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fights..
My boyfriend, we'll call him *Bob*, and i always fight...like seriously, we can't get through a day with out fighting about something. but i love him with all my heart...and couldn't break up with him even if i tried...but what should i do? i can't handle all the argueing?
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if u ever have a boyfriend that u always fight with theres no solutins. try being friends or take time maybe u'll realize u werent meant for each other
hope this helps,
chynna
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How about therapy like medeation.
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well me and my bf fight alot too but its about pety stuff and try talking it out it REALLY does work and if u love him like u say u do u proly already have ;)
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I think yall just need to take a break for a few days. Then hopefully yall will have time to sort out your feelings and the arguing wont be as bad. Good luck
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just agree with him or say your idea was good and so was mine ( something nice so yall cant fight )
Love Ashley , plz rate me / he cant fight if u agree with him
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Maybe the next time you get in a fight you should say "stop this is so stupid, if we are goin to persue a serious relationship, we should start working on it. And on the other hand what is a perfect relationship without fighting!
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Try to avoid arguments. Even when somtthing really gets to you, think about how stupid it would be to start another fight, and just be the bigger person and don't let it get to you. You can also talk to your boyfriend (without arguing) and ask him if he has noticed how much the 2 of you have been fighting and what are some ways these things can be avoided. Tell him you love him, and you know this relationship can work but the 2 of you have to get out of this "fighting phase" Good Luck! :)
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try and talk to him calmly and tell him u hate when u to fight and u really love him and u want to tay together.
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well just tell him you hate fighting with him and you just want things to be okay together.. try to be more calm when he says something rude or something and just keep your cool.. otherwise maybe it may be the best thing just to break up with him=/
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Well seein as how most of us have been thru this at least once . . . i would just suggest that you and *bob* set aside time for the two of you to talk about this problem and actually listen toeach other. if you love each other so much then you will come to and agreement that is best suited for each of you.
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Have you talked to him about the fact that you fight so much? Communication is often the problem in relationships. Explain to him what you just told us; that you fight daily and you can't handle it. Reassure him that you love him with all your heart and don't want to break up and all that. See if you can't smooth it out. Good luck!
-Siren =)
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i think that maybe it might be bcuz you spend to much time togeher but im not sure bcuz you didnt state that in your entry..but that could be it..it happens the same way with friends..if not maybe you two need to sit down and talk calmly and make sacrifices..youre both probably stubborn and have to much pride to let the other win..even if he is wrong somtimes let him win...the fighting will cutdown and the realationship will go smoother. you have to remember that men always have to feel dominant..so let him win every now and then without letting him walk all over you!
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It's perfectly normal. All the good couples argue, but that's what brings the both of them closer. So don't worry. You guys are good together!!Thanx much!
~Chelsea~
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maybe you should take a break not break up but just take a lil break every once in a while. i hope my advice helped plzz tell me if it did. ( plzz rate me)
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well couples always fight and alot of the it brings them closer. or just take a break thats always good.
hope my advice works.please rate me
**jessic**
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Try talking to him and explain to him that you really love him but you can't stand fighting with him all the time because u really love him and u want to stay with him ... Maybe try watching what you say if you know certain little things that make him mad, try to avoid conversations that might start fights.. but basically i would just tell him what u told everyone here!! Good Luck with everything
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Babe all y0u gotta do is talk to him about how much y0u love him and y0u two need to stop! I go thru the same thing with my boyfriend and i told him ya know i love him and i hate fighting and we've stopped! And if not then i guess y0u two just werent meant ta be... Good luck*
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Well just stop and think before you speak and watch what you say and talk to him about it but maybe it means you may need to take a momentarily break for the time being-trix
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Well, sometimes relationships hit a bumpy road and you have to work through it by talking. Even marriages has fights and they get through it by fighting. Look at how your parents get through it. Try talking to your boyfriend about the arguing and just be like "I dont want to argue anymore because I'm just getting really sick of it and I'm so afraid I'll lose you because I love you with all my heart" Just tell him how you feel. Next time you argue, you should be the calm one and not blow up and try talking it through very calmly. Because sometimes when you blow up at him, it'll make things worse. So, be calm and just sit him down and just be like "We need to talk this through instead of yelling at each other" Hope this helps and good luck!!
xoxo Kourtney
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Well just try and not fight, and try and not get mad at the things he does or whatever. I know how it is to fight with someone a lot, me and my guy use to ALWAYS fight but now were a lot better! and we hardly fight at all! :) But i've been close to losing him so just be careful!
-holly-
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