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wuts the normal weight for a 13 year old and 5'-5'1? (link)
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i would say 100-120...xoxo effy
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i have known johnathan since the 3rd grade and he jus asked me out. I walked by and his friends were laughin cuz he said, I have butterflys in my arm. Then Adam (friend) said its supposed to be ur stomach. Adam said dude do u want me to ask her? Johnathan said, yea plz. then adam said will u go out wit him? I said, I said no, im sry but, we are just really good friends. every since then he hasnt talked to me. do u think hes mad? Iam a female and I am 18. (link)
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i dont think he mad...i would say he is crushed.!!!! i mean poor guys he just been rejected...he is prolly one of the kind that cant b friends wit someone he cares more then just a friend...he needs sometime alone...to get over u...dats all :) xoxo effy
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im IN LOVE with a guy and i realli want him to like me to but he doesnt seem to care about me the way i care about him even tho he says i love u and stuff i mean i cant take it i have loved him for 2 yrs he liked me b4 but we never told eachother and i neeeeeeed him i love him soo much i cry at nite for him and everything but i dont think he gets it and im too shy to talk to him ....wut can i do? (link)
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gurl....listen if u want him real bad...n u need him...then dont b shy n go tell him wut u feel...hopefully he feels da same way...n he likes u the same way so u wont b rejected...but if he rejects u trust me its better regreating something u did then something u didnt do!!! i hope eveyrthing works out...xoxo effy
TALK TO HIM!!!
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okay so i was really really close friend with my x we'll call him t.j so i was really close to tj b4 we went out then one day he asked me out and of course i said yes! and we went out for like 3 weeks (not that long) but i was then end of the school year and i didn't want a bf over the summer so i broke up with him. but now when i look back i really miss all the things he used to say and do for me! i really miss him alot now!! and i want him back! but everytime i try to call him the line is always busy cuz his sis talks alot on the phone! so wut do i do? (link)
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hi, well u def. need to talk to him....find one way or the other...see how he feels...see wussup wit him...n bout ur friends...if they're ur real friends they woulndt go wit ur ex...n plus tell them u still have feelins for him they'll understand :) (ofcourse if they're tru friends)so good luck xoxo effy
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what does cybering mean? (link)
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lol...EX: when ur online (lets say a guy ims u/or a gurl) n she starts sayin wut she will do to u...n u say wut u will do to her/him...n while sayin shit to eachother masterbate at da same time!!!....xoxo effy
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am i considered over weight if i'm 5'2" and 120 lb.? i'm not fat fat, but i have a gut. my thighs are big too, but my arms and legs aren't. (link)
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ur not fat...but exercise to fix those thighs :) xoxo effy
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does a guy kno when he pops ur cherry or no? iight cuz I wanna have sex wit this guy an he thinks im not a virgin an i am... an i was woundering if he would be able to tell like would it bleed that bad that he would notice or is there some way he would kno cuz i dont wanna make it sound like im lieing i just dont want him to find out someone plzz write back asap..Or e-mail me at Lilfarmerchick75@yahoo.com
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hi, well to b very honest not all the gurls have the "cherry" some gurls bleed some dont...some are born without it...some lose it through exercise...n some lose it when they put on tampons...but that dont mean u aint a vergin...if u have it...n ur da type dat bleeds..then he will kno that he poped it..tell him to search through health sites...n he will see that wut i just told u now...its tru...so all he has to do is trust u! n if he loves u...HE WILL TRUST U!!! hope i helped...xoxo effy... if anything else holla at yr gurl! :)
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okay so my friend alex(we'll say) she knew this guy we'll say his name is tyler. okay so alex met tyler at her old school and when i asked her if she knew ne hotties she gave me his sn. so i i.med him one day and we've been talkin online for the past 9 months or so. and i really have grown to love him! i think that i might even be falling for him. and i really wanna meet him face to face one day. but i have no clue how i would explain him to my parents! bcuz when i first got aim i wasn't suppsoed to talk to n e one i didn't knoe! and now i might even go meet him?? idk so please help me asap! (link)
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hey gurl,let me tell u that i totally understand wut ur talkin bout cuz i've been there n i kno wussup...well let me tell u that from my experience n from wut i've hurd from other ppl that has gone through the same thing....LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIPS DO NOT, i repeat DO NOT work!!!! i know wut u going through n i know wut u thinking...so if u wanna go ahead n give it a try GO AHEAD!!!...n do wut u gotta do..go see him...u know w/e w/e...its better if ur parents will know...just tell them u ended up meeting him there n u dunno how but u falled for him...i bet they will understand..i'll explain better 2 u if u dont know wut i'm talkin bout n i'll tell u wut happend wit me...if u interested n u wanna kno then holla at yr gurl...i'll b here my s/n is xxhotsexycutiexx xoxo effy
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ok i dont know why but my first page on my column has like disappeared?!? is there a way to bring it back??
ill rate ya if it helps
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strange...hmmm i dunno y would it do such a thing...may b b/c u answered 2 many questions...
xoxo effy
i dont think u can bring it back
P.S. dont rate me cuz i kno u'll prolly give me a 1 lmao...cuz i didnt help much did i?!?!
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Okay, ONLINE, I've been talking to this guy for at least 2 years. He is the sweetest, greatest guy. But I ONLY have talked to him online, and the phone. And believe me, he's no 50 year old man.:P Well, for like the first year I talked to him, I liked him so much. I even got jealous if he talked to another girl. And, turns out, he liked me too. Just..both of us never said anything. Which totally sucks, because things could've been so differet! :( But, my problem is that I still like him. I love him, hell. I do..but I think he's over me. In his mind we're still just really best friends, but I want to be more. If I tell him, he'll probably be freaked out..cause, well, he prob. thinks I'm over him, too. But..noo..=/ (link)
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hmmm well tell him how u feel...but keep in mind LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIPS DONT WORK...cuz from wut i see he must b far from u that u talked to him only on da phone n online...so trust me get a guy thats close to u :) xoxo effy
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Hey you guys, can you hel;p me? I'm looking for a good website with cute girly clothes that don't cost a lot, almost like a cheap delias.....do you guys have any favoirite websites? (link)
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hmmm i dont relly go to websites n look for clothes...but i know wut will help u go through websites...www.google.com...n search for "cheap n cute clothes" it will show u bunch of sites...check them out see wussup :) xoxo effy
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okay so about two years ago i went to florida by myself and visited my reletives and while i was there i met this boy a freind of their family so i got really close to him and we made out. well i didn't think that he would tell ne one but he ended up tellin my reletives. and of course i denied it and now im goin back to florida and im afriad that i might c him. i kinda want to bcause i wanna see how he grew up and i just really wanna c him but im too embarrased to ask my reletives to invite him over while im there. so wut do i do? please help me. ASAP!
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gurl best thing is to not ask bout him ....if u wanna c him hopefully n if ur lucky he'll b there...if u ask or say anything then ur parents n ur relatives will b suspicious...if u see him this time n end up hookin up wit him tell him not to open his big mouth! lmao good luck xoxo effy
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How do you know when a guy likes you for you and not just your body? Ya know, cause some guys now-a-days feel intimidated by a girls mind and become lil punk asses!!! *wink*wink*p-boy!*
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i cant explain...dats something u just see it n its out there...when he can b abel to talk to u bout eveyrthing thats when he likes u or loves u for u n not for ur body!!! ;) xoxo effy
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hey i went out with this guy for about four months and then he dumped me and i i loved him so much! i miss him so bad! were like really good friends now and i know that i can tell him anything and he'll like always understand! and i just think thats the coolest thing ever! he knows how i feel about him and i talked to him for a while about it and he said he like loves me to death as a friend... and only as a friend! what should i do we've been friends for a while now and i think that if he was going to ever get any feelings for me he would have shown them by now! he's always acting like he likes me but then when we talk he says he doesn't i don't get it! he's so confusing! were supposed to go to a movie soon and i wanted to ask him out but i wasn't sure if he really liked me like because he acted like it or if it was just acting! he's a shy person and i know he doen't like to ask girls out because he gets really nervous and he gets nervous whenever i talk to him about that kind of stuff so i don't know if i should ask him out at the movies or what!?!? what should i do? (link)
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hi, well listen u said that u told him how u feel bout him a couple of times n he always told u that he loves u to death but only as a friend...dont u think thats tru...may b he doesnt see u like dat anymore..may b he sees u as a good friend...as his sister...someone he could count on whenever he needs 2...n may b u love him the same way...but u think u love him as a b/f...i mean i think it would b good if like u guys gived it one more try...n see if it could work...actually talk to him n tell him that u feel somethin strong for him ...n u dont know wut its is...tell him to give it one more chance...n if it doenst work then b friends again the way u were b4 ;) dont u think thats a good idea?!?!/ xoxo effy good luck!
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I really like this one guy aand I know he likes me. How do I tell him how I feel? Should I wait untill he makes the first move because that is what I think I should do. Im to afraid to tell him myself (link)
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listen give him some more time...may be he is scared to tell u cuz he might think that he might get rejected...so show to him that ur interested...n show to him that u care...n if he doesnt make a first move soon then prolly he is one of those shy guys...so u go ahead n do ur thing :) xoxo effy
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i still love this guy very much..we went out for a year then broke up b/c things werent working out at the time... and now he might be dating my best friend. she told him she doesnt like me now,some freind huh? i still like him so much.. i never knew how much until he was gone.. i only broke up with him b/c he gave me lots of attitude sometimes, and he hung out with his freinds more then he did with me.. i felt like i was a nobody. we barely ever saw eachother and he called me like only like once every 2 weeks..and i got sick of it...but now i regret doing it..we used to so alot of things together.. i dont know why i love him so much.. and it pisses me off so much b/c him and my best freind... i love him.. :-( now him and my best freind are gonna hit it off, i just feel so bad and upset.. i never knew how much i really liked him.. he told me later in the future we would work it out.. but i don't see that happening.. they say absence makes the heart grow fonder.. he loved me soo much he claimed, and even his mom told me..but all those little things added up and made me break up with him... can u help me out?? i dont know what to do? your prolly gonna tell me to get over it but i cant.. he is all i think about 24/7 and i get depressed.. well thanks alot... (link)
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hi, well 1st let me tell u that ur so called "best friend" aint a fraind at all...n she is a backstaber...so put a line accross her name n get ur self a new best friend...someone u can count on for anything n u can trust ;)...bout ur ex boyfriend...i wont tell u to get over him cuz i know how u feel...i know wut is like to think bout someone 24/7...(i'm there..-n-thank god i still have him cuz i dunno wut i would do without him) anyways if u want ur ex back n u know that he still got feelings for u...then do w/e u got to do to get him bak!!!...always wear something nice...n sexy...always have light make up on...lookin good n pretty...always b kool...n close to him as much as u can!!! call him..talk to him...start it off as friends at first...make him get those feelings back for u :) n then HELL YAH GURL...GO FOR IT...i wish u the best n i hope u get him bak!!!...if it doesnt work...then i dunno i guess u have to move on...n count him something as past then present!!! xoxo effy
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I have been doing crunches regularly for a while now and I only see little results of a six pack. Do you know of any other ways I can get a six pack a little bit quicker?
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eat healthy n go to the gym...also run!!! ;) xoxo effy
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ok say ur boyfriend hasnt called u n like 3 months
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BREAK UP WIT HIM..ACTUALLY U DONT HAVE TO CUZ I BET HE PROLLY THINKS UR GUYS ARE BROKED ALREADY
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okay so ive liked this boy for the longest time every since the beginin of the year ive liked him on and off again. so then when the summer came we were talkin and hanging out and stuff and he grew to like me back so we made plans that we were gonna hook up one day when we were both free. so i was all lookin forward to this day. well i just talked to him online and he told me that he didn't mean to hurt me when he says this but "i really like this other gurl and she is the only one for me right now but we can still b friends" well wtf! PLAYER!! god i cried! i mean i knoe im not supposed to cry over boys but i mean this one really hurt my feeling i didnt kno wut to tell him but i was just trying to be nice about the whole thing saying "i hope everything works out" and just letting it go! did i do the right thing? or was i supposed to tell him how much it hurt me? or was i supposed to play it cool and act like i didn't care? or wut do i do now? please help me asap!
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broken heart (link)
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hi, well i'm very sorry bout wut happend to u...i hope u get better n everything...listen i think u did good that u didnt show him how u felt cuz u were gonna make him feel to special n he doesnt deserve ur tears n ur sadness...just move on n try to meet new ppl fall for another guy but a nice one this time that will love u the way u deserve...carful dont fall for a player like dat...if u dont wanna get hurt...i hope everything goes well n ur not so hurt anymore n i hope a wonderful guy walks in ur life n makes everything worth it :) xoxo effy best wishes!
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Hey, i have a problem, theres this guy that i really really like..and i always have, and at once tyme he said he liked me and he wanted to do stuff with me, and it was the happiest tyme of my life..but then all of a sudden everything stoped, like he stoped IM'ing me...and smiling at me...everytning, and i found out he liked his x-g/f again..i was crushed..i was never so sad in my life...and to make matters wrose, after this once again he said he liked me and i feel fer it again and i ended up getting hurt again. :-( and i think i know what ur gunna say, that hes not worth it if he does this to me and stuff..but he is worth it, id go threw it all again jsut for him, b/c thats how much i care about him...i dont wanna move on, and i..ugh, idk, *please help me*
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hi, yes ur right i am gonna say that he is not worth ur tears n ur sadness...wut i would do its move one...let a new guy get to kno me n give me da love i deserve...but then again i know wut u mean n i know u dont wanna move on...n let me tell u that the thing u said "id go threw it al just for him" was very sweet...n i wonder wuts wrong wit dis kid that cant see the sweet gurl that its inisde of u...but prolly he is young n selfish n doesnt see that...listen if u like him so much n u would go over it again n again n get hurt over n over again then go for it n do wut u been doing....i hope dis time though he falls for u..n he sees the real u...i relly mean it..i hope he feels u the way u feel him...i dunno wut to tell u...but as much as u dont want to try to move on...n let another guy come in to ur life...or else ur gonna get hurt...n u dont deserve it! xoxo effy best wishes!
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