okay so i was really really close friend with my x we'll call him t.j so i was really close to tj b4 we went out then one day he asked me out and of course i said yes! and we went out for like 3 weeks (not that long) but i was then end of the school year and i didn't want a bf over the summer so i broke up with him. but now when i look back i really miss all the things he used to say and do for me! i really miss him alot now!! and i want him back! but everytime i try to call him the line is always busy cuz his sis talks alot on the phone! so wut do i do?
Additional info, added Thursday July 15 2004, 3:16 pm: and now that im not with him n e more i think that my friends all like him now! and i don't wanna tell them that NO YOU CAN'T HAVE HIM HE'S MINE! cuz ill look like a totally dummie cuz i was the one who dumped him and now im trying to save him all to myself when hes not even mine n e more! please help me. Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? sxyxbabii answered Friday July 16 2004, 7:32 am: if he has aim or aol try to get in touch with him through that.. or maybe talk to one of his friends and ask where he lives or if they can talk to him for you or something..? [ sxyxbabii's advice column | Ask sxyxbabii A Question ]
jOrDaN04 answered Thursday July 15 2004, 11:04 pm: wow..this happened to me to..if you know his s/n talk to him online! or just stop by his house, or if you happen to see him somewhere just tell him that you two should hang out some time and see what his response is..if he seems cool with it bring up the "good times" you guys had when you were together, if he seems into you tell him ya miss him and maybe even ask him out..make sure the timing is right though..=)
MarissaD90 answered Thursday July 15 2004, 9:35 pm: hey,
you now maybe he moved on. does he have a girlfriend? if he doesnt you should ask him out again what are you going to lose. anyways you should move on just in case he says no [ MarissaD90's advice column | Ask MarissaD90 A Question ]
xxhotsexycutiexx answered Thursday July 15 2004, 5:20 pm: hi, well u def. need to talk to him....find one way or the other...see how he feels...see wussup wit him...n bout ur friends...if they're ur real friends they woulndt go wit ur ex...n plus tell them u still have feelins for him they'll understand :) (ofcourse if they're tru friends)so good luck xoxo effy [ xxhotsexycutiexx's advice column | Ask xxhotsexycutiexx A Question ]
KoTaKiTtAy44 answered Thursday July 15 2004, 4:06 pm: just keep trying to call him! or even visit him over at his house! but school is gunna start so maybe then you could get some alone time with him! but good luck with*hope i helped* <3/Dakota
PiMpEtTeKiSsEs13 answered Thursday July 15 2004, 3:47 pm: I guess when u get the chance to talk to him when his is ain't on the phone..Call and tell him what you want him to know about how u feel about him. And see what he thinks about it..and what he says back to you! [ PiMpEtTeKiSsEs13's advice column | Ask PiMpEtTeKiSsEs13 A Question ]
BlueEyedBlondie725 answered Thursday July 15 2004, 3:36 pm: Yea, you never know what you have til its gone huh? Boys cause trouble I swear haha. If you know where he lives, you should try going over there and talking to him and saying what you just told us. (but leave the friends part out lol) Just say "When I broke up with you it was because I didnt want a boyfriend, but when I lost you, I didn't realize I would miss you that much and I still like you and I just want to know if you would ever go back out with me?" Just say something like that and how you feel about him and stuff like that. As for your friends, they are you friends, so they shouldn't be going out with your ex boyfriend or anything! But, since they're your friends, you should tell them "Yea, I still like my ex boyfriend and I'm going to try to hook up with him again" Say something like that. Hope this helps and tell me how it goes! =D Good luck hun!
Diddy_Kong_Racer answered Thursday July 15 2004, 3:23 pm: Well first of all you have to admit it was stupid to break up with him just because you didn't want him over the summer. Couples spend time together a lot. You might have hurt him bad enough that he wouldnt want you back. It might be best to just move on. I have almost the same problem and I am letting my bf go.
Mackenzie answered Thursday July 15 2004, 3:21 pm: Try to find him at school. Write him an email. Stop by his house. There's plenty of ways to get ahold of him. If you ever call and for some reason he's not available, make sure to leave your name and number with the person that answered the phone so "T.J." can call you back. Goodluck. I really hope things work out. [ Mackenzie's advice column | Ask Mackenzie A Question ]
DorkyJay27 answered Thursday July 15 2004, 3:20 pm: Keep tryin to call him 'till some1 finally picks up.Then talk to him about the situation and see if he'll got out again, or even just be friends. [ DorkyJay27's advice column | Ask DorkyJay27 A Question ]
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