i think i'm anorexic... i really don't know what to do but i love the way i feel when i don't eat! but i'm just so fat! i went from 87 to 100 in a couple months and now i never want to eat anything and even if i do i don't... i can stand the way i look and i wanna change. NOW. i think im' anorexic and i don't know what to do
Talk to your parents..Tell them the problem you think you have with not eating & tell them you need help before it gets to late..
There are alot of people who are willing to help young girls with this..
♥Dez
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ok there is this guy i have talked about befor and well i asked him out for my friend because we both liked him and he told me to tell her he had a girlfriend so i did then for the next few weeks he keep flirting with me then he like missed a week of school then yesterday at school he was pokeing me in my sides and like we both help the spechel kids and he told me i was comeing with him to a class with the kids so i did then i left early to take one back and he got back and he hugged me witch is weird because i have never ever seen him hug some one what is up with him
Well i think since you don`t want to hurt your friend then maybe stay away from him or talk to her about how you like him and things that have been going on..
Don`t like sound cocky like [He likes me and not you] Or something like that but just mention to her like you would want to be approached with something like this..
Honestly,I think he likes you more then a friend..So i also think you should talk to him as well about how he feels or even likes you..Then tell him what you want and how you like him as well..
♥Dez
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im kind of embaressed...but like, i masturbate and i think its gross and i know everyone says its not gross and its compltely natural and everyone does it and its not a big deal, but i cant help how i feel you know? but im trying to do it less like only once a week or something and (this sounds dumb) i told god that i would only once a week but it seems like i cant and i've done t like three times already and im worried im going to go to hell for lying to god...and i feel really stupid but i just wanted to ask someone...
Ask for forgiveness.. GOd will forgive.. Just so you don`t feel bad about something like this again you might not want to make promises to God..♥Dez
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My friend collects model horses (like the plastic ones, etc). I'm fine with it, but I'm just curious to know what people think about it. What are your opinions?
Actually,I find it very cool..I`m guessing thats her favorite animal..Tons of people collect plastic modeled figures of their favorite animal or car or whatever..Like some girls collect dolls.. I think she just does her own thing which is cool..
Just curious but why do you want our opinion?
♥Dez
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Iam 16 years old and I only wear a 36 A bra and my mom wears a triple D bra arn't I suppose to be bigger to?
Have you ever asked her how big she was at your age?
Depending on how much weight she has gained and how many children she`s had might be why her breast are also so big..
Just because your mother is big doesn`t mean you are going to be too..Your sixteen also you have some years before reaching a bigger size but unless you gain alot of weight or have children i highly doubt you`ll be the same size..
♥Dez
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so i am dating this guy and he just got out of rehab and we dated a month in the summer then broke up and thats when he want to rehab well hes back and me and him have hooked up again well he was doing good and not using drugs but last wednesday he relapsed which means he went back to using...well he had a bad trip and had to go to the hosiptal and then he was put on house arrest well monday he had court to see if he had to go back to rehab or juvie..well i called and his dad said he won't be home until next monday which means he is rehab or juvie...and i dont know if i should stay with him? alot happend this summer with me and him i got pregant with his kid but i miscarried and we've been through alot together so should i stay with him? PLEASE GIVE ADVICE ASAP! thanks * aleah*
Woah i`m very sorry to hear this..
This is how i look at it my dad went in and out of rehabs..
Alright well i would think if he loved you and stuff he would want to stay away from that stuff and want to be with you..He puts drugs before you so he apparently isn`t ready for a steady good relationship..I think stayin by his side is a very good thing and i can understand that it must be hard for you but i think bein a friend for him is what he needs.. I wouldn`t stay with him as more then that at this moment and i would jump back into a relationship with him soon as he gets out of rehab or whatever because that doesn`t mean he is doin it for himself or you he is just there because he has to be..
See there is a difference in wanting to be there for himself and being put there..he is going to have to want to be there.. So i`d wait til he reaches that point and isn`t on drugs before having him as more..♥Dez
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I just started seeing this guy not too long ago, and last night at his house we were talking about sex and I asked him how many girls he'd been with, and he said 10. Then he just told me (I didn't ask) that he lost his virginity when he was NINE years old! I guess I started freaking out a little, and thought he was lying and I blurted out "How could you do that?! You were still a little boy!!" And that really hurt him and he got this sad look on his face and I just wanted to shoot myself for being so mean to him. He kept saying it was okay, but I will still never forget that look on his face...
Well later that night he was driving me home and ALL I could think about was how young his was. I don't know my feelings about it fully, but I know that no 9 year old should be having sex or even thinking about it. I don't know why I'm still bothered about this, I'm trying to look past it but every time I think about him, I think about this. I don't want to, I really really like this guy and I want it to work out.
So the question is: How do I get past this? Have any of you been in the same situation before, or similar to it?
Thanks for any and all help! I'll rate good!
This is just a possiblilty..Maybe something happen to him as a young child..Not sayin it did but their are sick people in this world..That could of been a possibility of a sad face..[this was just a thought that came to mind]
Also kids are curious even at the age of nine and do things not thinkin of their future with a girlfriend or future boyfriend.. You can`treally hold this against him..I can understand what you are thinkin because honestly i thought things because my boyfriend of 2 years lost his virginity at the age of 12..Geeze i thought that was awful but i talked to him about it and i just told myself thats his past and he was a young kid i can`t blame him for being curious cause myself at that age was a bit curious [Not about sex but kissing and hugging] I think boys are mosr curious bout things like that my brother the age 11 talks about doing girls and his little friends and i`m just like what the hell is worng with kids..
Gettin past this i know will be a bit hard especially if you are going to lose your virginity to him you might want the same in return [Thats how i felt] But just think about things i mentioned and other peoples response to this question..♥Dez
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where can i find Dove Face Care Essential Nutrients for skin so healthy it glows Cleansing Cloths, for Regular skin by Dove? it was at drugstore.com,but does that mean it would be at cvs/brooks/wallmart or stuff like that? im not sure,thanks for the help :)
You can find it at any drug stores.. Try CVS Walmart K Mart Walgreens and Target.. ♥Dez
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Well lately my armpits have been getting SO sweaty. It's pretty cold where I am an i don't know why they're like that? And if they stay like that I don't know what I'm gonna do wearing tee's in the summer. So I have a couple questions:
Does shaving your pits help them not sweat as much?
Is there any deoderant that works for it? (Only answer if you've TRIED it though)
Thanks so much!
i think shaving maight help some cause the hair might hold and odor but i`m not sure if it`ll help you stop sweating so much..
Certain Dri is a good deoderant..♥Dez
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does any know where i can figures of captain oats and princess sparkle from the O.C.??
Thanks in advance!
Try ebay..♥Dez
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Ok so I have these invisible bumps on my thighs and I don't know how to get rid of them. I've tried lotion but it doesn't seem to work. How can i get rid of these bumps and make my legs smoothhhh?
Try Johnson`s baby body wash.. get a new razor and afterwards use Sally Hansons after shaking stuff..Or Johnson's baby lotion..♥Dez
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I have red bumps on my armpits and i think it is from Shaving. How do i get rid of these bumps and still be able to shave at the same time?
Any recommended razors, shaving cream, lotion, or anything that will help treat and prevent these bumps?
I think shaving with shaving cream or Johnson`s baby wash would be good..
Afterwards,Use Dove deorderant..♥Dez
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Ok i had invited 6 of my guy friends over and we were just hanging out in my room. We got sort of bored so we decided to play truth or dare (haha i know). The dares were pretty embarrassing. Everyone had done their dare, so when it was my turn i was in no position to turn mine down. They dared me to make out with my friend Derek until the song they picked out ended. Of course the song they picked was like 4 minutes long. It was odd kissing someone of the same sex, but i kind of liked it. After about a minute we got sort of into it and he started to take of my shirt and kissing my neck. The other guys were laughing so hard. So it was finally over and around 12:00 the guys headed back home. But Derek stayed a little longer. I really wanted to kiss him again so i went for it and, it went a lot farther than i expected...
So the next day he snuck out at like 5 in the morning before my parents were awake and i went back to sleep. I woke up around 8 to head to school and as i was eating breakfast my mom pointed out the hickey i had on my neck. She was like who gave you that, because you didn't have it yesterday and i was like i have to go. So i drove to school totally embarrassed. Just my luck at lunch my gf noticed the hickey and got really pissed and asked me who did it and i didn't know what to say. So now my gf won't talk to me and my mom wants to know what happened. I am also very confused how i feel. I wasn't really attarcted to my gf, but i really did enjoy being with Derek, so does that make me gay? And Derek called and asked if i wanted to go out with him but i don't know if i should. Should i tell my mom and my gf the truth?
Thank you, sorry it was long
I think breaking up with your girlfriend might be one thing you should probably do.. Not because you made out with your friend but because you said your not attracted to her..I mean i know i`d be hurt..Honestly,I don`t think your gay yeah you might be and it even might be a difiant thing but teens experiment alot.. You might think later i like girls or whatever..You might even be Bisexual..
I think telling your girlfriend the truth is always the best thing to do in my opinion..But in a situation like thins i`m not sure because you don`t want to tell your mom and girlfriend that and then later think something different..Teens seem to change their minds alot..Trust me i know.. Also about the hickey i think i`d lie a bit til i knew how i felt and for sure knew my sexuality..I would say me and my friend were playing and he pitched and twisted my skin..I would maybe get the guy friend you made out with to go along with it..
if you want to go out with this guy to see if you actually like males then i think that`ll be a good idea..I wouldn`t suggest the movies or something go somewhere you can hang out and talk.. Maybe a resturant..I wouldn`t try talking at one of each others houses because that might just lead to making out and stuff..♥Dez
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ok does anyone know if L'Oreal SUBLIME GLOW Daily Moisturizer Fair Skin Tones makes you look orange? because i dont want people to think im using fake tanner and if i go from white to orange people will know so please give me you best experiences and what things work. (im very pale but i tan easily)
I would test it first..
Like put it on a spot thats not going to be noticeable and then see how that turns out..
If it turns orange don`t use it and if you don`t then go ahead.. But usually stuff like that streaks and stuff.. Best of luck ♥Dez
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How much does it cost to break a two year contract with SUNCOM and switch to Cingular?
i think like $150-$200.. Depending on the company but most are like $200.. Just call and ask they`ll tell you..♥Dez
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ahh what do i do??
Ask what he`d like for you to change.. Maybe just do pecking like kisses Personally i think their better.. ♥Dez
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While i was helping my guy friend from work at work he said i was a distraction for him, what does that mean?
I would think that means he likes you.. ♥Dez
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My mom is making me get braces soon and i think i have a choice of colors. What color would you pick and why?
Thanks
I`d choose my favorite colors.. But really i wouldn`t want to get anything that stands out cuz you don`t want people all up in your mouth.. ♥Dez
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Okay Ive heard that Jamie Lynn Spears goes to Mccomb Highschool. Ive also heard that she goes to Parklane Accademy. Which one is it? Thanks in advance!
PS:I really want to know because I live near there and maybe I could meet her.
I don`t know the answer and i really don`t know if you could look that up on the internet.. Maybe call the schools or if you know somebody who goes to one of those schools ask them.. But really there isn`t anyway to know.. ♥Dez
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My cat is in heat...what can I do to stop her from bleeding/cuming...or being in heta for less time?
You can`t do anything about this but you can get your cat spayed and then your cat wouldn`t be in heat anymore or ever again.. It costs a bit of money tho..♥Dez
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