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im 14 years old and i was never kissed
im 14 years Old nd i was never kissed or never had a bOy .. my friends say im pretty nd everythin but yeah i dont feel like that ..y ?
o nd hOw can i nOt b shy rOund them its soo hard fo me ??????PLEASE HELp !
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It's fine that youve never kissed a guy. Lots of girls your age havent! One of my best friends didnt have her first kiss until she was 17 & she was a pretty girl. About the shy thing, you just gotta suck it up, they are probably really shy too!
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don't feel bad cuz you've never had a bf. my sister is 16 and she's never been kissed or had a bf either. there's plenty of time for you. you'll never feel pretty, it's just a fact. someone else will always look better than you, it will seem. don't act all giggly around boys. just be yourself. if you're shy, the guys will just have to deal with that
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u shouldnt be shy aroung guys there just guys if lik u see a cute guy u should go up to him and talk to him because u never no if they might like u.
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hey its all good girlie dont wry..every girl and i mean every girl has somthing that she thinks is wrong even tho they are gorgeous..and dont wry about being shy..that right guy will come along and then you will feel right with him..maybe the reason guys dont ask you out or anything is bcuz they feel to good of friends with you or think ur one of the guys..show them youre a chick too..or maybe they dont like your attitude euff to date u..maybe theyre just stupid..after all they are guys
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Hey i'm sure your beautiful! I'm just sure you dont think you are, i guess i'm the same way. Its not bad to not be kissed yet... I have a really close guy friend didnt get his first kiss till his junior year!!!! And my sister is now 22 and she didnt have a boyfriend till her junior year, and it was her only boyfriend... and now they are married. So dont worry hun! And about being shy! Dont be shy!!!! theres nothing to be shy about, just be yourself and be outgoing:) good luck
-holly-
hope i helped
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you probably are pretty and you probably dont feel like that because you might not be confident..just because you have never had a boyfriend or never kissed one doesnt mean anything, a guy will come for you someday...i promise!!!
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You're just 14, its okay!! You're just waiting for that special someone to kiss. And when that guy comes, you guys will kiss. I didn't kiss right away either. I waited for the guy I wanted to kiss. And I know a girl who is so gorgeous and she's never had a boyfriend and has never kissed. She's just like that for some reason. And, you seem like that too. You're just waiting for that special someone to come around. And, yea I understand how you get shy around guys, heck a lot of people do! So don't worry about that one. If you DO like one of the guys and you're talking to them or around them, just pretend like he's just a friend, because in front of your friends you can act like yourself. And you ALWAYS have to be yourself no matter what, because you don't want a guy to fall for someone you're not. Hope this helps, if not just leave a message in my inbox and I'll still try to help you =D
xoxo Kourtney
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It's normal, most girls go through this stage, and there will always be a lil bit of shyness around guys, you just have to get a lil more confident with you.
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WELL I MEAN DONT GET TOO SERIOUS ABOUT KISSING BECUASE IF YOU JUST DO IT TO HAVE FUN WHY DONT U PLAY LIKE SPIN THE BOTTLE WITH FRIENDS AND STUFF
LOVE ASHLEY , PLZ DONT RATE ME BECAUSE I KNOW YOUR GONNA GIVE ME LIKE A ONE SORRY I WASNT HELP
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It's ok. Don't beat yourself up just because guys are too shy to come up and talk you. Your friends say you're pretty,believe them. If you're at a party or something,smile a lot and be alone occasionaly and some guy will come over and talk to you. Don't be shy around guys. Always remember girls are in control. Act like you know what you're doing.
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Well i think everybody has there downpoints and downfaults.. like i think im not skinny enough but yet im skinny just not to my needs so you just might not meet to your own needs but thats perfectly normal but the whole shy thing well you will stop being shy around a person when you start to hang out with them or around them alot... im still a bit shy around people i dont know to very well but as time comes and goes it will change just start to be with them more and you will be ok just call them more often and talk but dont try to hide from them though.. otherwize you'll grow to be more shy!! -trix
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hmm.. well you just hafta have some confidence in yourself!! if your friends say your pretty then obviously you are! instead of thinking about the bad features you think you have think about some positive things, if i were you i'd write down some things you love about yourself and just focus on those.. you can do it about the bad things and just try to change them as much as you can!!
--as for not being shy around guys theres not much you can do i guess.. but like i said i guess you could just have confidence and be yourself! any guy likes a girl who can just be herself and not some other girl.. don't let a guy change you! just act like hes one of your best friends.. i hope i helped!!
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