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anal sex
Okay so my boyfriend and I want to go farther and we are thinking about anal sex. I know it's going to hurt and all but all of the people I've talked to said it only hurts for a little bit. Can someone help me that has had it before and tell me like if it really hurts and if its something I should definitely not do?
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hopefully you like foreplay. it helps alot, make sure you do it before he actually goes in. after he does make sure he stays away from your vagina until he cleans himself up because it could cause an infection. the slower he goes the easier and less painful itll be for you. obviously its going to hurt, but there will be pleasure also, thats what sex is.
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Make sure that you do a lot of foreplay it will help you relax. It's very important that you are relaxed. It's also a good idea to use a condom with lubrication because it'll go easier. The people you talked to are right. Here's a website that might help you understand better.
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Very much like the way a hymen breaks in the vagina the first time a woman has sex, a ring of nerves in the anus will break when penetrated, as well, so it will be painful, no matter what anyone has told you. The amount of pain and how long it lasts depends on your partner: the slower he goes and the more carefully he prepares himself before he goes in, the easier it'll be for you.
Just be aware that a woman really can't get any pleasure by anal stimulation alone. It's really more for the man than it is for the woman. It depends on what your tastes are but if your partner pays attention to pleasuring you as well as himself, it can actually be a pretty enjoyable experience.
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Although the safest and best way to keep unneeded drama and situations out of a relationship is to not have sex, going further is okay just so long as both parties involved are fully ready and willing. You first need to be aware of all the risks involved. No, chances are you can't get pregnant from it, although there is a possibility if his "stuff" reaches near your vagina. So make sure you are careful and aware of that. It is going to be painful because there are so many nerve endings back there. You also run the risk of STDs and even possible bleeding and internal damage. If I were you and I HAD to have anal sex, I would first talk with my boyfriend about why y'all are choosing to further the relationship in that manner. There are so many other ways to grow in a relationship. Also, I would make sure to have him wear a condom. Whatever you do decide, know it's going to hurt, the severity varies from person to person. :)
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