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Should i move on
I'm 15/f... There is this guy that i have been "talking" to (Grant) for about 2 months and he keeps telling everyone that he's going to ask me out but never does it. And then there is this guy in my Biology class (Todd) that is totally cute and nice and seems pretty interrested in me (ex. always walks me to lunch, always telling the teacher he is helping me just so he can talk to me, always making excuses to go and sit with my study group (all boys and me)) so should i just give up on Grant and move to Todd? please help...
Alix
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Technically you haven't even 'given' yourself to someone yet. You keep waiting for them to make a move, why dont you just make the move yourself?
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Maybe you should. Sounds like Todd is willing to put the time and the effort in to getting to know you, and that really should count for something. Grant seems to be taking his sweet time to ask you out and there is no guarantee that its going to happen. More people miss out waiting around for something that may not happen than taking a chance on something that sounds pretty good. Good luck and keep me posted.
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If Grant's not stepping up, then maybe go for Todd. You're wasting time on someone who is not making the move, when you could be spending time with Todd. If you feel like you still want to wait around for Grant, that's okay. You're young and should be free to flirt and have fun. Don't stress over guys, let them stress over you!
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well it matters who you like more. if you want to go out with tood, then ask him out. if you want to go out with grant, talk to him and see whats up. i think i would choolse todd, but thats just me. good luck!
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I don't think so. It's not like Grant made anything to change your mind except not rushing into asking you out. Is he shy? Because sometimes guys hide their feelings because they don't want to get rejected. I think you should wait a while & talk to Grant. You know, you can ALWAYS make the move too. But if Grant says no. Then move on to Todd. You've already been "talking" to Grant for 2 months. It'll really crush him if he just wasted it because you've moved on to Todd.
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