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My name is Melissa :]. I live in California.I seriously do. Fresno,CA. Look it up. I didn`t know what or where Fresno was until my dad came home & told us we were moving there.. I live in like the friggen richiest part of Fresno called Clovis[it`s another city that`s in Fresno.]Nothing ever happens in Clovis.No robberies,killings,etc. Things always happen in Fresno. This city is so effing small that you find out about everyone`s problems. It`s like Gossipville. My highschool is even worse. People talk smack like it`s their hobbie, so i`ve had my share of gossip about me. Doesn`t really bug me, unless you continue to do it. Then I get pissed. Who wouldn`t?! Fresno is okkaayyy, if you meet the right people. But Clovis will always be the most boringest place ever.
I've been through alot. Anything really. I don`t really trust people that easily, but if I do, then congrats, you`re awesome. Don`t straight up ask me what i`ve been through. If I really really really really really really really really know you, then I might tell you. But you know, it`s hard telling people what you`ve been through because it brings back so much horrible memories. I got over some shit, but it still leaves marks..Welcome to a world where being yourself isn`t good enough..
My closet is full of clothes from Hollister,Abercrombie,Forever 21, Charlotte Russe, and all those preppie stores that you hate. I can`t live without my cell phone or a purse. Don`t judge me. If you do, I friggen hate you with a passion.I have alot of confidence, and you might think that i`m cocky, but i`m not. I actually think low about myself, but what girl doesn`t? I sometimes think that i`m better than a few people, but i only compare to those who are pretty shallow & fucking dumb. Like gossip starters, stalkers,backstabbers, & anything like that.I'm probably the coolest 15 year old that you`ll ever meet :]. I love going to the beach, even though i HARDLEY ever get to go. I was born in San Francisco. I move alot. I stayed in new york for 4 years because of my daddy's job. But now i'm back here in california.I love my friends. I'm a really nice girl. I`m full of sarcastic remarks.Anything acustic(sp) realllyy turns me on. I love it when a guy can sing & play something hot, aww so adorable, don`tcha think?! ;]
I have a boyfriend & his name is Junior. He's gorgeous.HE PLAYS THE ACUSTIC GUITAR & SINGS FOR MEEE!! Oh man, I just feel like grabbing him. He makes me really happy && he surprises me alot. He makes me feel all like..warm and soft inside.Shut up. Your jealous. I know. Our love is anything but average. We have the weirdest relationship, but I wouldn`t trade it for the world..I love it when we watch re-runs of the O.C. I love how he can watch romantic movies with me. I love it when he lets me win in video games.I love when he kisses my nose or forhead. I love it when he trips me lol. I love it when he gives me piggy back rides & won`t let me fall when i`m standing on fire hydrants.I love it when we eat chicken nuggets together & share only one drink. I love it when he squeezes my face cheeks together & kisses me. I love the way he runs up to me at school & jumps on me. I love the way we skip together holding hands. I love it when I take out the crust of my bread && he eats it. I love it when I turn out to be hecka sick & he comes to my door with soup & his blanket. I love it when he sends me like .. friggen 2 page love letters & he sends them through the mail & i get them. I love it how he believes in me & teaches me to make better choices and incourages me. I love the way he can easily cheer me up with the simpliest things like smiling. I love it when i start crying and he cheers me up by doing the "balony dance". Lol. I love the way he pokes my cheeks with his finger. That`s love, baby.♥
I say tre-cool & dunzo alot.
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Maybe this sounds stupid but....
..Do u also have the problem that your hair tie/scrunchie slides out? Tell me! I getting sick of it! please help! X'O
Nope. Maybe you should get those black elastics or whatever that they sell in Walgreens. Those don't really fall out for me. I usually wear my hair down. I only put it up when i go to sleep and when i have P.E. Sorry i didn't help much
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ok,(im 14 male and shes 13 female)and we were fooling around the other day.she was on top of me so on so on.I know shes not ready for anything oral or actual sex.I got really "hot and bothered" and i started undoing her pants and it didnt feal right.i asked her "are u sure ur ready"? and she says "I dont know not really but i REALLY want to beacuse i know itll feal good so im not going to stop you" i didnt want her to regret anything we did so i stoped.Did i do the right thing beacuse she says shes not ready but she wants to beacuse itll feal good?and should i ask if shes ready next time it happens?
Oh hell yea you did. If things like that ever get that so close to sex, then you should ask her if she's ready. If it looks like she has doubt in her eyes, or makes this uncomfortable expression on her face, then you know she's not ready also. YOUR SO SWEET!! Good job =)
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Yes i have kind of a problem...
so theres this cutie in one of my classes and like usually he "flirts" with me.or i think its flirting? but the kind of flirting he does is aggressive..like pushin you around and stuff..ist that considered flirting or considered "i dont like you get away from me" and then today like jokingly every time i walked by him he would like push me around and be like ya lil BiaTch! and then i would say somethin back..like "take it back" "take it back" and he'd be like NoooOO! and then do you think he does this to flirt or does it because he doesnt like me?! hope ya can help!
thanks love
Woah, i've never known this type of flirting. I don't think he hates you, but i would kind of move away from that guy. He's wayy agressive. I don't know. This is just my opinion.
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my "use to be best friend" because now we dont see each other anymore and she kind of blew me off..is now hanging out with the more "popular" people i mean she has her own clique BLAH! and then now lately shes been hangin out with the popular people..as i said..and it kind of gets to me..even tho i dont talk to her anymore..i still kind of get jealous of her =( it sucks!! its not that i wanna be friends with her..its just im kinda jealous of her..and itd be akward to talk about it.. but yeahwhat could i do to help this?! because i dont like most of the popular girls their just like druggies and drunks and do sex and alla that..but yeahh..thanks
Hahaha..wow. Well you can't really overcome jealously. Except just be proud of what kind of "clique" you have. You can always get more people into your group. Just ignore her. Don't let it get to you. Just hang out with your friends and invite new people into your group.
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do you think having brown eyes and hair is ugly!? cuz usually the boys go for blue eyes..ughhhh i dont know? what could i do to make my eyes like shine and just very big and bold! i dont know how to do the smokey look or whatever so that doesnt help =\ any other suggestions!?
thanks
I have brown eyes and brown hair and i think its cute. Even though blondes are cute too! You can go to Walgreens and get this glitter roll on for your eyes so they can shine. Most guys i know go for brunettes.
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HELPPPPPPPPP! i have really bad split ends ahhh what do i do?! its sooo noticeable its horrible ..seriously and i get my haircut in about 4 days? but yeah im doin things this weekend where im gonna see alotta cute people. and im embarassed of my hair. what do i do!?
ANYTHING WILL HELP
xo
I really don't know. You can always put it half up half down. Or in a pony tail. Other than that, i suggest waiting for your haircut.
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okay well one of my good friends likes this lil hottie! and yeah ive never met him b4 but ive seen him around and shes told me alot about him. now i want to help her try and get him..what can i do? because she is wayyy to shy to go up and talk to him you know..even tho she talks to him in school i guess? im afraid that if i meet him or my friend wants me to talk to him or something that maybe he will start flirting with me..then what do i do?! im soo bad at like just blowing off hot guys..well not blowing off just not flirting back. because i would LOVE to flirt back but i DO NOT want to hurt my friend at all..what do i do!?
Woah, that's hard! Lol. Well you just have to fight back from flirting back. Because then you might lose your friend. Tell her to talk to him a little bit more, and tell her to flirt more with him. Then you can talk to him for her. Just be like "Soo do you know _____?" And just go from there. Just keep talking about your friend a little. Not too much because then he'll probably get annoyed. Mostly you just have to back off a little if he flirts with you, because your friend likes him and you don't want to lose your friend. Just tell your friend to flirt with him more and to be confident. Lol.
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well im goin over to my friends this weekend..and what could i suggest to do..because most of the time we only sit on the computer..and i usually wanna go out and do stuff..hang out with guys and just have a good time!! but now we wont have a ride because yeah so i dont know how we could go anywhere? so any good ideas of what to do without a ride haha . thanks
Hmm. You can rent movies the day before. Or..wow..this is kind of hard. Lol..Umm! Usually when i go over my friends house, we play tag..lmao. Seriously. I think its fun. =) Ahh! I'm sorry this is just so hard. I would say you guys can make like..cookies or something but that might sound kind of gay. Sorry..i know i didn't help much! =\
WAIT! YOU CAN CALL UP SOME OF YOUR GUY FRIENDS TO COME OVER! YOU WON'T HAVE TO PICK THEM UP, THEY'LL GET A RIDE!!
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whats somethin cute to wear sledding..like i dont wanna really wear snowpants?! embarassing?! lol but i dont really have that many cute things for outside! and i dont even think i have boots..haha but i dont wanna go buy any! DRAGGGGG!! lol i dont have anything cute..anything that i could put together that might look cute?! because if we see guys i still wanna look cute :) thanks babe
Lol..i answered this one =) . Scroll down BABYYY!! =DD
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whats somethin cute to wear sledding..like i dont wanna really wear snowpants?! embarassing?! lol but i dont really have any sweatpants or anything i dont know i dont have that many cute things for outside! and i dont even think i have boots..haha but i dont wanna go buy any!so what would i wear on my feet? DRAGGGGG!! lol i dont have anything cute..anything that i could put together that might look cute?! because if we see guys i still wanna look cute :) thanks babe
Lmfao ew snowpants. Those are huge. (I'm guessing). You can wear jeans with your pj bottoms under them to keep you warm. I do that =). Are you willing to go shopping? If you are, you can buy a REALLLLY cute scarf from Old Navy or Abercrombie. Abercrombie is more expensive. But Old Navy has some cheap ones and really cute ones. You could buy those really poofy jackets you know? Abercrombie has this gold one(i bought one lol =) ,but it was pretty expensive. And i also don't know if they have the gold one where you live. So you might want to try somewhere like..Wet Seal or Old Navy again. You can buy a cute jacket that doesn't even have to be poofy. You can assesorize(sp) good too! Wear really cute earrings that you can buy at Claire's. And you can buy gloves too. Not those like..big ones. But the thin ones. For your feet..hmm. That's a tough one. Knowing me, i'll probably wear my chucks. But that's me lol. I know it won't keep me warm. You can buy Uggs if you like them. But i dunno. I don't really like them. Umm. I really don't know for your feet. Sorry =\. But i say you mostly put together earrings and a scarf and gloves together. Wear jeans.. Ah ! sorry if i didn't help much! =( Hope i did a little bit.
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so like all the girls hang out with guys..and i never dooO! i wanna but i never have the courage to be like oh yeah we should hang out sometime..i would feel stupid and afraid of rejection..how can i like ask a guy to do something..or even with a group of friends? i dont even like start talking to a guy first usually..they talk to me first and if they dont i dont talk to them..this is a problem! help!!
Oh man. At first i HATED doing that. I got one of my girlfriends do ask for me =). But then later on, i would be talking to this one guy & just be like "Hey you want to eat lunch with us, me and my friends?" Don't feel stupid. Every girl probably went through this. You don't have to make it so like..dramatic. lOl. You can just simply ask him. You can also ask him with your friend beside you and you can make her ask him & just be like "Yea you should!" . Go with a group first. Then talk to him the most when your in a group, then he'll feel comfortable with you, and probably willing to do anything one-on-one. Remember that guys like confident girls. If you talk to a guy first, and end up having a really GREAT conversation, he'll say Hi to you in the hallways or when you see him. I know. =). Don't be shy please!! I know it's you, but you need to be more outgoing (not sounding rude i hope =). Don't worry about rejection. Ask another guy! Lol. Everything will turn out great if you just be confident.
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Do you think that giving your best friend a gift card is too impersonal?
Because the thing is even though we are really close I have no clue what to give her. Then any time I ask what she wants she just says, 'Whatever you know what I like.' And infact I do know what she likes but she seems to already have everything.
So is a gift card really something you could give a best friend?
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A gift card is really good. If you don't think it's enough, you can always buy her some cute earrings, a scarf, necklace, make-up bag, braclets, anything like that and give it to her with the giftcard. =)
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okay..well i kind of like this kid i dont even kno if i like him its just that im really attracted to him!!..he doesnt know yet tho..i dont know if he even knows me? maybe what i look like! haha anywaysss he likes to do stuff with girls i guess. or he has "gotten stuff" if ya kno what i mean. this makes me jealous because i know that he thinks other girls are hott! and that makes me really jealous..even tho i havent really even talked to this kid before but he is just hilarious and just a lil cutie! what do i do?! i really wanna makeout with him =0 thats a problem tho since i havent actually met him yet and i wont see him for AT LEAST about another 2 weeks..bummmer! but yeah and then when i see him its only for like 2 hrs and hes always talkin to other people..blahh! what do i doo? im really shy so that doesnt help..well when i first meet someone i am lol but i LOVE to flirt..just not right when i meet someone..well i do but yeah i dont knwo if you get it? and lately this guy is all i can think about seriously.. and i havent even met him i dont even think he knows i exist! but yeah .. when i go to bed i think about him every night before i go to sleep..like us bein together DREAMIN heheh.. maybe sounds obsessed? i dont know.. ahhh..got any ideas for me to get this guy!!
Aw omg thats cute. Well the first thing that came into my mind is that you should really get to talk to him before winter break. Otherwise you'll really regret it and i wouldn't want to. Since you flirt & you really want to talk to him, then go ahead! Do you know anybody that knows him? Otherwise, you can have them introduce him to you. Then you should just be yourself once you "met" him. Meaning..FLIRT! =) You said you like to flirt, so do it! Since he's hilarious, he's probably going to be really sweet. So there's nothing to worry about him being mean. Just do whatever it takes to get him to talk to you. Like drop your pencil or something, ask him for help on how to do a problem or whatever. Once you get to talking to him, don't sound soo like..obsessive!! Lol don't laugh at every little thing he says, because that's just kind of akward. You can introduce yourself too. It's really not hard. Just be like "Hey im _____ and i was wonderin if you can help me with this problem?" And smile. =D. Be really flirty. And nice. You just have to be really confident. Guys like confident girls. SO BE CONFIDENT WHEN YOUR GETTING THE GUTS TO INTRODUCE YOURSELF! =)
PS- DO THIS BEFORE FRIDAY! OTHERWISE IF YOU DON'T INTRODUCE YOURSELF YOU'LL REGRET IT OVER WINTER BREAK! =(
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im sure you've all seen this question a million times but its getting around christmas time and i have no idea what to buy my best friend. The girl has everything no lie. And i dont want to get her a gift certificate or money. and im willing to spend somewhere between 20-30 dollars on her. any suggestions? shes a girly girl pretty muuch
Buy her a shirt at Abercrombie or Hollister. I saw some really cute ones over there. I'm sure she doesn't have EVERY shirt from Abercrombie or Hollister. And if you want you can throw in some really cute necklace or earrings. =)
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I'm 15/f... There is this guy that i have been "talking" to (Grant) for about 2 months and he keeps telling everyone that he's going to ask me out but never does it. And then there is this guy in my Biology class (Todd) that is totally cute and nice and seems pretty interrested in me (ex. always walks me to lunch, always telling the teacher he is helping me just so he can talk to me, always making excuses to go and sit with my study group (all boys and me)) so should i just give up on Grant and move to Todd? please help...
Alix
I don't think so. It's not like Grant made anything to change your mind except not rushing into asking you out. Is he shy? Because sometimes guys hide their feelings because they don't want to get rejected. I think you should wait a while & talk to Grant. You know, you can ALWAYS make the move too. But if Grant says no. Then move on to Todd. You've already been "talking" to Grant for 2 months. It'll really crush him if he just wasted it because you've moved on to Todd.
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So for lit .. i have to do a creative project on Romeo and Juliet. it can be anything. any ideas? i want it to be something wicked awesomeee. easy 5s
Lol this came out of the top of my head.So forgive me if it sounds really retarded..
Maybe you can do the scene where Romeo is looking for Juliet at the balconey. You can buy little Juliet & Romeo barbies. They really do have them! Like you know the little girl kelly? Well she's dressed up as Juliet & you can buy the little boy too. That'll be cute. To hold the balcony up you can roll any paper and paint it like grey. And for where Juliet is standing, you can have a paper plate and paint it so it can camoflauge. You can buy little fake trees or something. This is just a suggestion. If you really put your mind to it, i think it'll be really good. =)
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For english we have to get verses from songs from other people and try to figure out what we think the song is trying to say. So could anyone who wants to send me their favorite verse from their favorite song? Or just your favorite verse from any song you like? Thanks so much. I need them by tonight.♥
Oh man. Well i really couldn't deside. But then i was like ah oh well! Lol so here's one
Ray J-Anytime
Yeah you know what this is
You granted all my wishes
And damn it im gon miss it if we fade away
I don't wanna be down
Lovin' you i have found
Girl i want you around
Always...
Don't you believe that
Nobody needs you 'cuz i do
I need all of you baby
If you can see that
Nobody needs you like i do
I need all of you baby
Lol oh man..i think it's soo cute if a guy sings that to any girl!! ♥
okay i have a few questions regarding my picture trail account:
1) I wasnt to change the photo that is inside the album cover on my homepage. how do i do that?
2) I want to add music to my albums but I do not know where or what websites to go to in order to to do that. I want real audio, not like just the tune of a song or anything.
Thankyou so much! I really appriciate it!
I really don't understand your question to number one. But i know the answer to number 2 =)
If you go here:
www.xanga.com/music_galore
You just find an artist that you like, pick the song,get the url and go back to picturetrail & go to where you can add a music URL.
If you need help, let me know. =)
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Alot of people smoke weed. Even my boyfriend used to but i made him quit. Even my parents do. For some reason i dont like weed. Ive never really tried it. But knowing my parents do it makes me think bad about them. It makes me think why do they do it but they are supposed to set a good example. Most of my friends do it too. I guess im just a good girl. But my boyfriend tries to convince me that theres nothing wrong with it. And i never agree and i dont think its right. Its a drug and im ashamed of everyone that does it. I dont know why though. Is there somthing wrong with me? anything will help! but please dont leave me rude comments.
Love-KMR
Nooo way. It's good that you don't smoke weed. Its your opinion/choice and people shouldn't force you into it. Your right, parents are suppose to set a good example. And they aren't..No offense. You are a good girl. And you should be proud. Even though i sometimes do it, i still think its kind of disgusting. It has a really bad smell. You don't have to try it just to "experiment" wheather its good or not. You already made your choice & you should really stick to it. Don't smoke. It's soo not good for you. I'm proud of you!!!!! =)
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My boyfriend of 3 years treats me well, has always been faithful to me, has never said a hateful thing to me, loves me deeply, and has stuck by my side through the good times and the bad. He is the perfect catch. The only problem is... he is sooo nasty sometimes!
I feel like, when it comes to hygiene, my boyfriend is worse than a 3 year old, when actually he is 20. He can go 3 days wearing the same outfit, I have to remind him to brush his teeth and shower, he picks his nose all the time, and he smokes cigarettes. I have talked and talked and talked to him about these things, and I'd admit, he's come a long way. But sometimes it absolutely drives me insane and makes me lose my attraction to him.
Since he has improved a lot so far, I'm hoping that he'll eventually get over these nasty habits. I'm hoping that when he gets a little older that he'll be more mature and take pride in his appearance a little more. However, I'm worried if we get married, will he let himself go?
I can't describe to you how good of a person he is. I have dated a few jerks in my life, and my boyfriend is the most caring, loving, and devoted person in my life. He is smart, witty, friendly, and sensitive. It's just this one problem that keeps tripping us up. Sometimes I feel more like his mother than his girlfriend.
Sooo what should I do when talking to him about it just doesn't seem to be enough? Am I being too critical? Should I just love him for who he is and not bother? Should I give up because I can't change a person?
I'm not going to say break up with him. Because you might not find another guy like this whos as caring. I agree with Dez. You should really keep on bringing it up, it might change little by little. Honestly, your not being too critical. You really don't have to baby him. You can be his girlfriend and still love him like a mother. Tell him that he needs to takes more shower to be clean and healthy. If you guys do end up getting married, he might stop caring about all this stuff like the hygiene, but maybe if it gets into his mind that he's about to be a husband and probably go out with you alot to do shopping and stuff, i don't think he'll want to stink. And imagine if you guys have kids, the kid will probably say like "DADDY YOU STINK GO TAKE A SHOWER!"..or something like that lol =P. Never give up, people can change. I'm sure he will sooner or later.
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