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My brother likes my best friend- which Sucks. He liked her for a while and she would always tell me that she doesnt like him,. hes 16 were 14. She just asked me if i would kill her if she would go out with him,. n i go nah its cool,. which isnt ( i just didnt want to hurt her feelings ) even tho it hurts mine,. SO they both like each other.. and i think they are gonna go out s0on. Its going to be really weird,. like shes my BEST friend , when she comes ova to mi hosue for my brother n hang out with him!? i kno our friendship wont be as strong.. espically since my bro got his new car,. now he can take her anywhere..=/ Maybe i'm jealous? that my bro is stealing everyone away from me.. Please help x0x
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maybe instead of hurting your friend you can talk to your brother about it and work some things out.. because you will never lose your brother over a thing like this but you might risk losing your friend, so this way could be a lot safer in terms of your friendship with your best friend
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If they both like each other, chances are you wont be able to stop them from going out. But let your friend know that a) it bothers you, b) you're afraid your friendship is going to weaken c) you might feel left out and d) you are feeling jealous about the situation.
If she truly is your best friend then she'll make the effort to understand and to change the situation for the better. It can work both ways, her being your best friend and your best friend dating your brother. It will not be easy though and you might have to settle for being left out once and a while, which probably might suck.
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You should have told your friend the truth
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I think you need to tell your friend how you feel. Tell her that you feel that you two will lose your strongness as friends (if thats how you want to put it didnt know how to word it lol) And if they do end up going out, they both are at a young age i'm sure that things wont last to long, and you will have her back. and maybe you should talk to your brother before you talk to her. Tell him how you feel about them getting together. And maybe if they do, you all 3 can hang out... if its not to awkward. Good luck with this all.
-holly-
hope i helped
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Tell her how you feel, tell her you don't want your brother to ruin your friendship, and you dont want to feel that when she comes over shes coming over for him not you when you are the one who asked her to come over.. Just tell her how you feel although it would be hard
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