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im no longer a virgin, and i regret it.
i lost my virginity when i was 13 with my first ex boyfriend. at first i was afraid of doing that act, but he really wanted to do it with me.. i couldnt resist him because i love him. so we had sex. we did it 3 times. but then i broke up with him. because i felt he really did not love me and he's just using me. i regret of letting him use me:( now i can't resist having sex with boys i like. at the age of 17 i already had 11 sex experiences. i always regret when i think about it. im so sad, i think im a slut but i dont want to accept it. im so sad:( i dont know what to do.. im afraid and hate to accept than no other guys would love me because of these past experiences. i wanna die :((((((((((((((
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First of all having 11 partners does not make you a slut... if you dont want to have sex than just say no... if the boy doesnt like it he can move along and leave you alone... you are a wonderful girl and no one will hate you for your past.. Dont worry about what others think or say about you... and your virginity is something you can never get back but just because you lost it that doesnt mean you have to have sex now... good luck in the future
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just because you've had 11 partners doesnt make you a slut. trust me, you'll find that special someone. make sure to get to know the person before anything really happens. i think you'll be ok.
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losing virginity doesn't make you slut dear. you hve also written tat you nw cnt resist having sex, but trust me if you build up ur mind 4 nt having sex til you find a guy who loves you whole heartedly n is ready 2 accept you d way you r(n im sure tat you shall find 1:))so njoy ur life n dnt even think of dying
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First; Stop thinking of yourself as a slut. There is truly no such thing as a slut. This word came to be a long time a go and has stuck as a derogatory was to refer to girls/women who were whores or slept around in exchange for things other than money. You may have started very young, maybe to young. That was a mistake; it does not make you a slut.
Your current group of friends, high school friends, will most likely not be your life long friends. When high school is over you will all start new lives in College, the military or a working life. This will send many of you off in all points of the compass to experience new beginnings and make new friends.
Now I am old enough to be your grandfather. When I was your age there were very few girls in college that arrived their virgins and even fewer if any that left college virgins.
Your life after high school gives you a second chance at how you present yourself to the world. If you are going on to college you will have a whole new social dynamic to deal with even if it is your local community college. No you do not get your virginity back but you do get a chance to repair your high school reputation by being more selective in your dating and sexual habits.
My advise is you forget about the word slut. As far as I'm concerned the word should not exist. When you go off to college, if that is where your headed. You will meet boys with the same thing on their minds as they had in high school. Just remember there is a difference between lust and love. Be more selective and look for older students who know the difference between lust and love.
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- hi, and can sort of relate to this. in life we make mistakes and have regrets that's normal; we just have to learm not to make them same mistakes again so we won't have regrets. now boys would say anything to have sex sometimes but don't let them pressure you unless you are absolutely ready for sex. now i believe that you will fine the right guy for you who won't look at your past because they were not in it and they cannot blame you because after all that was a different you. don't be so down on yourself and call yourself a whore and don't harm yourself everything will work out fine, just remember: when you meet a guy get ta know him , and you make the calls on when you will have sex , and if you feel like it's the right time and the right guy. also remember: the past is the past, it stays there. i hope you can use this advice:) if so may you please feedback, thank you.
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I've had a friend much like you just so you know your not a slut losing it at that young age put pressure on you because you think if you don't sleep with them they will leave you but thats not true if a guy falls in love with you they fall in love with all of you the past an all but dying aint worth it if you really want help you can go see a counciler
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