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Last night my 2 best friends & I went to the moves planned to be with the guy we liked, it was a scary movie so we thought we might hook up with them. Well the guy I used to like could come he was out of state for the weekend so I invited a nother friend who happened to be my ex from a long time ago, 2 years atleast. Well we went to see The Grudge 2 & my hand brushed his in the theratre & he grabbed it, then half way through the movie he put his arm around me & he would pull me close when there was going to be a scary part. I had never felt so right about anything, it was perfect. How he touched me, oh so gently gave me butterflies. Well here is the bad part - he & a good friend of mine just broke up 2 days before this. Its not like he broke up with her, she dumped him & I asked her if she had feelings for him still & she told me no, but I still feel bad. Should I just consider this a one night stand, or should I make it into a realationship ?
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if you like him, then there isn't anything wrong with this.
if your friend plainly told you, that she no longer has feelings for him, then she is basically telling you that he's free to make his own decisions now & you can do the same.
go for it gal, it sounds like he's into you also
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If you really like this guy and think you guys would be good together, then why not turn it into a relationship?
But firstly, to not create drama or anything and just to set the record straight before you pursure anything, talk to your friend about it. Let her know you're sort of developing feelings for this guy, and is she totally sure she's over him, and would it be alright for you to ask him out. If she says she's not quite over him yet, then just let her know you understand and then just wait for her to get over it. Because just going ahead and dating him will be showing her you don't care much for her feelings and it'll just make unwanted drama. And then just explain to him that you really do like him, but your friend is still trying to get over it, so you want to wait awhile. But if she doesn't mind, that's great! :D
He sounds like a really nice guy and everything, so if she doesn't mind you going out with him, I wouldn't pass the chance up.
I hope I helped.
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