hey everybody . i LOVE giving advice because ive had a lot happen to me so i can like , relate to EVERYTHING there is out there .. not exagerating .. so you can really ask me anything , and i can easily base it on my own expeirience and tell you what is the best decision . [ spelling SUCKS i know im a dumbass ]
E-mail: fudgechoclate123@aol.com
Gender: Female
Location: the projects of chicago
Occupation: comedian
Age: 14
AIM: hanstastic23083
Member Since: September 25, 2006
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Ok there is this guy (18 a junior in high school) and me (19 and a freshmen in college) and he likes me a lot and i kind of like him. you see the problems are:
1. i dated his older brother..
2. and i'm best friends with his cousin
3. and he continues to play games with me or plays hard to get.
i don't know what to do. is that right for me to thinking of dating this guy? i never dated anyone younger. any suggestions? (link)
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ok well if your a freashman in college , it would kind of be hard to see him as much as you probably would want to , unless your going to a college that is close by . if hes for sure interested in you , next time he flirts with you - just flirt back !! if EVENTUALLY he asks you out and if at that time you want to be with him , then just do what you think feels right . it may be sort of awkward since you dated his older brother , but if your comfortable with it , he should be to . and since you are best friends with his cousin , that doesnt really affect anything . maybe you guys could all hang out , so thatd be cool . any more concerns or questions , my sn is x3MOxL0V3x or hanstastic23083 [ their linked ] i hope i helped ..
hanna
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i really need help. like, from a pyschatrist. and i really don't know how to ask my parents.
but first i wanted to ask everyone on here a few questions.
IF YOU HAVE BEEN TO A SHRINK;
-- is it weird talking to them?
-- does it really help?
-- how did you ask your parents?
-- how does it work? like the visits?
thank you everyone that takes the time to answer. (link)
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i had the same exact problem like a year[ish] ago . in my opinion its not weird talking to them at allll . its just a person who wants to help you .. all you do is tell them your problems and they tell you what you should do to either calm down, get passed it, or make it better. i didnt come straight out to my parents , i just dropped little hints.. like telling her i had a horrible day at school .. refusing to go back .. acting depressed all the time [wasnt acting actaully] and things like that .. if she starts to get worried , your mom er somethin would prolly ask you about it . just be like ITS KINDA HARD TO TALK ABOUT THIS STUFF TO A PARENT , MOM/DAD .. MAYBE YOU COULD GET ME IN TO A PYSHATRIST . THAT WOULD REALLY HELP ME ! then shell look into it - hoepfully . if she never asks about it , bring it up . be like mom i have some problems and its hard to relate to you so maybe i could seek professinol help er somethin . please i/m me on AIM .. im really interested in how things go . hanstastic23083 .. hope i helped ..
hanna
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How do you get that "smokey eye" look. with out it being too much?
i have tannish skin and brown eyes. what are some good products that i would need?
and can you tell me how to do it?
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hehe :] i have tanish skin and brown eyes . anyway .. since you said you dont want it to be too much hers a link - http://beauty.about.com/od/allaboutyoureyes/ht/smokeyes.htm .. that should help .. and with the good products , i always think MAC is awesome for dramatic, sexy, but not over-doing it . hoped i helped ..
hanna
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I'm really confused about my sexuality. There are so many things that turn me on. I have no idea which ones for me. I don't know if I'm gay, straight, or bi. I don't know what I'm into. I'm so ashamed of the things that get to me. I mean we're talking like Jerry Springer style wierd. I have no idea what to do. I can't go out and experiment to find what I like because I can't even get a date, yet alone a sexual encounter, and even worse of a chance of getting a kinky sexual encounter. I'm so confused. I'm so scared. What can I do? I know it's naive to ask how to get rid of it, but what can I do? Please help me.
16/m (link)
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in my opinion , this happens to everybody .. EVERYONE i know has questioned their sexuality at least once . i did when i was like 12 , and i turned out to be bi . you dont nessicarly have to get rid of it tho . just think about it .. would you go out with a guy , or would you go out with a girl .. or .. would you consider both ? [ and about the things that turn you on .. if they turn you on , they turn you on ! haha . its no biggy .. everybody has a different way of getting "aroused" er w/e . yours is just unique . get back to me on AIM with some more questions or concerns , `ight ? hanstastic23083 . hoped i helped
hanna
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hi ,
it is my girlfreinds birthday on sunday which is 5 days away and i want to get her sumthing really special but not too meaningful and she has been having a hard time lately and i just want her to be happy but im not sure what to get her and idea's..?sumthing that will say i love you and neevr want to let you go but then somthing tht is funni and that she will cherish..and really like would be greatfully appreciated
thankyou..tyron..:) (link)
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oh my god, you're so cute . hahaha .. well , if you want to get her something that shows you care but not TOO serious or meaningful [ as you said , something she will cherish ] - all girls LOVE big teddy bears . and you can get her a cute card with it .. like with a ribbon on the bear or something . hoped i helped .. hanna
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