour as a high but not-too-high price. If its real easy, then pricing shouldnt be that much. Like 4-5 dollars. Or you can ask the parents how much they are willing to give. Hope this helps!

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Hi, well I've just start used tampons, and I'm still on my first one. It's been very well over 8 hours, and when I try to pull it out, it hurts. I'm doing it slowly, but it doesn't really budge. Also note that it is an expanding tampon. So is it a good idea to try to fill it up with water? And is it supposed to hurt a whole lot for the first time you remove it?

Well, I dont think its supposed to hurt that bad. It is supposed to feel just a tad uncomfortable durring the first uses of tampons. First, you should relax when taking it out. You can also try buying smaller sizes and non-expandable ones. Also use lubricating gel. Rub it on the tampon before you put it in and that might make it more slippery. That might help!

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how do you make those little hearts by your name when you are asking or answering a question?

You make the hearts by typing ♥ (exactly like that or it wont work) - Molly

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OK, what does it mean when a grown man has naked barbie dolls in his apt. with their hands & feet tied & tape over their mouths?

Wow... thats pretty freaky. Uh it probably means that he is a little crazy and doesnt have any self-dicipline and needs to satisfy his strange, wierd, sexual feelings.

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ok so i really like this guy but in 1 week im moving... to colorado and i live in texas i dunno what to do (i know he likes me)

Aw thats sad. But you can still keep in touch with him. Like advicenators, email or messenger, myspace, phone calls, etc. There are many ways to stay in touch. But, like most long-distance relationships they dont last long. Just remember that there are many other guys out there for you. Or your parents JUST might reconsider the move. But dont throw a temper tantrum. Thats gonna get you nowhere. (I mean to Colorado) So those are some ideas. Talk to someone like a friend or family to work it over. Hope this helped!

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My brother is graduating on Saturday and my mom and I were going to buy him roses to give to him after he goes across the stage. Well, my dad said that guys don't usually get roses/flowers and that it's just mostly for girls. So what do you guys think? Should we get him the flowers or not?

No, I dont think that would be "Proper." You can congraduate him just by saying so and being there. OR you can take him out to icecream or something afterwards. Something fun like that. Well, hope I helped...*Molly*

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alright. my boyfriend and I broke up about 4 months ago. & I still like him / havn't gotten over him yet. we only went out for 3 months. I really want him back and give it another try. He says he likes me but he also likes another girl. This girl that he likes calls him alot and shows him she cares about him, while I don't do anything bc I feel like I have no chance whatsoever. He told me that I should try ( call him and stuff) but I don't know if I should just move on or try to win him over. What would you do?

If you are absolutely sure you still like him, dont move on. Tell him that you want another try with him. You should at least tell him your feelings because if he doesnt know them, then how can he know, you know? lol. So I would just tell him. I know it can be scary cuz you guys broke up and everything, but you should just take the plunge and find out what his feelings are towards you. If hes over you, then basically its over, and you get to eat icecream and chocolate and celabrate. There are so many other people out there not just him. Hope this helped. Any other questions just ask me!!! *Molly*

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At the moment i just dont get on withh my parents at all, my mum in particuallar.
I used to think i didnt care, if we had an argument i would either lock myself in my room and play loud music or ignore them and not talk, as a sort of revenge type thing.
I thought i just wanted to get away from them. But now ive realised that i dont, that i want to be close to them, i want it to be like it used to be, when we got on well and had fun.
I cry sometimes because of this and its really getting me down.
Im 13/f.
How can i be closer to my parents and have a better relationship with them?

Hey. Well, thats a tough situation, but with time and repairing the problem things should sort out. One thing that might be a good idea is talk to them. Tell them you dont want things to be so horrible anymore and want it to be the way it used to be. If they want something out of you (Lets just say cleaning your room for example) and you never clean it, negotiate with them. Tell them you'll clean it every friday or something. Negotiation is the best way to fix a parent problem. Also, being nice to them. Give comments about the yummy dinner your mom made and then nice job your dad did on the birdhouse. Do the dishes, wash the car. Help out around the house. That can make them realize that you do want things better. Those are some of the many ways... hope I helped. **Molly**

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There is this end of the year graudation dance on June 9th. A lot of people have dates, and I really want one. Can you think of anyway that I could get a date? I talk to guys and stuff. But how do I put myself out there and show them that I wanna go with someone?

I will rate all 5s!
Thanks In Advance.

Hey. I know how that can be... not having a date. Well, do you have a crush? Maybe just think someone is cute? ASK 'EM! Talk to someone that you think doesnt have a date, or someone you know doesnt have a date. I know it can be intimidating to ask a hot stranger, but really, ask and you shall recieve. Im sure somebody will say yes. And if not, go with a good friend or just go to dance! Thats always fun. Hope I helped!

~Molly

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my bestfriends parents are mean to her..they dont hit her but they call her names and stuff..she called me crying hard and i know she cant take it! and i need to know how to help her..any ideas??


5S FOR ANYTHING SINCE THIS IS URGENT!!

I think you are her main source for comfort. They may not be able to afford a counselor, and her parents may not want her to get one. You can help her alot. My best friend is like my therapist. So you can be hers. Try and call her every day and talk about her day and yours. Try and hang out with her, and do stuff together with a bunch of friends, you know, occupy her mind and get her to try and not to worry about it. And, if possible, tell her she should talk to her 'rents about how they hurt her. Well, thats all that I can think of, but if things get worse, talk to the athorities or your parents will know what to do. Hope I helped. ^^Molly^^

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