alright. my boyfriend and I broke up about 4 months ago. & I still like him / havn't gotten over him yet. we only went out for 3 months. I really want him back and give it another try. He says he likes me but he also likes another girl. This girl that he likes calls him alot and shows him she cares about him, while I don't do anything bc I feel like I have no chance whatsoever. He told me that I should try ( call him and stuff) but I don't know if I should just move on or try to win him over. What would you do?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? HereT0Help answered Wednesday May 17 2006, 6:55 pm: well it depends if you want him back or what so ever. to me i think you want him back. try talking to him online [if he has a screenname] call him make small talk, and talk at school [if you go to the same school] i think if he says he likes you and if he thinks you should try and talk to him and get him, then i think thats a sign saying you have a good chance. the way your saying this it sounds like you can have him if you give him attetion, remind him on how it was befor. okay well i hope this helps. ♥ [ HereT0Help's advice column | Ask HereT0Help A Question ]
CraziForRey619 answered Wednesday May 17 2006, 6:09 pm: I think this guy is trouble. It's bad enough he likes 2 girls and can't choose, but to actually TELL you to fight for him? It looks to me like he wants attention so he can go run to his friends and say how he got 2 girls chasing after him. If I was you, I'd move on. There are alot more fish in the sea. [ CraziForRey619's advice column | Ask CraziForRey619 A Question ]
SHAWTii_SO0_FiNE answered Wednesday May 17 2006, 5:18 pm: truthfully i would just get over him, if he tells you to try to get him back or whatever, hes deffinetly not worth it because hes just trying to see what girl will treat him better.. well this is my opinion but i dont know him so just do what your heart tells you, and just keep up and maybe mr right will come
hope i helped =] [ SHAWTii_SO0_FiNE's advice column | Ask SHAWTii_SO0_FiNE A Question ]
TurrrrrrtleMolly answered Wednesday May 17 2006, 5:00 pm: If you are absolutely sure you still like him, dont move on. Tell him that you want another try with him. You should at least tell him your feelings because if he doesnt know them, then how can he know, you know? lol. So I would just tell him. I know it can be scary cuz you guys broke up and everything, but you should just take the plunge and find out what his feelings are towards you. If hes over you, then basically its over, and you get to eat icecream and chocolate and celabrate. There are so many other people out there not just him. Hope this helped. Any other questions just ask me!!! *Molly* [ TurrrrrrtleMolly's advice column | Ask TurrrrrrtleMolly A Question ]
here4you,emily answered Wednesday May 17 2006, 4:55 pm: Excuse me, you told him that you like him and he told you to try harder?GOD!I can't believe you like a guy like him.Who the h... does he think he is???He thinks that he is everything???You told him that you like him you haven't been egoist and took the risk without caring about rejection and the only thing he told was that??He is egoist can't you see it????Forget him..He doesn't even deserve a try..Let him be with the other one. You will not do whatever he wants because he is not sure...Come on!Get over him...
And he shouldn't tell him how you can "win" him...This shows me that he believes that he is the number one boy...Who is he?Brad Pitt????
Anyway, i told you what i think.I am really sorry if you wanted to hear sth else but this is what i believe...Kisses and good luck with this one... [ here4you,emily's advice column | Ask here4you,emily A Question ]
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