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Falling for the Tough Guy


Question Posted Wednesday October 4 2006, 10:15 am

Ok there is this guy (18 a junior in high school) and me (19 and a freshmen in college) and he likes me a lot and i kind of like him. you see the problems are:

1. i dated his older brother..
2. and i'm best friends with his cousin
3. and he continues to play games with me or plays hard to get.

i don't know what to do. is that right for me to thinking of dating this guy? i never dated anyone younger. any suggestions?


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BitsandPieces answered Wednesday October 4 2006, 9:49 pm:
The number 3 on your list could be trouble if he is still that immature. You are also going to have to trust that he is not with highschool girls and of course, have to reject all the hot college men you'll meet. If you do date him, don't get set on it being too exclusive or serious. Just have fun, and quit when it stops being fun!

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karisue answered Wednesday October 4 2006, 9:40 pm:
sometimes guys think that a challenge is what we want, even though that may not be the case.
some younger guys are immature, but there is only a year different between you two, and i don't see anything wrong with that.
there isn't anything wrong with the fact that you know his family a little well, it all comes down to whether or not you have feelings for him.
if you are attracted to him, and his little games, then go for it.
but if you are the least bit unsure, more than likely, you don't want to be with him.

i hope i helped.

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make_a_wish_11_11 answered Wednesday October 4 2006, 10:38 am:
ok well if your a freashman in college , it would kind of be hard to see him as much as you probably would want to , unless your going to a college that is close by . if hes for sure interested in you , next time he flirts with you - just flirt back !! if EVENTUALLY he asks you out and if at that time you want to be with him , then just do what you think feels right . it may be sort of awkward since you dated his older brother , but if your comfortable with it , he should be to . and since you are best friends with his cousin , that doesnt really affect anything . maybe you guys could all hang out , so thatd be cool . any more concerns or questions , my sn is x3MOxL0V3x or hanstastic23083 [ their linked ] i hope i helped ..


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