My boyfriend, we'll call him *Bob*, and i always fight...like seriously, we can't get through a day with out fighting about something. but i love him with all my heart...and couldn't break up with him even if i tried...but what should i do? i can't handle all the argueing?
Well just try and not fight, and try and not get mad at the things he does or whatever. I know how it is to fight with someone a lot, me and my guy use to ALWAYS fight but now were a lot better! and we hardly fight at all! :) But i've been close to losing him so just be careful!
-holly-
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I need some songs... any song would be good and who its by!!
Well you need to say what kind of songs. Like the type of music. But a really really great song is "Once again" by the hanks. ITS AWESOME! :)
-holly-
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well i have a problem, i think that it is better if i admitt i have a problem. I cut, and i think i know why i cut, i cut to know i am alive and i think its so stupid..but i cant do anything about it. I cut and bleed my problems away. I always wear sweatshirts so people dont really know. But i think it is hurting my friends that know, because one time i cut so deep it was bleeding for like ever. im kind of scared.
Hey you need to get some help hun! Cutting gets sooo addicting! Do other things to know your alive like thump yourself in the head (lol jk) But cutting isnt the best, Your friends are worried! Get help!! Good luck hun!
-holly-
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hey im only 15 and everyone thinks i have done like eveerything wit a guy and i want out wit alot of guys and all we did was just kiss on the lips but no make out and my longest relationship was 5 weeks and we didnt do much but anyways my last bf was for 2 weeks and it was 3 weeks ago and he still likes me but i dumped him cuase i didnt wanan make out wit him cause i thought i would be bad at it and now i like him and i wanna make out wit him..and he told eveyrone he wanted to and i dunno wat to do any tips pelase help me
Go back out with him! get rid of the boyfriend you've gor right now and go for the old guy! Have fun kissing!! :D
-holly-
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-HEY YOU ASKED FOR TIPS FOR MAKING OUT-
*Ok just breath while your doing it.. threw your nose!
*Swallow once in a while if you dont you'll get a lot of spit.
*Eyes closed lol no brainer
*But the stuff with the tounge, that should come naturally!
Good luck!
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im 14 years Old nd i was never kissed or never had a bOy .. my friends say im pretty nd everythin but yeah i dont feel like that ..y ?
o nd hOw can i nOt b shy rOund them its soo hard fo me ??????PLEASE HELp !
Hey i'm sure your beautiful! I'm just sure you dont think you are, i guess i'm the same way. Its not bad to not be kissed yet... I have a really close guy friend didnt get his first kiss till his junior year!!!! And my sister is now 22 and she didnt have a boyfriend till her junior year, and it was her only boyfriend... and now they are married. So dont worry hun! And about being shy! Dont be shy!!!! theres nothing to be shy about, just be yourself and be outgoing:) good luck
-holly-
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If your bf or gf got you a limo for a surprise for like 3 months of going out and it was a boxy kind of limo.. would you care?
Who cares what it looks like! A limo is a limo!!!! The thought is what counts!!!
-holly-
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Hi, my names liza im 14... i have this guy lets call him *Dave* and we were goin out for like 16 months, and then yesterday he calls me sayin "yeah liez i have a gurl her name is kelly and laughs and says i know its gonna piss you off, oh well bye" and i cryed for hours, im still crying right now. i know it was stupid and i dont know what love is... but i really did i was seriously in love with this boy and i cut my like my whole arm up, and did a bunch of stupid things. i really dont know what to do anymore with my life i dont wanna live, i wish i was dead. does anyone have any ideas for me to get him backk or something cause i REALLY wanna get him back... and i dont know how to. s0o pleaseeeeee pretty please someone anyone please help!!!!! :( ill rate you, just please help me... xo liza
Hey Liza just stay calm sweetie! I know break ups are so hard! And i know you want him back but thats the rudest thing to do is laugh when hes breaking up with you! Seriously you dont need a guy like him! Guys are so stupid sometimes and you know what hes gonna be upset once he realize that hes lost the best thing! Dont leave suicide is the easy way out when things are getting tough! I know how it is but just keep your head up and stay strong! Maybe go to someone for help about the arm cutting so you dont want to do it again. because Cutting does get addicting. Just remember that there is a lot of people that care about you, even though it may not seem like it right now but when someone commits suicide it affects everyone! Not just the family and the friends, but the eniemes (sp?) and everyone in your school would be affected. Theres many many more fish in the sea just gotta cast your line back out once your ready again. Stay strong! Just think before you do anything
-holly-
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The SP thing means spelling, like i wasnt sure if i spelt that wrong or whatever!
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me and my i guess you can say old bestfriend now we're bestfriends for a very very long time, and well...we're both changing into who we're becomming and i knew to expect this but we hang out with different crowds, i'm not jealous of her or anything but she hangs out with popular people and i just chill with people who dont really care, i miss her alot and i wish me and her could talk again but now we dont have very much to talk about, this has been going on for months now, ive always gone 2 her and now shes not there. its not her fault nor mine or anything but i dunno what 2 do!!! can u help me??
Thanks :)
xoxo~ashton
Hey ashton! Thats so crazy you just explained my same situation! I think that if you really want to be bestfriends again you should talk to her about whats going on. And maybe its good to take a break from each other. Tell her how you feel and invite her to do something with you again and Remind her of the good times you girls had. Call her up and see how shes doing. Good luck and i know how you feel. :(
-holly-
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When i dance wit ma period ma flow is heavier. Is dat normal thx ill rate u!
Hmm i've never gone dancing while on my period, But it might be the case because your working and moving around so it might make things come out more. But I'm not real sure on that one.
-holly-
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my friend amber is really making me mad! all she does is yell at me and says i lie to her what do i do??
signed,
im sick of it!
DONT BE HER FRIEND! you deserve way better tell her if shes going to treat you like that then she doesnt deserve to be your friend! keep your head up and find someone else!
-holly-
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I think i might be Bisexual. i am a 15 year old female girl. When i look at some of my female friends, i look at their breasts. i know this is not normal. when i masturbate, i imagine other girls in ym head. usually they are people with whom i am good friends... i know that this is not normal adn very weird, but is ti wrong? right now i like 2 different guys but at the same time i want to fuck my female friends. do u have any advice for me?
You might be Bi. I dont find being bisexual wrong. I have a few friends myself that are bisexual. Maybe you need to test both water, Try being with a girl maybe and see if thats what you really want. Good luck find out what you want!
-holly-
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My brother likes my best friend- which Sucks. He liked her for a while and she would always tell me that she doesnt like him,. hes 16 were 14. She just asked me if i would kill her if she would go out with him,. n i go nah its cool,. which isnt ( i just didnt want to hurt her feelings ) even tho it hurts mine,. SO they both like each other.. and i think they are gonna go out s0on. Its going to be really weird,. like shes my BEST friend , when she comes ova to mi hosue for my brother n hang out with him!? i kno our friendship wont be as strong.. espically since my bro got his new car,. now he can take her anywhere..=/ Maybe i'm jealous? that my bro is stealing everyone away from me.. Please help x0x
I think you need to tell your friend how you feel. Tell her that you feel that you two will lose your strongness as friends (if thats how you want to put it didnt know how to word it lol) And if they do end up going out, they both are at a young age i'm sure that things wont last to long, and you will have her back. and maybe you should talk to your brother before you talk to her. Tell him how you feel about them getting together. And maybe if they do, you all 3 can hang out... if its not to awkward. Good luck with this all.
-holly-
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I've had this one friend "Helen" since 5th grade. I just met "Sarah" this year, and we became really good friends. For some reason , Helen is being such a mean you-know-what to Sarah. She's called her a h** and said she did something with another kid, which is SOOOOOOO not true. Helen doesn't even know Sarah, and she's talking about her. What am I supposed to do?? I don't want to get caught in the middle of this argument.
I think you need to talk to Helen, I know how it is to become good friends with a new person and the other person gets mad. You should tell her that all 3 of you should hang out so she can get to know sarah better. get them to be friends and if things dont work out tell the both of them that you dont want to get caught in the middle.
-holly-
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there is this girl whos is really really really nice but some of my friends make fun of her b/c she can't afford new clothes i want to make her have really cool clothes but the problem is i don't have any money to get her new clothes how can i make her look stylish w/ out usin alot of money??
go to goodwill. Seriously they have brand new clothes that still have their tags on them! Go there and help her out. I really think its awesome that you wanna help her out :) goodluck!
-holly-
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Well uhh I love this person and well he says Im pretty and stuff and he SAYS he doesnt like me im 13 by the way........one time my friend goes "what do u think of katie" and he goes silent for like 15 seconds and goes "nothing..." i dont know what to do!!!!!!! and he moved, and my other friend says we werent meant to be......ok, i LOVE him....im serious....could you please help someone who cries every night????????
Love at such a young age! I know its hard but if he doesnt like you, you cant make him as much as you wish you could. I know how it is I've had things like this before, you just gotta move on! I promise you another guy will come along. Just try and get involved with some sports or something and maybe you'll find a hottie while doing that :). Good luck and keep your head up things will work out for the best
-holly-
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This is gonna sound so weird. I read this advicenators collumn, and it seems like he is the kewlest guy ever. At first i thought maybe he was like 20 something, but he's my age, and i don't know, the picture of him kinda just made me feel weird, but i am not a person who starts that kinda thing. What should i do?
IM him! Seriously if you dont start he'll never know how you feel. You never know if those feelings are a sign! Get on it before you lose a chance. Good luck!
-holly-
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I am sure that this question has been asked before but I'd like some answers pertaining to my exact situation. I ussually hate online advice forums, but thougth I'd give it a try before I critisize it. Ok, so enough, here's my problem.
My best friend is a girl. She (and I) are 15 years old. I've known her for about two years now. We have been through so much together and help eachother out in so many ways that I see our friendship permanent unless I personally screw it up. When we first met, I immediatly liked her and wanted to date her. When I found out she felt the same way, I planned on asking her out. But some stupid girl found out that she liked me and proclaimed it to the school and also wrote a letter from me (which I didn't write) to her asking her out. Then this menace of a girl embarrased her in front of the entire cafeteria by starting a chant of "ask her out (then my name)". After that, we just became friends and never really brought it up again. It's been two years since then and we have both had at least one boyfriend or girlfriend. I am starting to really like her and it haints me that we never even gave it a shot. But I am not sure if she likes me more than a best friend or if she would agree to go out with me. She is the only person I trust and I can't give her up as a friend, which is why I haven't risked our friendship by asking her out. So, where do I go? What do I do? What do I tell her? What will she say? If she refuses to go out with me, will our friendship be awkward and ruined?
I think you should talk to her about how you feel. Let her know that your bummed about the fact that you guys never gave it a chance and you never know what could have happened. I think that if bestfriends go out and end up breaking up I think that it might make the relationship strong in a sense. Tell her what you want and how you've liked her for so long, let her know that you dont want a weird relationship with her and if she doesnt want to be together that you're glad just being friends. Good luck and i'm sure you dont have anything to worry about
-holly-
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im confused on something..im a 16 alomost 17 female and i had a dream bout my ex bf(aaron) friend harry and ever since that dream ive kinda liked him but the thing is ive never talked to him before and my friend christin talks to his other friend stef...but i think christin is pullin my chain bout me gettin harrys sn..im so confused...o and is it normal to like someone that u never even talked to before?
~*Tracy*~
Yeah its normal! I mean like you can have someone in a class never talk to him but like his personality and stuff. I think you should get harrys sn, and talk to him get to know him better and maybe hang out. Maybe get christin to get ya some hook ups! Good luck!
-holly-
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is rub on tan bad for u?
No I dont think so, but most the time it comes out orange! or streaky! So if you choose to use to make sure you read the directions, and make sure it doesnt turn out streaky. Good luck
-holly-
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I'm having trouble falling asleep. Does anyone now anything that could help me fall asleep easier and faster?
You can take like tylonal PM, those things knock me out. And if you dont want to get like drugged up or whatever (lol) you might be able to go to your doctor and he might be able to give you something to help your problem.
-holly-
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