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Hey, Well I am Ian and I currently live in Arizona. I choose to make an advice column becasue I help my friends out with their problems and I do a decent job at it. I may just be another profile up here, but really give me a shot, I have seen a lot and know what the real world is about. If I can't answer your question then I will do research on it, to do my best to answer it.
Cya when I see ya,
Ian

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E-mail: Hebasquash@cox.net
Gender: Male
Location: Northbrook, Illinois
Occupation: School
Age: 16
AIM: airbornskydivr
Member Since: December 14, 2005
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Last Update: January 1, 2006
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hey. theres this guy i cant get out of my head i know he likes me but he likes other girls i think more. we dont go to the same school. i really want to meet someone new so i can stop thinking about the other guy. is there any like camps or anything? im open for any ideas!
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From expierence I know that people who date other people at seperate schools do not last long. 1 The temptation to cheat is too overwheling and second the love dies when you don't see each other that often. Try finding some guys you like in some of your classes and look to start hanging out with them. Also take up a sport or hobby that could involve guys, like Tennis or something like that. Im not to sure on the camps, maybe something at a YMCA type of place..they always have good racquet ball courts..thats a fun sport.
Cya when I see ya,
Hebasquash

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My friend Melissa is having a HUGE party at her house tonight..
but she didn't invite me.
We're friends..but not BEST friends..like on a scale of friendship..(10 as BFFs)..We're like a 5-6...you know?
Do you think I should ask her why she didn't invite me?
*One time, I confronted her about another party that she had..and she denied she ever had one.
I've never been over her house; vice versa..
Her parents like me though..I think..Why wouldn't she invite me? I thought we were friends :(...It's a HUGEEEE party..I'm sad.

Look, ok this girl, Mel i'll call her. She doesn't seem to like you. Or it could be that you are friends with her and she just doesn't think you guys are as good as friends as you think. Anyways the point is, you sound like a better person than her. IF she doesn't invite you to this party and she lies to your face about not having another one, then abviously she has lied about other things. I think you need to be the better person and find a new friend. Don't keep taking her crap.
Cya when I see ya,
Hebasquash

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I am applying for a job and the question on the application is:

Why are you interested in working for Dots?
(clothing store)

Okay, somethings I can say about me is that I am extremely outgoing friendly and helpful.... so how can I like put that in the answer making it sound professional?

And I used to work at Six Flags Astroworld at the front gate, I opened and closed the park, greeting and meeting all the guests that came it... mabye this will help too!

I rate! :) Any advice will be GREATLY appreciated!

You can say:
In my Previous job I was around people all day, and loving everyminute of it. I am a people person, I am also friendly and kind. Not to sure how much that helped.
Cya when I see ya,
Hebasquash

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ok, so, I like this guy, and I want to get to know him better. Trouble is, I'm anti-social and I'm pretty sure he thinks I'm a freak. Or weird. Or scary. Anyway, I know some people who are friends with him. Any suggestions? I don't want any sugar coating on this, btw.

Alright, look you want it straight, then thats what I'll give you. Suck it up! You have to break outside your bariers, if you dont you will regret it for the rest of your life. It is hard for most people to talk to new people, but remember. The timid live long, but the brave have fun.
Cya when I see ya,
Hebasquash

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okay, this may sound gross, but i really need an answer to this question. there is this guy i really like. we had this lady come to our school and talk to us about sex a few weeks ago. a couple of nights ago, i had a dream that this guy i like got me pregnant. the dream didn't leave out anything. in the dream, we were happy that it had happened. does this mean anything? i am not perverted and haven't had thoughts like this before, but this couldn't be helped. it was a dream. i am saving sex until marriage, but in this dream, it was happening in the present. i need some answers! thanks in advance! i'll rate 5's!

I believe that dreams are very symbolic. They have deep meaning and can be mistaken very easly. It sounds like you really like this guy, and that according to dream he will fall in love with you, also it means that he may impose things on you that you dont want to do, like sex. Or it could mean that you and him might go out, but while going out he may keep asking you and begging you for sex. This is where you have to thing deep into yourself to really understand what you want. If you want to give yourself to him, that is your choice. If you are going to do this, make sure you use protection, or if you want a child and you feel the timing is right and he won't run out on you when he knows you are pregnant, then go ahead.
Cya when I see ya,
Hebasquash

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Does anyone have any good sites where I can get a FREE downloadable virus program?
Thanks ♥

If you go to

www.download.com

and you search around there you can find some free programs.
Cya when I see ya,
Hebasquash

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Hi my parents found out I look at porn and they said they knew it was normal and stuff. Does this mean I should stop watching it?

No, it doesn't mean you "have" to stop watching it, but think..everytime you close that door. Your parents know what you are doing. It all comes down to wheather on not you have a religion you take after. Most practices do not think masterbation is a proper thing. Also why are you giving inot this corrupt society, exposing girls like that?
Cya when i see ya,
Hebasquash

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I'm 16/f catholic; and I masturbate. Is masturbating a form of lust, thereby making it unacceptable against the commandments? I was just wondering, as I found that I'm virtually addicted, and although it is healthy, I want to know whether it is morally wrong for me.

Cheers. I rate high

Yes, it is a sin, but in god's eyes no sin is greater than another. I had this problem a while ago, it was hard for me to stop also. If you really want to live a life in the lord's footsteps then yes you need to stop. There are other things in this world that can bring you the same pleasure. Look deep and try to find the answer god is giving to you, he is the ultimate answer.
Cya when I see ya,
Ian

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I'm a 17/m and I'm starting to work out again. I naturally extremely strong legs, but my knees are not capable of lifting as much as my legs are because I haven't worked out in a while.

So, what's the best way to build them up? Should I do as much as I can, or less than I can with high reps?

Do lighter weight to start out, but with more reps. Then start getting more weight, also at the same time dont over do it, or you may blow out your knees, because they are not used to the weight.
Cya when i see ya,
Ian

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ok,(im 14 male and shes 13 female)and we were fooling around the other day.she was on top of me so on so on.I know shes not ready for anything oral or actual sex.I got really "hot and bothered" and i started undoing her pants and it didnt feal right.i asked her "are u sure ur ready"? and she says "I dont know not really but i REALLY want to beacuse i know itll feal good so im not going to stop you" i didnt want her to regret anything we did so i stoped.Did i do the right thing beacuse she says shes not ready but she wants to beacuse itll feal good?and should i ask if shes ready next time it happens?

Yes, you did the right thing, not many guys would of stopped, i'm proud of you. You guys have the rest of your life to find another time to have sex. Yes, she wants to feel good but there are other ways to enhance your "endorphans", those are what make you feel happy. Try taking up a sport with her or another hobbly, like book club (ok thats kind of Lame) but still find something else for now. She isn't ready, and although she said she was ready, she is just showing you that she trusts you 100%, dont ruin that trust. Also last, if you do go ahead and have sex, I suggest a type of protection.
Cya when I see ya,
Hebasquash

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Kinda late at night but ohk..

I am writing a note letter to my ex that lives in florida i live in maine 6 months ago we broke up and don't really talk that much. I love him to death but he tells me constantly that he was not a great boyfriend and i need to get over him he wants me to because he feels it would be easier on me. he claims to be totally over me even tho we were in love. But ohk he was full of shit on the word so just dont believe it lol. well in this letter i want to tell him stuff like how i feel about him now, what he taught me like in the way of what to really look for in a guy and dont fall in love fast, stuff like that.17/f

Hey,
This is a hard place, but my advice is you have to get over him. Yes he may still love you, but at our age long distance relationships dont work. I have had my heart broken by may of them. So in the letter I think you should recant on your past memories that you treasure the most. It is better to have loved and lost, then to have never of loved at all. Keep that in mind. If you do follow what I am saying, this will be hard, but please, I know it sounds stupid but it will help you move on with your life, but that doesnt mean you have to forget about him altogether, still be friends with him.
Cya when I see ya,
Hebasquash

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