well i have a problem, i think that it is better if i admitt i have a problem. I cut, and i think i know why i cut, i cut to know i am alive and i think its so stupid..but i cant do anything about it. I cut and bleed my problems away. I always wear sweatshirts so people dont really know. But i think it is hurting my friends that know, because one time i cut so deep it was bleeding for like ever. im kind of scared.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Sexual Health and Reproduction category? Maybe give some free advice about: Condoms? brittney5472 answered Saturday July 24 2004, 9:16 am: Hello my names brittney and im 13 yrs old i would like to first of all just tell you to please stop for me even tho you dont know me and you probably dont even care what im saying just please listen to me just this once stop doign it thinking back on your child hood memorys of all of the scars you have on your arms from cutting yourself is not a good way on looking back....hun i dont know you but by readinf what you put hurts me inside...it makes me feel depressed that now that im over with cutting miself like i have before to take out all of the shame and ashtonshiment...thta it wasent worth sitting there day after day just cutting your writes in deeper and deeper even carving guys names into your skin that you like and think you love....just please stop maybe try a new teknick if you get mad sit in a corner and cry yourself out until your all better get a bumnch of paper and tear it up into little peices until theres nothing left to tear... [ brittney5472's advice column | Ask brittney5472 A Question ]
xogiggles37xo answered Friday July 23 2004, 2:57 pm: sum ppl put rubberbands on their rist. instead of cutting themself they use the rubberbands and pull on em everytime they think of cutting. p.s. i copied and pasted this from the last question i answered cuz i believe it helps and i hope it does good luck. <3 xogiggles37xo. [ xogiggles37xo's advice column | Ask xogiggles37xo A Question ]
LoNeLyYxSOuL answered Monday July 19 2004, 3:04 pm: thats a sign of depression and i think it might help you if you tell someone because that may be the only way to stop yourself from cutting agian. people can help you and so can your friends if you let them. when your ready to tell someone then you might be able to stop. good luck [ LoNeLyYxSOuL's advice column | Ask LoNeLyYxSOuL A Question ]
Porkin00 answered Sunday July 18 2004, 3:15 am: Have fun.. you dont have to cut.. and your friends should be able to help you thru it.. eliminate the reason.. and be happy!!!
xChainMeUp13x answered Sunday July 18 2004, 1:49 am: you could tell someone who u kno will help you or do ne thing they can to help u n maybe go see someone about it like a therapist or councilor i hope you can get through this.. [ xChainMeUp13x's advice column | Ask xChainMeUp13x A Question ]
TRYINurLUCK answered Friday July 16 2004, 8:26 pm: hey, i understand what your saying. i have friends who cut, and i used to cut myself sometimes, but then i realized that its super dumb to, cuz in my opinion its shows that ur only leaving the scars of ur problems on you, so i think it hurts more to see that. so if ur friends are telling u to stop, i think u should, and if ur scared, then u should stop.
BlueEyedBlondie725 answered Friday July 16 2004, 8:09 pm: I've answered questions like this before. I've never cut before, but I know people who have. Try putting a rubberband around your wrist and whenever you feel like cutting, snap it. Because cutting yourself can lead to a lot of problems and isn't good for youself. Which I'm sure you already know, huh? lol. But, you have a lot to live for and you just have to have fun! You only live life once ... right? But, if you need to talk about this, just leave a message in my inbox, I'll be glad to help you out! =D
hot_tamalee_1218 answered Friday July 16 2004, 12:06 pm: STOP CUTTING...ur at risk of like killing ur self here...even though im sure the thought goes through a good bit of our minds at points, for whatever reason u are cutting, its not worth it. why do u cut to begin with? life gets hard sometimes...trust me im deff. the one to know and people have different ways of dealing with them but FIND ANOTHER ONE. i really hope u can get better...
kelli7956 answered Friday July 16 2004, 2:46 am: I know this sounds weird but you need to tell some one like your parents or teachers. Its can be deadly if you do it enough.i hope my advice helped, if it helped at all then plzz email me i like to know when ive helped some one. **Kelli** ( plzz rate me) [ kelli7956's advice column | Ask kelli7956 A Question ]
HollyAnn2282 answered Friday July 16 2004, 2:34 am: Hey you need to get some help hun! Cutting gets sooo addicting! Do other things to know your alive like thump yourself in the head (lol jk) But cutting isnt the best, Your friends are worried! Get help!! Good luck hun!
-holly-
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xokristabelle answered Friday July 16 2004, 2:21 am: I'm so sorry you have to do that. Just a few months ago I did the same thing, but believe me you can feel better. Google for a suicide hotline (i know ur cutting, but it's very similar) and call it- it's free and won't show up on your phone bill. There are other ways to get your feelings out. You've taken the first step by acknowledging your problem, now you can get better with some help. As hard as it sounds, you need to talk to your mom or dad. They can help you. Bonne chance, and hang in there. [ xokristabelle's advice column | Ask xokristabelle A Question ]
RoxxiGirl answered Friday July 16 2004, 1:49 am: If you are scared then don't do it! I would say tell your parents you need help! If you want to know your alive pinch you arm don't cut! I would get rid of all the things you use to cut and then tell your mom, it could be serious and if you cut all the way across your rist and it is deep you will die, and I don't want that, NOBODY wants that! There are people everywhere that love you and you are hurting them and yourself, you need help...tell me how it goes and if you want to talk more ask me my s/n and I will talk to you! :) [ RoxxiGirl's advice column | Ask RoxxiGirl A Question ]
united_python_cheerleader answered Friday July 16 2004, 1:49 am: you should tell someone besides your friends it may sound like the wrong thing to do but you will be happy you did later in life
bAhAmAmA0250 answered Friday July 16 2004, 1:29 am: Tell a friends parent or your parent or close friend of yours (thats older and able to help) or go to a counsolar fast because noone would liek to see anything bad happan to you!!-trix [ bAhAmAmA0250's advice column | Ask bAhAmAmA0250 A Question ]
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