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did i do the best thing with my g/f?
ok,(im 14 male and shes 13 female)and we were fooling around the other day.she was on top of me so on so on.I know shes not ready for anything oral or actual sex.I got really "hot and bothered" and i started undoing her pants and it didnt feal right.i asked her "are u sure ur ready"? and she says "I dont know not really but i REALLY want to beacuse i know itll feal good so im not going to stop you" i didnt want her to regret anything we did so i stoped.Did i do the right thing beacuse she says shes not ready but she wants to beacuse itll feal good?and should i ask if shes ready next time it happens?
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THANK GOD YOU HAVE A HEAD ON YOUR SHOULDERS. If she decides later she regrets it you could get in huge trouble...make sure she is 299842908% ready first =D
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The ironic thing is, she says she wants to do it because it will feel good but if she is a virgin it will definitely NOT feel good.
Just...don't have sex. There are other ways to get pleasure- utilize them.
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Yes! you def. did the right thing, because both of you will regret it later on and always ask if shes ready anytime you guys start really "fooling around". so yes you did the right thing.
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Oh hell yea you did. If things like that ever get that so close to sex, then you should ask her if she's ready. If it looks like she has doubt in her eyes, or makes this uncomfortable expression on her face, then you know she's not ready also. YOUR SO SWEET!! Good job =)
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i think u did the right thing to stop before anything happened. and yea i would ask her the next time weather or not shes ready.
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You definitely did the right thing. She wasn't ready, and quite honestly, I don't think you were either. You should never have sex just because it will feel good. Sex should be about emotion.
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"feal" is spelled feel. if you didn't know that, don't have sex.
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You did the right thing. Good job man.
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Yes, you did the right thing, not many guys would of stopped, i'm proud of you. You guys have the rest of your life to find another time to have sex. Yes, she wants to feel good but there are other ways to enhance your "endorphans", those are what make you feel happy. Try taking up a sport with her or another hobbly, like book club (ok thats kind of Lame) but still find something else for now. She isn't ready, and although she said she was ready, she is just showing you that she trusts you 100%, dont ruin that trust. Also last, if you do go ahead and have sex, I suggest a type of protection.
Cya when I see ya,
Hebasquash
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Aww, this makes me happy. You did exactly the right thing. You knew you werent ready, and you didnt want to screw it up. Besides, you even asked her if she was ready, and she wasnt.. which means that you both really care for each other to mess up your relationship by doing this when your not ready. Sure it would feel good, but when your both ready, if the relationship pursues, it will feel both good && right. :) HOPE I HELPED
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You know, you seem so sweeeeet for stopping.
I think shes really confused if she wants it or not. I think you may just know when shes ready, Id leave it tell she really tells you, shes positive shes ready. I know you think shes not ready, thats why you stopped, so she wouldnt regret anything & regret is when you did SOMETHING YOU DIDNT WANT. so you know shes not ready in your mind, so wait till you just KNOW she is ready give it time.
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You did the right thing shell be happy in the future that you waited. if she wanted to do it just because she thinks it will feel good thats a sign that shes not ready. you can try and ask her but don't be like i really want to have sex with you to the point she says shes ready just ask her and until she says shes deff. ready then just wait.
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