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im taking birth control, but i haven't had sex in over 7 months now. i missed 2 periods already with being on the pill. whats going on?! im a little concerned..

some birth control pills are suppose to do that, and some make you only have about 4 periods a year. idk what kind ur taking so i cant help you there but just ask you doctor, if you havent had sex in 7 months, you're not pregnant or anything so i wouldnt worry

good luck ♥

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i like this man but i can't tell if he likes me back help!!!!!!!!!!

just ask him. what can it hurt? if he never liked you before its not going to change that, and if he does it might be an ice breaker for both of you.

good luck

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ok so this guy asked me out. and i dont know if i like him or not. he is really nice and cool and i dont want to hurt his feelings by saying no. but i dont know if i like him!

i dont really know him. i only hung out with him once. im so confused. i dont know what to do!!!!!!

PLEASE HELP!!! ill rate 5's for anything.

if you go out with him you can get to know him.
he might just be the greatest guy in the world, and you wouldnt even know unless you gave him a chance. you said yourself he's really nice and cool, so what could it hurt? give him a little time and if you decide you dont like him, just tell him its not gonna work out, he should understand.

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What is the difference between a moonroof and sunroof?


I need very good details.

sunroof-moves,you can stand up in it ect.
moonroof- just for looks, basically just a window

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I wore all of my favorite shirts last summer at camp and it was really hot there so everyone sweat a lot. Is there any way to get rid of pit stains? I don't want to have to toss my favorite shirts, but it's really gross!

i just answered a question kinda like this so ill just give you that answer again!
i had this problem too, and i asked my doctor about it and he said i probably wasnt using a deoderant with strong enough anti-perspirant. so i started using "Mitchum" its for both male/female and it works really good. and you can get it at target for less than $5. put it on a few minutes before you put your shirt on and it should last all day, or atleast several hours. take it in your purse or backpack if you need to redo it in the bathroom or something later in the day. good luck!

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Im 15/f and i tend to sweat a lot. Even if im not cold i sweat under my arm pits without even knowing it. I always want to wear a sweatshirt over my t-shirt because it gets bad. Yes i wear deoderant! I've tried like every kind out there and nothing seems to take away the wetness. Its embarrasing because everytime i lift up my arms people see this big ole sweat "puddle" is there anything that will help??? Thanks a lot!!!

i had this problem too, and i asked my doctor about it and he said i probably wasnt using a deoderant with strong enough anti-perspirant. so i started using "Mitchum" its for both male/female and it works really good. put it on a few minutes before you put your shirt on and it should last all day, or atleast several hours. take it in your purse or backpack if you need to redo it in the bathroom or something later in the day. good luck!

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I'm not exactly sure what I'm looking for; what kind of advice I need. I don't even know if I need advice.

I'm 13/f, btw.

Last year (2005), during the summer, I met with a guy I knew over the internet. He'd told me that he was 14, and lived about 30 miles from my house. I met up with him, and well, it turned out he wasn't exactly what I expected. Things happened, that, well, weren't exactly supposed to happen. I personally just don't like the term "rape" but sure, lets use it. Since, no matter how much I hate the word, it's what happened.

I've done a pretty good job at hiding it from everyone. Luckily, I have heavy periods, and so I was on the pill at the time to make my bleeding lighter, so I didn't get pregnant. I was 12 at the time. Should I be hiding it from everyone? I've told three people so far. One of them, it was on accident, but she ignored it as if I had never said it. I've also told a good guy friend of mine, let's call him Anthony, but I don't think I can really trust him with the information. And I've also told my boyfriend, let's call him Andrew. He thinks I should tell someone, the poliece, or something. But I refuse to. It's just a weird feeling. I don't really want people to know, I don't really want people to do anything about it. But I don't know, should I tell more people? Like my mom, or the poliece? The guy, well, he told me that if I ever told anyone about it he'd track me down and kill me. And I know some people would think it stupid to listen to a threat like that, but I don't know. I really just don't know what to do. It's like it keeps coming back to haunt me. I was doing a good job at ignoring it, forgeting about it, but lately, it just hasnt been working.

Sorry it's so long.

thats why you dont meet people over the internet.

If i was you id tell my mom. you dont have to tell the police right away, just tell your mom and she can handle it. it's been a long time since you waited to tell anyone, im not sure if the police would be able to do anything about it now, but if you want to get him in trouble its worth a shot for what he did.

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What are those white squishy plastic things used for packaging called? I think they're styrofoam. Do they even have a name? I need it for a paper...

Thanks

packing peanuts

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I don't usually confront boys about how they feel about me. i've known this one boy for about 3 weeks, and we've talked every single day and before it used to be like we were rushing to talk to each other. we had amazing conversations.

this week, there has been a decline. i can tell that we both don't really put our all into conversations, that there are bigger priorities in terms of people to talk to. so i called him, and asked him what he thought we were, just friends?

he told me "yeah.. we're just friends.. but whatever happens..happens.." "of course we'll be friends, but down the line, i don't know."

what is that supposed to mean? can you break it down for me, because when it happens to me i have such a hard time understanding exactly what he means by that!

he's saying that right now you're just friends, but the more you get to know each other and the more you hang out, then maybe in the future you guys will be more than just friends.

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Ok, theres this boy I know, and have known for like, ever, and he has started picking on me here latley. My Grandma says he likes me, but I dont think so. He is cute and all, but I dont if I like him. I think of him more as a friend also, so, why do you think he is acting that way, and what do I say? I kinda like him, I just have a hard time thinking of him as a BOYFRIEND and not a FRIEND. Please help me out!

only you know if you like him in that way or not. just be yourself around him & dont make it obvious that you're even thinking any of this. especially if you only want him as a friend. or just be honest with him and ask him how he feels about you and if he likes you then just let him know you can only be his friend

good luck ♥

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etopic pregnancy...? just curiuos i mean i kno its a dumb question but im just wondering...

i think you mean ectopic, but its when a fertilized egg has implanted outside the uterus, usually in the fallopian tubes, instead of where its suppose to be.

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Do hickies hurt when people give them to you? I'm so confused about it...

they dont unless he sucks too hard, and it would only hurt at that time, not later on or anything.

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ok i just wrote a preivious question yesturday askin wat i should do aobut my boyfriend n today we like got in the "moment" and we had sex and weve been only dating for awhile and then like 2 hours after it happened i finally got the nerve to call him and break up with him because i dont have feelings for him like sum one should if there in a relationship, now i feel like a whore like i just slept with him n now i broke up with him.. wat r people gonna think wat are my friends gonna think... that shouldnt matter but it does to me n i just dont kno wat to do its all just so confusing i just dunno wat to do i cant even talk to my ex now cuz of wat just haoppened he probably thinks its cuz we had bad se(it wasnt) oh if i just uused him and this is all running througfh my head n i just dunno wat to do or think will sum 1 please please help me!!
thanx

that doesnt make you a whore, you were only with him and he was your bf. i know it might be hard but just let it go. things happen, and they happen for a reason.

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I did alot of exercises yesterday.. I mean alot.. and my legs are like sore! I fell going up the stairs cause they were so sore today at school.. they are still sore to i have ball practice everyday and i also have gym how could I get my legs from not being sore?

if it hurts that bad you're either overdoing it or your body isnt use to it. maybe both. just work your way up to how much you work out..start out at a little and do more each day. & stretch no matter what.

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Is "Best I Ever Had (Grey Sky Morning)" by Vertical Horizon a remake of another song?

the country version is by gary allan

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Okay so my boyfriend and I want to go farther and we are thinking about anal sex. I know it's going to hurt and all but all of the people I've talked to said it only hurts for a little bit. Can someone help me that has had it before and tell me like if it really hurts and if its something I should definitely not do?

hopefully you like foreplay. it helps alot, make sure you do it before he actually goes in. after he does make sure he stays away from your vagina until he cleans himself up because it could cause an infection. the slower he goes the easier and less painful itll be for you. obviously its going to hurt, but there will be pleasure also, thats what sex is.

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The other night I had sex. My period left about 8 hours before I had sex that night. All of a sudden in the middle of me and my boyfriend doing it, I started bleeding. It was weird thought because we stopped having sex and the next morning, nothing was on the tampon. Did I bleed because I had my period or could I have just been sensitive down there?

it might not've gone away completely before you guys had sex, but it also could be because of sensitivity. either way its not a big deal just becareful.

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How many calories are in a coffee roll at dunkin donuts?

too many.

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Sorry this is long but I WILL RATE!

Ok so my friend we'll call her Kim liked this guy well call him Bob. Well Kim was kinda scared to talk to him and see if Bob liked her so I did. He wouldn't tell me if he liked her or not and that not a hard question so for the next few days my school had some field trips and he was on my buss and the buss ride i kept asking who he liked if he liked her or not, still he wouldn't tell. So then i told him i'd annoy him till he told me, and he was like what ever. So then for them on for like a week i'd see him in the hall and for about 2-3 minutes for the next week i'd annoy him. I could see he was getting annoy so i kinda stopped a little. And since then i stopped and recently he said told me that he was getting annoyed and i don't get how i havn't mentioned or asked who he likes or Kim since Friday. I just don't get it i stopped annoying and he's still annoyed why?! And he'll IM like everytime he's on and I usually talk and he just says on or two worded answer then signs off when i start to talk him. And my other friend keeps bring the whole subject up and I just don't know what to do should i talk to him about the situation (i don't relaly know him to well so that might be hard) or should i just stop talking him or just forget the whole situation or even something totally diffrent.

Please give me some advice!! I WILL RATE!!!!!!!!

just forget about it, you tried thats all that matters. if she really likes him she can tell him herself, or ask him.

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does crying make you loose weight ?

unfortunately, no

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