- hi, everyone. i'm kay1350. i love giving advice to my family as well as friends. you do not have to use my advice if you choose not to. i just hope my advice can help . thanks .
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Ok so I'm 13 and I got my nails done about 6 weeks ago and I'm soo ready for them to come off. Two of them are really loose and some of my real nail is coming off with it and it hurts soo bad. My dad told me I couldn't have fake nails but I went out with friends and got them done anyway ( I know it was stupid) so now he won't give me money or take me to the salon to get them removed. He says it's part of my punishment for "disobeying him". Anyway, since I can't get them removed by the nail people I need to know if there is a way to take them off on my own without pulling them off because it hurts. Help please? (link)
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- i can relate. the first time i got my nails done i was right their in your shoess. luckily, my cousin helped me out: you can soak your nails in nail polish remover (the one that can remove acrylic (fake)nails) . mix some (not a lot) in a bowl of hot water and let them soak. then try and see if any of them loosen up a bit. this worked for me but maybe not for everybody. ii hope this works, if not i apologize. but if you choose not to use this then you should wait until they loosen up on their own . once again i apologize if this does not help you.
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My ex and I broke up about 4 months ago and we recently started talking again. We started texting again and we were friendly with one another. Then he became flirty and honestly, whenever we held those flirty conversations, those lasted the longest. He asked me if I wanted to continue being that way with him and I decided to test it and see if he had feelings for me and he told me that he has learned to control his feelings. Clearly that meant he's over me, or that he's trying very hard to. I don't know why he would ask me to do something like this. We did establish that we are very comfortable with one another but I only agreed because I wanted to see how far it would go. He was my first boyfriend and the only guy I've ever been really physical with and because we have broken up with issues, I'm not sure if I can be "friends with benefits" with him, but he seems to be completely fine. What does this mean? Oh, when we first started talking again, he did apologize for some of the stuff that happened in our relationship. But one of the last things we said to one other was that I didnt want to go on with the "benefits" part because I didn't want it hindering my feelings I would have for anyone else. (link)
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- most likely, if you two are still flirting, and texting well most likely he still has feelings for you. he might not won't to date again just yet but give it time and see what happens. he might not want to go through the samething again that you two went through before. there's really not a straight foward answer to this situatioon because it could be many other answers as well, the best way to see is to ask him how does he feel about you. there still might be feelings there or there may not be. just try and ask him. i hope this advice is useful for you, ii apologize if it does not. good luck.
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I need a cute nuckname for my bf we r both 14. Hez really shy, he haz a sense of humor, he tries hiz best 2 make me smile, he cares for me, he haz red hair n hez taller thn me. He callz me some nicknamez such az princess, hot stuff, n sexy. I asked if he wanted me 2 giv him a nickname n he sayd kinda. I gav him some but he didn't like thm such az: my prince, cuti, dummpling, Romeo, sweetheart n much more. I ran out of ideaz n I need some help thx :) (link)
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- hi, i've been in a situation like this b4. my boyfriend calls me stuff like bay, baby, honey, and so on and so on. wen it comes ta me cgivin him a nickname i'm at a lost for words. then i jux started calllin him nicknames like: boo, bay, baby, tink butt, love bug, hubby etc. maybe you should try some of them and see if he likes anyone or more of them. hopefully he does. if he does not i apologize my advice did not help. your feedback is important to me. thanks for letting me try and help you :)
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i lost my virginity when i was 13 with my first ex boyfriend. at first i was afraid of doing that act, but he really wanted to do it with me.. i couldnt resist him because i love him. so we had sex. we did it 3 times. but then i broke up with him. because i felt he really did not love me and he's just using me. i regret of letting him use me:( now i can't resist having sex with boys i like. at the age of 17 i already had 11 sex experiences. i always regret when i think about it. im so sad, i think im a slut but i dont want to accept it. im so sad:( i dont know what to do.. im afraid and hate to accept than no other guys would love me because of these past experiences. i wanna die :(((((((((((((( (link)
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- hi, and can sort of relate to this. in life we make mistakes and have regrets that's normal; we just have to learm not to make them same mistakes again so we won't have regrets. now boys would say anything to have sex sometimes but don't let them pressure you unless you are absolutely ready for sex. now i believe that you will fine the right guy for you who won't look at your past because they were not in it and they cannot blame you because after all that was a different you. don't be so down on yourself and call yourself a whore and don't harm yourself everything will work out fine, just remember: when you meet a guy get ta know him , and you make the calls on when you will have sex , and if you feel like it's the right time and the right guy. also remember: the past is the past, it stays there. i hope you can use this advice:) if so may you please feedback, thank you.
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I like my bestfriend who happens to be dating my other bestfriend:/ I feel like I'm betraying my bestfriend just by liking her boyfriend. I've had this "connection" with him for 2 years now but it just never lead to anything serious like a relationship. He flirts with me and it's obvious he has feelings for me. But he's dating my bestfriend and I would never do that to her. I don't know what to do. I had my chance with him last year but I let time go and now I'm his "best friend for life" as he calls me:/ what can I do? Tips on how to get over him? Thank you:) (link)
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- i know exactly how you feel. you don't want to hurt your bestfriend but you have feelings her bf and the feelings are mutal. well maybe you should just wait it out and see what happens. he mite turn out to be your "mr. right" or you might find someone else. that way there won't be conflict between you and your bestfriend. now waiting can be hard, but think about this: would it be harder then causing problems with your bestfriend if it goes that way? ii hope you can use this advice if you cannot i apologize .
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So I have this friend ever since the 3rd grade and were in 8th right now and she changed so much like she hangs out with the older kids cause of her brother and she smokes pot and drinks and well over the summer me and like my bestfriend met these 2 guys in the colombian festival and we got really close their like our older brothers there always there for us and everytn and then one of the guys met my friends friend and they started tlkn so now my friend from 3rd grade is chillin with the 2 guys but they dnt want me bringing my bestfriend and I'm not going to do that I won't go without her and then I told my friend I rather not go and then she started laughing in my face telling me how I'm a bitch and all this then she got her slutty friend on me and my bestfriend saying we better back of the 2 guys like wtf I met them first ! And I don't know what to do (link)
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- i completely understand how you feel. i have been in a situation like this. you did the right thing ! sometimes friends want to fit it with the so called "popular group" and they'll act like they are all tough . just ignore what she say because you know what is true , and what is not true about you. so you and your bestfriend can continue being bestfriends and you two can hang out with them two guys. yall are all just friends so it dosen't matter what your friend think, as long as you do not have a problem with the two boys then everything should be ok. i hope you can use this advice, i apologize if you cannot. sorry if this was not what you were looking for . p.s just remember: people can say alot of things about you, but, you know what is true, and what is not true about you, so don't feed into that. -
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I have been dating my boyfriend for almost 4years, im happy and we love each other, the only problem is, my dad doesnt like him. He gets along with my mum & she absolutely loves him! At the start when we first started dating my dad seem to like him until he started judging him on little things. Because he is 3 years older than me, (im 20) he doesnt have a house or nice car or isnt like a man he wishes my boyfriend to be, it really upsets me. My dad never really says anything positive about him until 1 day we almost broke up & I was really upset, he seemed to care then about our relationship? & he went back to normal again... My boy is good to me, he buys me everything, treats me right, knows how to have fun & he may not have the best job in the world but his always willing to work hard. My dad always judges him and he doesnt realise my bf looks up to him becuase he respects him. Its makes me sad becuase it always feels awkward when they are both together (even though they are friendly towrds each other) and knowing the fact that my dad secretly hates him, well I dont know for sure, but its not something I can never ask my dad the truth. I have feeling its becuase he doesnt want me to waste my time (i can do better) and wants me to have a good future and my bf isnt the right one... & he always remindes my sister to find a bf that has a trade or 'good job'(referring to me)??? I have no idea.. please help!
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Hi, I understand how you feel. Your dad just wants the best for you. He's just being protective.He wants you to be happy. But see, your boyfriend treats you right and you seem happy with him. That should be the only thing that matters ; is how you feel about him. I know you love your dad with all your heart but he's being judgemental towards your boyfriend. Maybe your dad will see the good in your boyfriend and everything will be ok in the long run, but, he has to let you make decisions on your own sometimes. i hope you can use this advice, i apologize if this cannot help you.
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