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Please, please help me.
Okay, ONLINE, I've been talking to this guy for at least 2 years. He is the sweetest, greatest guy. But I ONLY have talked to him online, and the phone. And believe me, he's no 50 year old man.:P Well, for like the first year I talked to him, I liked him so much. I even got jealous if he talked to another girl. And, turns out, he liked me too. Just..both of us never said anything. Which totally sucks, because things could've been so differet! :( But, my problem is that I still like him. I love him, hell. I do..but I think he's over me. In his mind we're still just really best friends, but I want to be more. If I tell him, he'll probably be freaked out..cause, well, he prob. thinks I'm over him, too. But..noo..=/
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tell him how u feel! cuz if not ur gonna always wonder wat if.. maybe u should try to meet n then tell him in person! but i think its best for u to tell him how u really feel! gud luk xoxo angie
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I had the exact same problem with my best friend. Everyone knew he was gay but he just wasn't ready to tell. He eventually came out,and gained alot more respect for it. However, don't rush him into confessing anything, he'll do it eventually if he IS gay, it's not an easy thing for someone to come out and say. The best thing you can do is continue to be his friend, stick up for him when someoen calls him gay (EVEN IF YOU AGREE) and eventually he'll come out, when HE'S ready. We forced my friend too, and it's something I regret a whole bunch looking back on. Just don't hassle him about it...like I said, he'll come out some day, that is, if he's gay...he could just be feminine?
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Well if he feels the same way i dont think he will freak out. I think u should tell him.
~jessica~
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U should tell him that you thought he was over you so u didnt want to reaveal ur feeling for him then maybe he might understand and take ur relashionship higher.
Sincerely Jessica
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well i don't think theres much you can do just because its an online fling.. but then again if you really do care about this guy i would just tell him and come clean about it.. who knows maybe he feels the same way about u?!=P if he doesnt then make him like u! just talk to him and flirt a lil and stuff that always seems to turn guys on! =)
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TO: Please, please help me.
thahs how i am with my reallie close frend...hes like totally cool and everything buh i dunt think he likes me like THAH anymore...im planning to just tell him straight sometime this summer tho...i mean if we are as close of frends as i think we are then things should be fine rite? i wont hab anything to lose...same with you and your frend...mehbe you should just tell him straite too...it mite help...ya noe?
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hmmm well tell him how u feel...but keep in mind LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIPS DONT WORK...cuz from wut i see he must b far from u that u talked to him only on da phone n online...so trust me get a guy thats close to u :) xoxo effy
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Having a long distance relationship is hard and you two haven't seen each other and its been 2 years! But, you love him, so I'll try to help you out! =D When you're on the phone just be like "I'm not trying to freak you out or anything, don't get me wrong I love being friends with you and we always will be, but I still like you" Just say something like that and say "And I was just wondering if you still liked me too." Just something short and sweet and how you feel about him. But, if he doesn't like you, then you guys can still remain friends! Good luck hun!! =D
xoxo Kourtney
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I'm sorrie. I know how you feel, but things like this really don't work out. It's difficult to hold long distance relationships in the first place... but to have a long distance relationship with someone you've never met in person? It's not a good idea. sorrie!
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Just tell him your feelings, he probably feels the same way and just isn't sure whether he should express them anymore or not..
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