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PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!!
Hi, my names liza im 14... i have this guy lets call him *Dave* and we were goin out for like 16 months, and then yesterday he calls me sayin "yeah liez i have a gurl her name is kelly and laughs and says i know its gonna piss you off, oh well bye" and i cryed for hours, im still crying right now. i know it was stupid and i dont know what love is... but i really did i was seriously in love with this boy and i cut my like my whole arm up, and did a bunch of stupid things. i really dont know what to do anymore with my life i dont wanna live, i wish i was dead. does anyone have any ideas for me to get him backk or something cause i REALLY wanna get him back... and i dont know how to. s0o pleaseeeeee pretty please someone anyone please help!!!!! :( ill rate you, just please help me... xo liza
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im really sry this happend but its not you fault dont do this to your self.if he knew that your doing this to your doing this to your self he should feel bad
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AWWW! Wow...you really shouldn't have done that to yourself. But I understand. Theres a lot of stuff going through your head right now, but it's okay. What you need to do, is sit down and write. If you enjoy writting...write down all of your thoughts...then...calm down afterwards and read it all. You'll see how much of a player he is. He shouldn't have done any of that to you, it wasn't right. You probably need to talk to him if you still want him after you see how much hurt he put upon you. You're only 14 years old...I know you don't want to hear this right now, but there are soooo many more fish in the sea. Good luck sweetie, and stay strong! :)
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aww omg im soo sorry.. you shouldn't have done that to yourself!! no guy is worth it AT ALL and i mean at allll-- so many guys are going to come into your life and hurt you like that, i can't believe he did that!! what a jerk.. well as for you, i don't think getting him back is going to do you any good and espec. since you cutt up your arm!! you shouldn't have done that--just forget about him and move on.. stay single for awhile its great=D flirt with all the guys you want and when you find the one you really want to be with that wont hurt you, he'll be jealous =) hehe.. well.. im sorry n i hope your ok.. hopefully everything works out!!=D
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in my opinion you would be just as bad as him if you got revenge..men..no excuse me boyz like that rent worth it..take some time and let it go..hang with friends..maybe some of his..lol..and it will go by i promise!
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Awe Liez im so sorry about what happened! He*s a jerk :-D That shit is low and stupid and y0u know what? Ive gone thru that with my ex... 2 years down the drain cuz he decided to say shit about me.... babe he aint worth y0ur time! You need to sit up and be strong.. wipe y0ur tears go out with some friends hang out flirt a lil and just have fun! Youll be ok I promise..!!*
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Aww Liza, im sorry to hear about this! Break-ups are the really hard, i know how you feel. Well if he was that much of a jerk and after 16 months of dating he just calls and says he found someone else and says oh well? I dont think hes worth all the pain you are putting yourself through. And dont say you wish you were dead, I know at the time it feels like there is nothing else worth living for because he meant sooo much to you... But wanting to not be alive over a guy isn't worth it, there is plenty of other things that are worth living for, and i know right now you really want him back, but from what it sounds like.. hes a complete jerk ending it like that.. that was really rude and didnt consider your feelings at all and didnt care, i know this sounds hard right now when i say try to get over him, believe me i know you feel like its not possible right now, trust me i really do... but you possibly just might be better off without him.. its going to take a lil bit to get over him. But in time it will.. I know thats probably not what you wanted to hear.. but also try talkin to him about waht changed his mind and everything, who knows maybe he will end up wanting you back.. just try to talk things out wtih him and ask him why and everything if trying to get a better guy doesnt sound good to you.. Hope i helped hun...
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Hon, he doesn't deserve you. What a jerk! You do not want an @$$ like that back. He purposely broke your heart, but you can't let him gte the best of you. You need to talk to a friend or family member, I think you just need to get your feelings out. And please, don't cut! It ruins your life, as cliche as it sounds. Bonne chance and hang in there.
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Hey Liza just stay calm sweetie! I know break ups are so hard! And i know you want him back but thats the rudest thing to do is laugh when hes breaking up with you! Seriously you dont need a guy like him! Guys are so stupid sometimes and you know what hes gonna be upset once he realize that hes lost the best thing! Dont leave suicide is the easy way out when things are getting tough! I know how it is but just keep your head up and stay strong! Maybe go to someone for help about the arm cutting so you dont want to do it again. because Cutting does get addicting. Just remember that there is a lot of people that care about you, even though it may not seem like it right now but when someone commits suicide it affects everyone! Not just the family and the friends, but the eniemes (sp?) and everyone in your school would be affected. Theres many many more fish in the sea just gotta cast your line back out once your ready again. Stay strong! Just think before you do anything
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The SP thing means spelling, like i wasnt sure if i spelt that wrong or whatever!
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Hey Liza! I know you want him back, but that was the meanest thing you could ever do in a break up, he laughed at you. And thats not right. I've been through a bad break up, a pretty BAD one, and it was nothing like that. Thats probably the worst one. And you could do so much better than that. You're only 14, you have a lot to live for. I know sometimes when you're young, you can fall in love early, but that's just not love, thats just hurting the other person. You're cutting yourself for him and what is he doing, he's hurting you more and more. And you don't deserve that! No one does! But, you do want to live, its just a breakup and I know a pretty bad breakup, but you have a lot to live for and to discover and try new things with. NEW THINGS like new guys. Go out and have fun! There are tons of guys out there and I know you're just going to say but he's the only guy. No, just go put yourself out there for other guys. And show him you're not hurting that you're moving on, just like he did to you. You'll be okay. And please don't cut yourself, if you feel like you want to, put a rubberband around your wrist and snap it everytime you feel like you want to cut. If you still want to talk about this, just leave a message in my inbox, I'll be glad to help you out and get you through this. And you'll be okay hun!!
xoxo Kourtney
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Wow, if he did that to you he is not worth it! Omgsh and dont destroy your body because of him. There is no need to do something like that! Find a new guy! There are plenty of them out there, you just have to find the right one =).. obviously it was not him. But dont hurt yourself! Stay strong.. its his loss, not yours
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