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So im 13 now but when i was 11 i got my period and ironically we were going to a waterpark that day and my sister suggested putting a tamp up so i wouldnt bleed everywhere, so i tryed and i started crying and really mad like How do you do this??!!?? this stupid thing doesnt go up, wth?! and my mom would be like their are two holes, and shed say make sure you put it in the right hole, and im like wtf? how the f*** do you expect me to put something up my vagina at 11 and know where its supposed to go?! basically freaking out...but anyways now i use them all the time, prbly more than i should but i bleed heavy and i hate wearing thick long pads that feel like diapers :/ sooooo...when the first, first time i did it when i was crying and what not trying push it up...i dont think i read the instructions and if i did i didnt understand them at all, and all of a sudden this big splatt of blood drips out, so im wondering now if i popped my cherry because of the tampon? i was on my period that day (mind you i had my period all ready for about a month then) sooo was that my period or was it my hymen breaking? im confused :S thnx much for the help! ;) (link)
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First thing you should know,. You don't actually have a cherry to pop. The idea of popping your cherry is ripping your skin down there that is connected. You might be using the wrong size of tampons. They come in various sizes. Sometimes it hurts to put it in,. but it shouldn't hurt
24-7. Then try a smaller size.
Hope this helps:)
~JAsmine*
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Im an 11 yr old girl + i aint started my periods yet but how willl i know when i have + whats the best advice that you can give to me ? (link)
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It happens to everyone at different times, and ages. Just because it hasn't happened to you yet,. does not mean it won't. Just remember it's part of becoming awoman,.
Don't wear white pants around your period and always keep a spare thong in your purse. haha.
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so today there was some fourth of july events and i was expecting to see my two best friends there (lets call them sue and sally) i saw sue with this other girl who i know and i walk over and im like heey! and she keeps walking looks at me for 1 second says hey then says to the other girl "oh there they are!" and just leaves me.. then later i see sue and sally together and i walk over again and im like heey sup? and they say hey we're leaving and i make a joke awkwardly and they just leave. now sue had texted me yesterday asking me to hang out.. and i havent saw sally in forever so i wanted to hang out with both of them. So now like 6 hours later i see on facebook they're with sally's sister, another girl, and MY good friend who sue said she hates and sally's sister said she hates. So yeah. AND i asked sue earlier today on email what was going on and i know shes online but she never replied.. ;\ and just like friday we were all hanging out and having fun so i dunno why they're ditching me.. (link)
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You need to talk to them both face to face,. and ask them why they are acting like this,. because friends should never treat you like shit like that. So something is definetly up.
Just talk to them face to face and don't let them tell you that nothing is wrong because something is obviously up.
Hope this helps:)
~Jasmine*
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Is 12 to young to wear a G-String (thong)? PS I'm actually 13 (link)
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In my opinion yes it is,. You have your whole life to experience different styles and you don't want a slut stamp to be labeled on you just for trying something new.
Hope this helps:)
~Jasmine*
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im 15 almost 16 and ive never gotten kissed before, and im scared and not sure what to do. what if we bump noses or something. any suggestions? thanks. and same with making out. thanks!
melissa
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It's something that comes naturally,. If you bump noses just laugh it off. and don't be ashamed because it's not a bad thing to be young and haven't kissed someone,. Plus you have your whole life infront of you, Don't worry about it so much,. it will happen when it's meant to happen.
Hope this helps:)
~Jasmine*
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i hung out with my boyfriend last night. he introduced me to some of his cousins and by the end of the night me, my best friend, boyfriend, and his cousin ended up going to the park. i didn't have any pockets so i asked my boyfriend to hold my phone. a few hours into the night i had asked him what time it was so he pulled out my phone and he was joking with his cousin saying how i have pictures i don't want him to see since my pictures are locked. well i said if i had something to hide, my messages would be locked so i told him to go to my messages just because i didn't want him to think i'm doing anything behind his back. well i kind of keep in touch with one of my ex boyfriends from three years ago and he randomly texted me the other day. well my boyfriend was only looking in the inbox so this is how he read it:
ex: hey :)
ex: that makes both of us now haha
ex: so did i haha. where are you??
ex: F*ck me right? haha. what you do today?
ex: your bf??
ex: yea
Now, this is the WHOLE conversation:
ex: hey :)
me: hey. you hella didn't answer my call the other day haha. what are you doing?
*the other day he had called me to tell me he had something important to tell me about my old friend but i was busy so i called him back but he didn't answer*
*he calls me; i reject it*
ex: that makes both of us now haha
me: thats no fair i have a reason haha
ex: so did i haha. where are you??
me: sure haha. in my little sister's room
ex: F*ck me right? haha. what you do today?
me: haha spent the night with my best friend and boyfriend. we were driving around, came home went swimming. what about you?
ex: your bf??
me: boyfriend? haha. are you still talking to that one girl?
ex: yea
and that was it. i tried to get my boyfriend to read the sent messages but he just gave me my phone back and his cousin was telling me how i messed up. which i don't understand. i got really irritated to i asked my best friend if we could leave. we walked outside, i called my boyfriend to ask if he needed a ride home, he said he was going to spend the night down his cousins house, i said okay and he hung up. I'm so lost. i don't know what to do. any advice/opinions? should i give him space? i have all the messages still saved but he said he doesn't want to see them. (link)
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He's mad because of the fact that ti looks like you are talking to your ex about what you two are doing,. which is none of his business. Just give him sometime,. and do the cutsie things like holding his hand and rubbing his back,. to make him realize that he is the only one that you want to be with. and that your ex is your ex for a reason.
Hope This helps:)
~Jasmine*
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I did advice on letting a female co-worker go who doesnt appreciate me or give a fuck after we dated for 2 months (link)
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Now because you guys only dated for two months,. that is a very short amount of time,. and she may have thought that this isn't working out,. Now i know you like her alot,. try puttinng some space between you two,,. and keep yourself busy,. with time you will start to feel better but it will take time.
Hope this helps:)
~Jasmine*
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theres a guy that asked me out and ive been crushing on him for 2 years. so he asked me out and i said no. now i regret it. how can i fix it?
im female and im 12 years old (link)
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Stop for a moment and think about why you said no? What are your reasons that made you say that is it things you have heard about himm,. was it ur intuition?
If it's bothering you alot,. you should try talking to him about how you were scared to be with him because you like him so much and that maybe you two could try dating?
Hope this helps:)
~Jasmine*
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what are you supposed to do when a married man wants you (link)
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Decline it,. Think about his family and children if he has them,. take a moment to think about if you were in the wife's shoes. Now just say he leaves her for you.. How can you be sure he won't do that to you? It's just a very bad situation to get yourself into.
Hope this helps:)
~Jasmine*
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does anybody know how to take a picture and convert it into a Css code for like a social site. There used to be tons of thos but now i cant find websites for it anymore. HelppP! (link)
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Try these websites:)
http://line25.com/tutorials/how-to-convert-a-photoshop-mockup-to-xhtml-css
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Hi, I am 17 and female, and this is kinda long...
I get this feeling which I am sure is being depressed, but it doesn't last long like it should if I had depression.
For example, I read that if you have depression, the depressed periods usually last for at least 2 weeks. I am never depressed for very long, and definately never two weeks or more. Mine lasts maybe a day, or sometimes in a cycle that includes being sad for a half a day, then being normal or happy for the other parts of the day, and then the same the next day and so on for a while.
Also, I think that this may be caused by bi-polar disorder or cyclothymia, rather than depression, because I sometimes go into these really happy, hyperactive states when I am not depressed or just normal. Usually in these hyperactive moods I feel really happy, and I'm talkative and energetic and I have a disregard for rules, like I will be mucking around in class and I don't really care when the teacher tells me off or tells me to calm down and be mature as I am a senior student and all that. I usually just laugh when a teacher tells me off during these moods. Also, I may be in one of these moods and be mucking around during lunch, and I dont really care if I am annoying anyone, or if I am being judged by others, as people tend to judge you as weird when you are acting really hyperactive or fooling around with your friends and they are all sitting around doing nothing.
So do you think I may be depressed or I may have bi polar disorder or cyclothymia? Or could I possibly just have really extreme mood swings? (link)
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Heyy 20 F here,.
I have the same thing,. sommetimes im really happy! and sometimes im really sad! lately its mostly sad,. i think it's normal,. i mean it seems typical with a few people,. so try not to put a title to what you think,.you mayhave and just try thinking on the possitive side:)
Hope this helps:)
~Jasmine*
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We live across the country from each other and I am visiting him this summer... scared of his family, I'm pretty sure they don't like me already and I'm afraid it's going to be really awkward, HELP (link)
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All you can do is be yourself,. parents generally sometimes don't like the person just because they are over protective people. Don't stress over it too much,. if it was meant to be,. it would be.
Hope this helps:)
~Jasmine*
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okay am 13 and am really sorry for my self. i feel horny and i masturbate. i really feel like doing it. i go to porn sites and i take my uncle's movies and watch them wen am alone. i feel like having sex like everytime. am tired and this feeling drives me CRAZY. really i need help. (link)
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This is a completely normal feeling to have,. you are getting at that stage were you are discovering your body in new ways,. And you are testing out what feels good to you,.
Just remember,. sex is a huge thing,. and can be live changing,. make sure when you do it,. that it's with someone you can trust and see yourself being with.
Hope this helps:)
~Jasmine*
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I'm a 15 year old girl and I feel fat basically. Yeah, I know I sound like most girls my age but the thing is I know I'm not fat, if that makes sense.
My family often crack jokes about me being fat because I'm a size 12 verging on a size 14, but they always deny it afterwards.
I'll accept this and often laugh it off though I'll later find myself analyzing what they've said and agreeing with it.
I eat way more than I should anyway but sometimes I only do it cause I'm bored. Like I'll just be sitting around doing nothing in particular and then I'll think of food and all of a sudden I have to have it and I will go eat.
I don't exercise often due to the fact that I'm quite lazy and I'm asthmatic.
Sometimes I'll tell myself in my head that I'm fat and that that's why guys don't want to date me. But the thing is it's not a little voice in my head, it's me and I can control it but I don't, I just do it anyway.
Then recently my siblings have being going on about how I need thinspiration and how I should be thinspiration on what not to look like cause I'm so fat.
Occasionally I'll consider making myself sick just to lose weight but then I back out because I think 'what if someone heard/found me?' and also because I know how much damage doing that does to your body and teeth.
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Hey darlinn,. I've been there before,. but remember,. being bigger boned is not a bad thing,. Maybe you are bigger than Jlo or your not a size 4. But that is not a bad thing,. it's about accepting you for who you are,. now i knnow your at a wierd stage were it's the important thing to be skinny,. and have the perfect body,. but if you feel bigger and want to try thinning out or changing sommething,. change one little thing at a time,.
What i'm trying to do is to do 60 curls a day,. im pretty lazy too i have a stomach on me,. but maybe doing this,. will help me accept myself better.
Hope this helps:)
~Jasmine*
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In the beginning of my 7th grade year, I started becoming friends with a girl from my advisory class. Before I could realize it, we were close best friends; we would talk on the phone every night and check math hw in the one class we shared. Then I noticed that she stopped doing her some of her math hw and started copying anything she didn't do. I didn't think about it much because I helped her with it. We remained close until sometime in my 8th grade year when she and my other friend stopped showing up to lunch. I felt like I couldn't depend on her. Soon enough, she started doing things with two of my other friends, but they never invited me. By then, she and I had already had a big fight (which she started out of nothing). All I can remember is her asking for help or for my math hw to copy. She would sometimes take it without asking. All of a sudden, she ditched my other friends and me to hang out with other people (which now I know, she does alot). Everyday phone conversations turned into weekly texts unless she wanted something. One day, she forced me into a bathroom stall with a math test she got from someone and told me to do it. Now that I haven't talked to her in a month and I'm starting to think back about it, was she really my friend or did she just use me? (link)
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From the signs of it,. i would say she definetly was using you,. i mean somme of her feelings could have been sincere,. but alot of the red flags are pointing me in the using direction,.
Hope this helps:)
~Jasmine*
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I like my bestfriend who happens to be dating my other bestfriend:/ I feel like I'm betraying my bestfriend just by liking her boyfriend. I've had this "connection" with him for 2 years now but it just never lead to anything serious like a relationship. He flirts with me and it's obvious he has feelings for me. But he's dating my bestfriend and I would never do that to her. I don't know what to do. I had my chance with him last year but I let time go and now I'm his "best friend for life" as he calls me:/ what can I do? Tips on how to get over him? Thank you:) (link)
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This is definetly a hard situation,. And even though i don't know you i'm so so so proud of you for not doing that to your girlfriend,. there are some girls out there that would be that respectful,. as for flirting and everything,. don't flirt because that could get back to your girliie and it might turn ugly,. just tell the guy that nothing is going to happen because you care about your bestfriend too much to hurt her,.
As for getting over him it wont be easy but just try some time,. and it will get better,.
hope this helps:)
~Jasmine*
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Ok on my nook color i forgot my passcode, the four digit code. I really need help to find out if you can do something to unlock it with out reseting it. Please any advice. (link)
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Try these websites
http://bn.cdn.lithium.com/t5/NOOK-Color-Technical-Support/Nook-color-unlock-password-forgotten/td-p/773436
http://www.androidtablets.net/forum/nook-color-technical/8678-unlock-screen-nook-color.html
Hope This helps:)
~Jasmine*
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I'm twelve years old and my sister is fifteen years old. I also have two other sister.Me and my fifteen year old sister are always fighting she always teases me and then I yell at her. We just never seem to get along. How do I stop? I don't want to be hating her when I'm and adult. (link)
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Sister rivalry is very difficult,. Fighting is normal between eachother. I am 5 years between me and my sister and we fought every single day when we were younger,. but now that we are older we dont fight and we get along,. it's just being young that fighting is normal when you get a little bit older you will be better friends and sisters.
Hope this helps:)
~Jasmine*
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Well, i have a best friend who's a guy.... And he's really nice and funny... But here's the problem: For the past month, I've been feeling all nervous and happy when I'm around him, but I just want to know: Does this mean I like him or not? And if I do like him, what do I do to not let him know and make our friendship weird?? (link)
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First off,. no one can tell you exactly if you like this guy. Only you can know yourself if you like him,.
By the sounds of it,. it seems like you might be developing feelings for him,. honestly if you like him,. give him signs that you like him,. and see if he likes you,. even try talking to him about how you feel,. you never know,. maybe you like him too.
Hope this helps:)
~Jasmine*
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Why do others call me stuck up cause I'm shy?
I'm not around family and friends. I'm just sometimes quiet around people I never talked too or I'm quiet when I'm tired. Sometimes when I first meet people it takes me a while to come out of my shell cause I think I'm going to get judged . I'm happy and smiling all of the time. That’s just how I am, a happy person. Since elementary school I've heard girls say that I'm stuck up or "I think I'm all that". I honestly feel like I'm the nicest person I never talked bad about someone even behind their backs. There's no point if you think about it, you never know what someone's going through. I'm not a bitch. It won't get you anywhere in the future. Can someone tell me why people do call me stuck up cause I'm shy? I really don't get it
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They think your stuck up because your not talking,.
Now you could be shy but to some people being quiet and just smiling,. and not talking is a body language of saying im not talking to you because you dont deserve my words,. because im better than you,.
So be very careful even when being shy.
Hope this helps:)
~Jasmine*
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