well me and this guy were going o ut for almost two years and then we slit up because we now go to different schools. well we were friends and everything until today he asked me out.. i don't like him in that way anymore, i just want to be friends. i'm deffanitly going to say no, but how should i put it? please help, were in 7th grade btw...
smile answered Tuesday December 13 2005, 12:06 pm: How can you say it?Look, i suggest telling what you think this time it will happen because these things cannot be said earlier.They come spontaneously! But let's try!
"Well, when we were together i liked you very much.Really...But now, i grew up and i generally have different views...I believe that when someone feels that is a friend with someone else they should stay friends.That's what i believe. I think that you are a hondsome boy but you are a very good friend of mine and i don't want to lose such a good friend!I think that friendships last but relationships no. Only serious things last and i am not ready for serious things.So what about staying friends?"
I think that he will understand you and not only that. He will understand that you are a mature girl and that you are an honest person. Good things a friend can have! Don't you think???
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