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I like my bestfriend
I like my bestfriend who happens to be dating my other bestfriend:/ I feel like I'm betraying my bestfriend just by liking her boyfriend. I've had this "connection" with him for 2 years now but it just never lead to anything serious like a relationship. He flirts with me and it's obvious he has feelings for me. But he's dating my bestfriend and I would never do that to her. I don't know what to do. I had my chance with him last year but I let time go and now I'm his "best friend for life" as he calls me:/ what can I do? Tips on how to get over him? Thank you:)
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Best answer I can give is just let it go... It is okay to be attracted to someone, but if that someone is taken you dont want to get involved... Let the friend that you like know that it is not fair for him to flirt with you when he is with someone else and try not to flirt with him.. You can all still be friends but you have to respect the girl he is with and take a step back... who knows maybe if they dont work out she will be okay with you giving it a try with him but dont ruin your friendship by trying anything with this man good luck hope all works out
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First off, you're not betraying your best friend because you like her boyfriend. You can't help who you like, it just happens sometimes. Its nice of you to understand though that you can't pursue this any further than friends because you clearly care about your friend and her happiness. I can't give you tips to get over him but what I can say is go out and meet other guys. Meet new people and just realize that someone will eventually come along and you'll find someone too.
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- i know exactly how you feel. you don't want to hurt your bestfriend but you have feelings her bf and the feelings are mutal. well maybe you should just wait it out and see what happens. he mite turn out to be your "mr. right" or you might find someone else. that way there won't be conflict between you and your bestfriend. now waiting can be hard, but think about this: would it be harder then causing problems with your bestfriend if it goes that way? ii hope you can use this advice if you cannot i apologize .
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This is definetly a hard situation,. And even though i don't know you i'm so so so proud of you for not doing that to your girlfriend,. there are some girls out there that would be that respectful,. as for flirting and everything,. don't flirt because that could get back to your girliie and it might turn ugly,. just tell the guy that nothing is going to happen because you care about your bestfriend too much to hurt her,.
As for getting over him it wont be easy but just try some time,. and it will get better,.
hope this helps:)
~Jasmine*
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