hey its Liana! please dont ask any stupid questions! =)
Website: ADVICE <3
Gender: Female
Location: Lockport, IL
Age: 13
AIM: ANYTiMENOWSUGaR
Member Since: December 13, 2005
Answers: 3
Last Update: December 13, 2005
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well me and this guy were going o ut for almost two years and then we slit up because we now go to different schools. well we were friends and everything until today he asked me out.. i don't like him in that way anymore, i just want to be friends. i'm deffanitly going to say no, but how should i put it? please help, were in 7th grade btw...
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you could just tell him that you dont like him that way anymore and you want to move on and go out with differnt people that you can see more often. hope it helps :)
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Well I have this friend, she's a year younger (7th grade) and we're like best friends. Well I told her who I liked the other day and she said she 'likes' him to. we both like another person ( her other is different than mine) but I don't think she really does. We agreed not to let this come 'between us', but then the next morning, she asks him out he didn't answer her yet, but I'm really upset because I reaally like him.
what should i do besides talking to her because i already tried that?
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this has happend to me before. me and my friend were at a school dance and i asked this guy to dance. after we danced, on the next slow song, she ran to him and asked him to dance. he wanted to be nice and said yes. later, i asked him out. then she thought about it and did the same thing even thought she new i liked him. so what i did, was i told her that it hurt that she knew i liked him but still asked him out. she said that she could like who she wanted to so i let it go. then she saw how much it upset me and told him never mind and that she didnt want to go out with him anymore. i told him the same thing. friends are more important than boys. if he says yes to your friend just be happy for her. dont let it break you guys apart. hope it helps :)
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My boyfriend of 3 years treats me well, has always been faithful to me, has never said a hateful thing to me, loves me deeply, and has stuck by my side through the good times and the bad. He is the perfect catch. The only problem is... he is sooo nasty sometimes!
I feel like, when it comes to hygiene, my boyfriend is worse than a 3 year old, when actually he is 20. He can go 3 days wearing the same outfit, I have to remind him to brush his teeth and shower, he picks his nose all the time, and he smokes cigarettes. I have talked and talked and talked to him about these things, and I'd admit, he's come a long way. But sometimes it absolutely drives me insane and makes me lose my attraction to him.
Since he has improved a lot so far, I'm hoping that he'll eventually get over these nasty habits. I'm hoping that when he gets a little older that he'll be more mature and take pride in his appearance a little more. However, I'm worried if we get married, will he let himself go?
I can't describe to you how good of a person he is. I have dated a few jerks in my life, and my boyfriend is the most caring, loving, and devoted person in my life. He is smart, witty, friendly, and sensitive. It's just this one problem that keeps tripping us up. Sometimes I feel more like his mother than his girlfriend.
Sooo what should I do when talking to him about it just doesn't seem to be enough? Am I being too critical? Should I just love him for who he is and not bother? Should I give up because I can't change a person? (link)
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well if you really love him, then you should stay with him. if you keep helping him with his hygiene problem, maybe hell stop. if hes a great person over all and you really love him, then stay with him. hope it helps :)
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