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about my boyfriend what do you think
ok i am 14 and a female and i am dating a 16 year old he is very nice and we have been going out for 3 weeks i have known him for like 2 years and he is one of my best friends brothers and all my friends are kool with it and everything but ok i have made a decision that if we are together for a while i am probably gonna give it up to him if u no wat i mean so ya but he said that he doesnt want to do it til im ready
(this isnt really a questions its more like i just want an answer on wat you think about this please right bak
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Well the way i see it is that you really like this guy your a virgin and you think you will stau with him for a while and if you do your gonna let him take it from your right? Well if thats the case then let me give you a little advice. Make sure it is really what you want to do becouse if you let him take it then you break up what do you have? nothin so ask your self that before you do it i mean you are only a virgin once and when its gone theres no getting it back so unless you really think your gonna STAY with him i wouldnt let him do it.. Hope i helped bye.
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it`s good that he`s willing to wait, but don`t rush it, because you might regret it. you should really see how things are going with him and if you truly positively absolutely trust him, then you should consider giving it up to him.
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I believe that you should wait until your married but there are some situations where it feels right. If you feel you are ready for this then you should do it. The question is because there is always a chance, are you ready to become a mother? If you are then you are completely ready for this. I have had so many friends sleep with their best friends and then end up never being together again and also others who had to stay with them because they got pregnant. There is always a chance of becoming pregenant no matter how safe it is. But if you think you are ready to take that kind of responsibility then go for it.
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I know a lot of people are going to be telling you that you're too young to have sex or be in love. But that is not the case. Even though you're young, you can still fall in love. Love has no age. You can fall in love at any age. My suggestion to you is to only have sex when you're 100% ready. If you truly feel like this is the guy and you want to lose your virginity to him, than do so. If you're having ANY second thoughs in your mind, you're obviously not ready for the next stuff. Make sure you're 100% ready, you're in love and you're comfortable with him.
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if you are having to ask people whether or not we think you are ready to have sex, then you are more than likely not ready.
when the time comes, you won't have any worries, you won't have any second thoughts in the back of your head.
dont make the same mistake i did, and lose your virginity to someone who really didn't even mean that much to you.
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I don't know where you live, or what your home life is like. Or any of that.
But, if your not inlove with him, don't do it. Its not special, if your not.
Now the risks.
-STDs [ I don't know, he could have it. aha]
-Being called names. Like a major slut, helloo. I wouldn't want a bad reputation, if I were you.
-Gettnig pregant. Ew who would want that, I'm 14 & i'm not read to have no kids.
-The fact, of him dumping you.. getting hurt by him, when he breaks up with you... something like that.
-Your parents finding out. OMG. don't want that. & even if you say they won't, they eventually will.. uhh, I don't know about your parents, but my parents would freakkk out.
Is it that important to you, that you have to do with him? Is he really truly that great? I mean, I don't know about you.. but I have alot of confidence in myself, to the point where I know.. i'm a whole lot better.. that I don't need to sleep with a guy, to make him stay with me, longer or something.
Those are just SOME things that I could think of at the top of my head. I'd think about what your getting yourself into, before you jump into things.
Hope I helped kbye.
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Hm, this is kind of tough to answer, besides the seemingly generic 'you're not ready', but it seems as though he has your best interest in mind. Don't make any quick decisions, because as cliche as it may sound, having sex is a decision that you can't take back. Fourteen is a very young age, too young to understand most emotions. I'm sure you'll do what is right for you but you might also want to think about what is wrong for you. Weigh the consequences and your boyfriend's response and ask yourself why you made your decision. Thinking doesn't mean right or wrong but it always helps to just slow down a bit.
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