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Question Posted Monday December 12 2005, 7:10 pm

well me and this guy were going o ut for almost two years and then we slit up because we now go to different schools. well we were friends and everything until today he asked me out.. i don't like him in that way anymore, i just want to be friends. i'm deffanitly going to say no, but how should i put it? please help, were in 7th grade btw...

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TWEETY_4LIFE answered Tuesday December 13 2005, 4:51 pm:
I think u should be honest with him and just tell him that your that interested in him as a boyfriend instead of putting it off for the last mintue cuz then that well let him know he might have a chance which will hurt him more just sit down with him and explain it to him.
Love Tweety!

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sexylilgirlxox answered Tuesday December 13 2005, 4:06 pm:
you could just tell him that you dont like him that way anymore and you want to move on and go out with differnt people that you can see more often. hope it helps :)

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smile answered Tuesday December 13 2005, 12:06 pm:
How can you say it?Look, i suggest telling what you think this time it will happen because these things cannot be said earlier.They come spontaneously! But let's try!
"Well, when we were together i liked you very much.Really...But now, i grew up and i generally have different views...I believe that when someone feels that is a friend with someone else they should stay friends.That's what i believe. I think that you are a hondsome boy but you are a very good friend of mine and i don't want to lose such a good friend!I think that friendships last but relationships no. Only serious things last and i am not ready for serious things.So what about staying friends?"
I think that he will understand you and not only that. He will understand that you are a mature girl and that you are an honest person. Good things a friend can have! Don't you think???
I hope i helped you!

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Knowitall257 answered Monday December 12 2005, 8:09 pm:
im in 7th grade and i know how u feel... just tell him that u just want to stayfriends.. he'll under stand... hope i helped..

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