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This is pathetic (for me)
ok, so, I like this guy, and I want to get to know him better. Trouble is, I'm anti-social and I'm pretty sure he thinks I'm a freak. Or weird. Or scary. Anyway, I know some people who are friends with him. Any suggestions? I don't want any sugar coating on this, btw.
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ok,well..coming from someone who alot of people consider scary,just do it. Talk to him it's not like he will tell you "get away your scary" if he sees you as his friend he will talk to you as long as you talk to him and then just go on from there.good luck and so long.
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Alright, look you want it straight, then thats what I'll give you. Suck it up! You have to break outside your bariers, if you dont you will regret it for the rest of your life. It is hard for most people to talk to new people, but remember. The timid live long, but the brave have fun.
Cya when I see ya,
Hebasquash
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ok well i think you should do a few things.
when you see him in the hall say hi, or just smile.
talk to the people you know that are friends with him and see what he thinks of you, and have them start a conversation and join in with them and try to get to know him better.
hope i helped.
ANK
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Well, how weird are you? Are you in the goth group, or the punk group? Theater group? If so, he's probably in the jock group, or the soccer group?
So if you're anti-social, then why would you want to be social? Just a question...
I don't think you're anti-social. It's probably something you've self-labeled to avoid human interaction. Not a good idea. But I was in the goth, punk and theater group. I constantly had crushes on guys in the soccer group. The only thing holding you back is yourself. Just go talk to him, normally, like you would with your brother or any of your friends.
Go out as a group with the friends that know him, have a good time, and be yourself.
If he doesn't like you for you, then there's no reason to be friends with him.
You'll grow out of the being labeled a 'freak' thing, people will accept you when you are yourself.
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How about hanging with these friends with this guy.. That way you can get a little bit closer with him.. ♥ Dez
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