If you havent gotten your period yet,then yes it could be a sign your going to get it.You can check out this website for signs before youll get your period
http://www.askdrsears.com/html/1/T011000.asp.If oyu have some or all of those signs,then congrats youll become a woman soon!But if not,the discharge is normal,all girls get it,its kind of a sign that your body is healthy.

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On what happened go here :
http://www.religioustolerance.org/tsunami04j.htm
http://www.infoplease.com/spot/hurricanekatrina.html

Go here on how to help them out:
http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/9115520/
http://american.redcross.org/site/PageServer?pagename=ntld_main

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Well if you look on google the definition of it is in two ways, the first one is,music of general appeal to teenagers; a bland watered-down version of rock'n'roll with more rhythm and harmony and an emphasis on romantic love.And the second one is Depending on context, pop music is either an abbreviation of popular music or, more recently, a term for a sub-genre of it.Here ill give you the link to it : http://www.google.com/search?hl=en&lr=&q=define%3Apop+music

Basically there is different types of "pop music" like there ones for teenagers,mainstream pop,heck theres even korean pop music! i hope that answers your question,it made me think what exactly pop music was too.


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Well i heard that blacks,purples(like eggplant and raisin type of shades),and soft pinks make them pop.
I also found this site that might help you out:
http://www.ehow.com/how_9604_select-clothing-colors.html

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Hun,i wont worry about it.When you do have sex with someone you should talk about it,and tell him to go slow and if the pain is too unbearable to keep going then you can tell him to stop and give it a rest for a little bit until you think your ready to try again.Alot of girls will go through what youll eventually will be going though.Sex will hurt the first few times you do it because your still tight,but eventually youll become loose and youll hardly feel any pain and it will be more pleasurable for you.You can tell your mom it hurts you down there whenever you put in a tampon and she what she says,maybe she can help out with it.I found this website which might help you out too with your question:
http://www.hebs.com/thinkaboutit/html_only/questions.cfm?id=10

read the question and answer part ; ]

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Try to google "trucker hats for girls" i found some websites on there,i dont know if they will help you out or not.I see some trucker hats in pacsun,limited too,journey,vans,lids,Charoltte Russe (however you spell it) might have them and hot topic.Hope i could help!

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http://www.google.com/search?hl=en&lr=&q=%22la%22+trucker+hats

try that too,i dont know if their the hats your looking for though.

I got my digital camera on christms this year,and i have the same one as you.It works pretty good i think when you want to do a close up a few feet away,but if you want to take a picture and its kinda too far away and you do 4.0 it kinda become too blurry and you cant really see someones face that much but i think it works really well.But overrall,The pictures it takes are very nice.

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Hun,if you guys arent going out and you guys arent really into each other i wouldnt do it,its kinda a slutty thing to do if you just do it because a guy told you to do it your kinda sinking yourself pretty low there.But to answer your question YES you should its safer to do so you both dont get any STD's,eventhough some guys say its not as pleasurable then it is without a condom,but you really should use a condom.

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Its love hun.When you have sex with a girl who was a virgin before she lost it to you she becomes attached to you and she thinks something is there between you too since youve done something thats supposed to be really special between two people.It may seem like an obsession but its really not,she just cares deeply about you.If you feel the same way about her you should tell her,if you dont then i wouldnt keep having sex with her and lead her on like that because she'll end up getting hurt in the end.

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Well yeah usually, if you dont want to get a disease,its safer to do that otherthan not to use one.

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Well im my opinion,I would say whenever your mature enough and ready to take care of a child if you end up pregnant,and know the consequences of sex.But I guess if i had to pick an age,i would say uhmm around 16 or 17.

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Aw I remember 8th grade i was happy to get out of that grade lol

You could curl your hair,and on one side put like a cute glittery bobbypin in your hair.You could have your hair straight and have like like a couple pieces of your hair on each side twisted back sorta like a half ponytail and use a hair tie and then put in a flower for the hair you know,that would be really cute.You can cringe your hair and put those little jewels in your hair where you can just snap them,and theyll stay on your hair,you can get them at claires.You could straighten your hair and then take a few pieces around your hair and curl them.One of my favorites is when you have one of those like barrettes in your hair like this : http://i.b5z.net/i/u/1287671/i/barettes05_252.jpg
it dosent have to have all those jewel thingys on it though,it can be a simple one,put your hair back the front of your hair and if you have bangs put them in front of your face while your hairs back and straight that would be really cute.I hope that helps you out.

♥ danielle

Sorry Im A Little Late On This.

I kinda need more details about your hair like if its short,long,medium,curly,straight,wavy,thick or thin because it kinda helps me out,and what kind of way you can make a messy bun with your certain hair type.

What i do to have a messy bun is that i put my head upside down brush the back of my hair so theres no bumps,then i put my head up again like i kinda whip it up if you get what im saying lol then i put it as high as i want it too and i make sure i have all my hair in my hands then i kinda curl the end if you know what i mean it kinda makes a "c" then i hold one hand there,and use my other hand to get the hair ties,i use those thin ones with the metal thing in them.Then i twirl the hair tie around twice so it stays in place,and i kinda leave some pieces down and i pull some pieces out of my bun so it gets a little more messer.I dont knwo about your hair but mines curly and thick.If it come into a ponytail you might not be tieing it good enough dont just put the hair tie around your hair once,go around 2 or 3 times.Also,dont put the onytail close to where your hair ends you know what i mean? like when you make the sort of "c" dont go to close to wear your hair ends because then for sure its gonna come out so you dont want to do it too close there.Im sorry if this kind of confuses you lol it would be better if i actually like showed you.

I thought maybe these three websites will help you a great deal,better then how i can explain how i do mine haha

http://wiki.ehow.com/Make-a-Messy-Bun
http://www.geocities.com/flominggo/messy.html
http://beauty.about.com/cs/minuteupdos/a/messyupdo.htm

If you have anymore questions or need anymore help just leave one in my inbox ; ]

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Theres really noway you can "control" them,i mean your 13 years old and your just starting to have urges and wants and its okay.Its good that you want to masturbate otherthan just go out and have sex with someone.The only thing i can really tell you is that when you do it do it in a private place like a bathroom or your bedroom keep the door closed,you probably shouldnt do it when alot of people are home so do it before you go to bed or at night something like that.You really cant control it,but if you feel the urge you need to do it think of something else or do something else to keep you occupied like play outside,talk on the phone,go over a friends house just do something to keep your mind off of masturbating.But if you cant control it and you feel that you need to do it do it,its normal lots of girls do it your not alone ; ]

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Well in my opinion,I dont really think so i mean thats when our hormones start and we start to want to do things with guys/girls.I started wanted it at like around 13 or 14 lol so yeah its totally normal.I probably wont recommend actually having sex though at 13,believe me its a bad idea.

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No,it just means you dont go for that type of race or are interested on those type of girls.It dosent necessaryly mean your "racist".Im kind of like you,ive seen some good looking black guys,but im not really attracted to them.Everyone likes or prefers different things.


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No,different guys get turned on by different things.Some guys dont get turned on right away so it takes awhile,dont think because he didnt have a boner you didnt do a good job.

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Well your right,everyone does want it but its not just all about "sex".I dont think its right if you go out with someone and your only doing that just to get sex from the person and a relationship wont come out of it.I think you should have sex when you find that speical person to be with and share it with,thats what makes it speical.Chances are if you just get with someone only for sex,that person will get hurt,but if the person just wants sex like you do then i guess theres nothing wrong with it as long as one of you dont get attached to the other.Even though youve probably done this already,you can masturbate too instead of just going out and having sex.

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Uhmm I Have Some:
You and Me-Lifehouse
All My Life-KC&JoJo
Collide-Howie Day
Ill Never Break Your Heart-thebackstreetboys
Never Had A Dream Come True-SClub7
What's Left Of Me-Nick Lachey
This I Promise You-NSYNC
God Mustve Spent A Little More Time On You-NSYNC
Ill Be-Edwin McCain
Unbelievable-Kaci Brown
Cater 2 U-Destiny's Child
Hear You Me-Jimmy Eat World
End Of The Road-Boys 2 Men
If I'm Not The One-Daniel Bedingfield
Dont Wanna Try-Frankie J
More Than Words-Frankie J
Going Crazy-Natalie
I Wanna Love You Forever-Jessica simpson
A Moment Like This-Kelly Clarkson
Amazed-Lonestar

Those Are Some Of My Favorites!
I thought maybe you would want more,and this site is PERFECT for you:
http://www.madmanmike.com/popular_slow_songs.html

Also,if theirs a slow song you guys have as like maybe "your song" put that in there as well.

Aw! i remember my 8th grade dinner dance good times...

I went to Macy's and got this really cute dress for 40 bucks.This year,i went too DEB they have ALOT of cute things.So i would suggest DEB,JCpenny's,Boscov's,Macy's,and Marshalls.Those store i think are the best,and are great prices if you dont want to spent alot.You shouldnt wear anything long for your dance since its 8th grade its formal yeah but its not like your a junior or a senior you know? so i would recommend going short ; ]


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Byes guys im done on advicenators it was a good 6 year run :)

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