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hey guys..my column has been the same for soooooo long now...so im gunna change it up a bit! any ideas please let me know! anyway..heres the ordinary junk...im kayla, im 14, i like in md close to dc, i go to rhs - home of the rams! yay haha, and i dn i just love helping people!

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im not really aloud to wear thongz but i reall wunna ask my mom but she thinks there really painful n how girls can wear em. also i think she thinks their for hoes n slutz etc. i dont she does. lol. well how do i ask her in a way she might say yes? i already have one but i have to wash it wen shez not home. i kno itz weird but i use it alot. lol. but i wash it! cuz i dont really like wearing regualr underwear that much n i wunna buy thongz n throw away them grnnyz. lol. oh my goodness. lol. okay this is a little embarassing but i dont really wear big underwear like underwear thats even a little losse i call grnnyz. wellz plz help!

thongs rnt slutty at all!! it just means u dont want a panty line...plus granny panties suck!! lol they should be burnt..lol but jus tell her tht its only underwear n they only get slutty wne u purposly got them hangin outa ur ass..but ur not like tht n ur the only 1 who will kno n jus tlel her panty lines r embarressing or something! like i sed..theyr only slutty wen ur showin em off on purpose

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HeY ! well im 14 and i weigh 86pOunDz or sumfin liek that .. buh i know its around 80 is that good enuff? im scared that if its not .. then something mite happen . buh u know i eat ALOT !! i just dont gain weight .. and im reeely skinny ;) hehe .. soo yehhh heLp?

xOxox maya xOXx

my sister had tht problem...she ate like a pig and never gaind ANYTHING n she went 2 the doc. about it n it was alll caused by stress n the doc put her on meds 4 it n now shes slowly gaining weight! (my sis is 21 n 5'2 n like idk 76 lbs or sumthn) n show shes around 110...soo u shuld jus tlk 2 ur doc about it!

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k i kno my catrgory isnt right, i just picked one...ok heres my problem:
i have an outie belly botton...i kno gross right but if i got it pierced would it look bad? or should i just get surgrey n make it an inny?

dont get surgery 4 it...i still think itd look fine cuz most belly rings cover ur belly button anyway

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once a cheater, always a cheater?? TRUE OR FALSE?

ppl can change...even the most unlikely people...so i say false

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this question is kinda complex...but im gonna try and make it as simple as possible...Basicaly i see myself as getting less and less attractive by the day lol, and im getting the idea that the girls are thinking the same thing. See, i used to be pretty damn popular and liked by the ladies, and i still am, but its waring off, and im not getting the attention i used to, which is fine, but im wondering.....is a girl gonna loose interest in me based more on my looks getting better or worse...or are they gonna stick around for my personality????? Thanks, adam

girls are all different!! some are whores n only care about how far ull go w, them, sum r shallow n only care about looks, n some r genuine n care about personality! n girls can tell wen u dun have confidence in urself, so stop thinking ur getting less attractive bcuz im sure ur a hottie ;) if u think ur personality is getting old, then spice it up a bit!! try saying something you normally wouldnt to a girl, idk a compliment or something? a girl loses interest when u get boring, so dont!! jus b urself!

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Alrite I have blonde hair and it is so boring. I want to dye it....I have tan skin and light brown eyes...do you think that i should get it dyed browner or wut? I need help

hey i think you should!!! it wont hurt u n if u hate it u can always dye it back or to another color! uv not nuthn 2 lose n then ull kno how it looks different ways!

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okay... i went out with this guy a few months ago, and then we broke up.. ever since then i have liked him a lot.. but when people ask me if i like him juss say no. now my other friend likes him a lot and wants to go out with him, i wanna go out with him too.. but i dont want her to be mad at me.. or think that i juss like him cuz she does. what should i do?

-confused :(

just be honest w. her. no real friendshipwould be ruined over a guy. she might get irritated at first but she'll get over it. she deserves the thruth, i mean wouldnt you wanan know if u were in her position? jus tell her u like him n neitherof u shuld date him tho until the other honestly doesnt care

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hey my name is rachel and i have put in alot of questions on the same guy and i am wondering i hung out with him last night and i am really bored right now and i wanna go over there but do u think that he'll think that i am obsessed? becuzz i wanna know ASAP!
thanks

no he wont think ur obsessed!!! he'll know u care about him n he'll prolly enjoy the company! u got nothing to lose by going over there! i think hed be flattered! :)

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ive been with mi b.f for 5 months and we love each other TO DEATH!! but lately he's been getting mad at his parents easilier. is it because of me? or no? help please!!!

him getting mad at his parents prly duznt have anything 2 do w. u! thts a relationship btween them..n if he gets mad, dont think its cuzza u! jus try 2 b there 4 him. i think its jus stuff btween them!! :D

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Hey,
I need some help. Lately my gfs "old friends" are talking about me and trying to get in fights with me....she instsits she loves me more and everything and they call her names on aim and everything and she says we wont talk to them anymore and she asks me if I promise. I say yes and then the next day shes telling me if I want to see her again she HAS to sleep over their house. Also let me note that everytime she sees this so called friend we get in a fight. Last time she slept over her house she snuck out at 2 in the morning to another boys house wich she promised to never talk to again. I think shes lieing to me also...we've been in a ton of fights lately because shes on the computer almost 24/7 talking to people. Also, her parents don't even allow her on aim, she and I have to lie to them about it, when I would rather not go on it at all. Everytime I'm over her house she gets on the computer, then we go to my house, and she gets on, then we go home to our own houses and she gets on right away...she hardly even calls anymore shes to busy on the computer. Then she says online when we get in a fight that I want to break up with her and I don't....now she wants to go to her friends house...what should I do...she makes me cry and throw up almost everynight. What should I do? Should I break up with her?

i think u shuld break up w. her...ppl have bfs n gfs tomake them happy n have sum1 who love sthem n 2 love back..but it seems like this girl is just causing u pain!! shes not makin u happy at all n she starts fights..so why stay/ you could be out there having a great relationship w. sum1 who will be there 4 u n not lie 2 u n stuff. thts just my opinion...but i think u shuld get out of tht relationship. gl!

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ok i idk wut to do. i think i like my best friend. and i kinda know he likes me. but theres this other guy i kinda like to. i think i like the first guy more cuz i always wanna talk to
him. but idk. please help

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i think u shuldnt go out w. either 1 untill u like only tht 1 person cuz its not fair 2 the person who ud be dating. i say jus take the time 2 figure out which 1 u like more, n let go of the other 1 n then go out w. whoever u chose lol. jus make sure ur bein fair 2 the other person!!

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Hey Ive been getting behind in school REALLY bad and I say Im ganna study every night to try and get better grades but then I end up getting invited some where or Wanna do something with one of my friends so I end up not either stuffing or doing my homework or anything Do you have any idea how I could do both?

sometimes u jus gotta say no 2 ur friends. u gotta make time for both, set aside a few nights a week tht r saved jus for studying n HW n stuff n then the rest of the time have fun! :D

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hey ummm well i have this friend and she is kool and everything but she also has some really really really annoying things about her that i CANT STAND!! well like she wants to hang out and all next yr in school but like she is a prep and i am a punk and idk it just isnt going to work. i think that i will be better off with out her. but rite now she thinks that i am like some kind of saint or something and she is always there. i dont want to hurt her feelings but how do i break off a good friendship that has been going for 2 years without her knowing that i dont really like her ? ? ? ? ? ?

well..if u really dont like her than jus slowly back off, dont take her calls,make excuses not 2 be around her, jus seperate urself...but dont let a group name get in the way of yalls friendship...every1 has annoying qualities so maybe u culd jus learn 2 ignore them? or wen she strts to bother u jus walk away 4 a lil bit. but u mgith wanna think if u rly wanna break off a 2 yr old friendhip jus cuz sum1 can get annoying..idk i hope i helped!

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what do i do here...

i wish that my parents would get a devorce at
points. there a very unlikely couple i guess u could say and i really dont like my dad that much...he walks around with no shirt on, beer belly, and the house that we moved into i have to walk through there room to get to my room and its really annoying when i have friends over. my parents get into fights a lot and i go into my room and cry and my mom thinks im stupid for doing that, like she thinks i exagerate. in the summer my mom just works on the weekends and leaves me home with my brother and dad which i hate. my dad will buy me practically anything i want-cellphone, trampoline but i think he just gets me all this stuff bc he thinks i love him more or something. and i feel worse for my brother bc he has to put up with even mor eof his crap. i so scared im going to grow up like my dad or something. please help...tell me, am i being a brat?

ur not being a brat!! you just dun like ur dad...dont listen 2 ur mom by sayin u exagerate, its not ur fault!! but i mena dont use ur dad...sit down n tlk 2 him!! tlel him hes gunna ruin ur relationship n buying u stuff wont make it better! gl..

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ok...i went out wit this one guy..for not that long but i still have feelings for him...should i c if he has feelings for me too..or just forgwt about him and move on....what should i do


~~~shortnsweetxoxo~~~

see if he has feelings for you, n if it wrks out, great! n if it duznt, then move on ;)

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If you wear a condom during sex does that mean you most likely won't get pregnant or do you have to take birth control pills too..?

u wont get pregnant or STDs as long as it duznt break!!

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how can i meet cool guys at camp? and how can i get them interested in me?

just walk up to them n start a convo!! make them laugh n feel comfy around you!!

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HeY! Besides taking Midol or asprin, what a good way to realive or get rid of cramps?! ThAnKs!! I really need the advice! =)

exercise rly help gettin rid of cramps...take a walk or play a sport wen they come or sumthn

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okay well here it goes ... well i went to the fair w/ a few friends -n- we were in line for the zipper -n- some girl behind us, she looked about 17-18, started talking to us and well she asked me if i played softball and i said i did and then she asked me my name and i told her...and then she goes well do you know who i am and i said no and she held out her hand for me to shake it and said "well i'm your sister, crystal" and it kinda scared me cus i haven't seen her in 8 yrs., she gave me her number but i don't know if i should call her b/c i'm scared to get to know her b.c we are half sisters and she knows my dad and i don't...so wut do i do????? PLZ HELP!!

call her!! maybe you could find out stuff about your dad tht will help u have a better relationship w. him..or at least one tostart! every girl wants a sister..i have 1 n shes 21 n i don get 2 c her alot n iv thought about callni her sometimes but i never do n ialways regret it...theres no relationship in the world like a sister and family is rly special..dont let them drift away!! gl..

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i met this guy at adventureland (he was REALLY hott!!) in des moines and i got his # but i dont want to call it cuz im afraid that its the wrong number! but then again the area code and the first 3 numbers were from the area that we were located in...what should i do? call him or not?
-confuzzled!

just call him! if its the wrong number than at least u tried....n if u dont call ur gunna regret it! n sinse u don kno his name jus b like o hey this is the grl from adventure land ..wuts ur name>? haha gl!

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