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I`m Desiree

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i`m 17 years old

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14/f

My boyfriend and I have been together for 9 months. I'm finally getting tired of being second best to his friend. His best friend, I understand. But he will ditch days with me just to hang out with him and 'be bored' and such. It makes me feel insecure about our relationship. He says he misses me so much when we don't get to see each other. And he gets mad if I'm not making enough time in my schedule for him. But it's okay for him to neglect me, in his eyes. I wanna talk to him about it, but I don't wanna come off as the obsessive psycho girlfriend. How should I put it to him?

You should talk to him.. Don`t hold this inside cause if you anything a bit like some girls you`ll explode and come off as a bitch..

Talk to him like you do about any other thing that goes on in your relationship.. ♥Dez

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are there any lip plumping lip glosses that dont burn? i saw this one in a catalog but my mom threw it away. i want an inexpensive one. preferably one that doesnt stink...lol thanks

I know Sally Hanson makes some but i`m not sure of price..♥Dez

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Yes, I'm on my period, but ususally I am so good about cravings, but now they're unavoidable! Could anyone please tell me how not stop, but give in to my cravings, without them being unhealthy? Chocolate...ugh...it's the worst. Your help would be appreciated. Thanks.

Eat something else maybe thats more healthier && make sure it can fill you up a bit so atleast the craving will go away..♥Dez

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15/f
I've been going out with this guy for about a month and a half, and everytime he's at my house he's messing with my younger sister. He's almsot a year oldger than me and she's over a year younger than me. She likes to aggrivate people espicially when I have someone over. And lately he's been acting the same towards her. He'll get up and chase her around the house until she runs outside then he'll sit back down until she comes in the room again and then he'll get a pillow and smack her with it. It's really starting to get on my nerves, what should I do to make this stop?

Woah..I can understand that would get annoying all the time.. i mean my boyfriend plays around with my sister a little but he isn`t like an aggervating brother towards her..

Umm i suggest telling him to knock it off..If he doesn`t maybe act a bit bitchy towards him..♥Dez

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My bf came over to my place one day while I went to check my mail. I came back with all my mail, a couple of bills, and one letter that had no return address on it. My bf got very suspicous and asked me who could of wrote it. I said I didnt know, and that it was none of him business. He accused me of cheating on him. I got really mad and told him to leave. He said he wouldnt leave until I opened the letter. I told him no, so he grabbed the letter and opened it. It turned out to be my cousin. I told him we were through.
Is what he did illegal? I heard someone say once that it's illegal to open someone elses mail. Does anyone here know?

Woah i`m sorry to hear this but isn`t he just an idiot like all guys geeze..

But yes he can get trouble..♥Dez

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Can anybody tell me the words to the kid story book chica chica boom boom?

Hey i loved that story when i was little..

This is all i remember tho [Has to do with the ABC`s right]

Chica Chica Boom Boom will there be enough room!!
Ha ha thats all i know..

try lookin it up on Google..♥Dez

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I am 13 and have never had a bf. All of my friends laugh at me behind my back. I found this out after we had a school dance a couple of nights ago. I danced with this one senior who is kind of on the geeky side, but he's a really nice guy. He's also the only guy who asked me to dance, all the guys in my class don't really like me. Well I found out from one of my nicer friends that all these girls that I thought were my friends were laughing at me at the dance and saying that Lee (the guy I danced with ) was the only guy I could get. They were also laughing and saying what a geek I was for never having a bf.
I was really hurt and felt like crying. Since when is it a crime to have never had a bf? I know girls a lot older than me that arent dating.
What should I do?

Well your 13 you have plenty of time to get boyfriends.. Most girls at that age jump in && out of relationships..[What kind of girl really wants that]

I think you probably need to leave those girls alone they are very childish in my opinion && apparently your not like them [Totally your decision tho]

Here something that might make you not feel so alone.. I didn`t get my first boyfriend until i was 15 && thats also when i got my first kiss too..*by the way i`m still with him i`m 17 now*

Your perfectly normal so don`t feel like your some sort of loser over not having a boyfriend thats just silly and girls always seem to find a way to make girls feel like their crap..♥Dez

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Okay theres this boy that i like and he likes me too.But he hasent asked me out at all? He sends mix signals and i never know if he truley does like me. I mean i understand if he dosent like me and dosent ask me out. But why would he say he did like me and than not ask me out? Its not like im going to say no, if i said i liked him. Does anyone have the slitest clue on what is going on? Im seriously confused.

Thankss a bunch.

He must be shy && nervous..

telling you that he likes you is something simple but asking you out is sometimes difficult for guys..[I don`t get it either]

I think maybe if your comfortable with it talk to him about it or ask him out..

Personally,I think discussing it would be better that way you know whats going on && he`s not like put on the spot of like having to say [Yes!]

Hope the best ♥Dez

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What does it mean "to make woopie"

I was reading a poem my mom wrote after her baby shower. Is this some old expression about sex?

Woopie means to have sex..

Gosh wasn`t their slang weird in those days lol..

♥Dez

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ok so i (16/f) really like this guy that i work with and we get along soo well!! we spent all day together at work after school and every second we spent talking and laughing about random stuff!! anyways he's kinda shy and i dont really know how he feels about me so should i make the first move? im kinda shy when it comes to guys so if anyone gives me some good flirting tips or ways to let him know that i like him i'll give 5s!

I think flirting comes naturally like you do it not noticing..Like i think if i gave you ideas you`ll be worryin about whether your doing it right && stuff..

Do what you feel comfortable with..Like touching wise or what not..Since he seems to be shy i wouldn`t do something too dramatic you know?..

i think making the first move would be a good idea maybe give him && yourself a little more time to be a bit more comfortable round each other..[Then i would deff. make that move!!]

♥Dez

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my friend was siting down eside me and had her legs open and it smelled like a trash can it was nasty but i want to know how to get rid of that so if i ever smell like then i know what to do

There is a thing called a [Douche Bag] that ladies can cleanse that area with..Or you can use [Summers Eve] products.. basically soap && water should do it tho..♥Dez

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ive thought about this for awhile...when guys like skaters and hardcore guys wear extremely tight girl pants. what do they do with thier thing? theres no space for it in the pants...
anyone know?

I would think if they was uncomfortable then they wouldn`t wear the pants..

That area is a bit sensitive so they must be okay..

♥Dez

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im 17 male 5'7" weight 130 lb.'s its it ok for my age cause i look realy skinny how can i gain weight i eat a lot fat foods but don't gain weight. can some one give tips.

Working out can help you gain weight..

I don`t think your under weight tho..

♥Dez

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i been with my gf for 2 months and she says she loves me. i told her its not love, we are getting 2 know each other love will deverlope if we meant 4 each other, time will say so. was that right?

Nopers i surely don`t agree with you.. I don`t think you can tell your grilfriend how she feels about you..Maybe not love but she certainly does have some sort of feelings and does care..

People fall in love all the time and sometimes they don`t work out but does that mean they never loved eachother i don`t think so..

You might not feel the same way but just tell her that don`t say she doesn`t love you or something..[think of how you`d feel if somebody told you how you feel when really you know how you feel]

I`m not sayin she can say like your her soul mate or whatever but she can feel how she wants..

♥Dez

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ok so i am 103lbs 5'4" but i have no muscle. i want to gain muscle and get rid of this roll i have at my stomach. its gross. you honestly wouldnt think at my weight i could have a pudgy tummy but it sits ontop of my jeans and it makes me feel bad. i normally skip breakfast, snack at lunch and just eat dinner. what could i do differently. ive been doing 50 sit ups a day for like 6 months and its not helping anything. what should i do? i want it gone fast in time for spring. help!

Eat small meals everyday..Don`t skip meals..Eat healthy ones maybe eat more meals a day tho like 6 or so..

Keep exercising..try walking or running also..Do some crunches as well.. Keep it up you`ll see results..♥Dez

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hi what does alphanumeric mean?

Alphanumeric
-Consisting of both letters && numbers..

-Consisting of or using letter,numbers,punctuation marks && mathematical && other conventional symbols..

-The use of alphabetic letters mixed with numbers && special characters..

I googled it.. So if its not what you think your looking for ask! ♥Dez

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i was wondering about codes, like codes to make text bigger, italicized, bold, and things like that. But the code that i reallyy would like to know is how to change the text color! SO, if anyone could give me that code or give me a site to get that code i would realy apreciate it :] Ill rate i promise!!

Changing the color on your advice column is pretty much easy..Just go to [Column Settings] && then there is a link there..Then look thru the colors && write the code down or whatever && in where it says text color enter the code you wrote down..

For Bold writing here is the code
< B > Type what you want < / B > [With out spaces between the B`s and stuff put it all together]

For Underlined writing here is the code
< U > Type what you want < / U > [Just like i wrote for the bold one]

For Italic writing here is the code
< I > Type what you want < / I > [Same]

Making type bigger on advicenators is possible i don`t think..

If your askin this question for myspace.com or something..i recommend [Mackenzie] ♥Dez

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I babysit my niece and nephew once a week and when I do they won't listen to a word I say what do I do?

I would talk to the parents && tell them what is going on.. I`d mention that i wouldn`t watch this kids unless they behave..Ask them to talk to the children & see if they can get through to them..

♥Dez

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I have like long straight dark hair and it has a little blond,black,and red mix,but i was woundering what good color highlights woulg go good with my hair?

I was think of like a gold brown.

Yes!! I love your idea i think that color would look very nice in your hair..&& with the other shades you have with it..

I love red with brown looks great..

♥Dez

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ok! so i was goingout with this guy that i like LOVED and then he cheated on me and we broke up. He begged me to go back out with him and i said yes, i love him so much and he was being really sweet and stuff. its long distance and i love him but i want to get with other guys... what do i do?!

You guys need to talk..Long relationships don`t work very well cause your not able to see each other & its hard not to want to be with other people..If you keep yourself attached to this guy & don`t see him most likely he`ll do it again && Hurt you..I think dicuss just being friends until you guys are able to see each other more..

Seeing other people i think would be a good idea..

♥Dez

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