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She asked him out!
Well I have this friend, she's a year younger (7th grade) and we're like best friends. Well I told her who I liked the other day and she said she 'likes' him to. we both like another person ( her other is different than mine) but I don't think she really does. We agreed not to let this come 'between us', but then the next morning, she asks him out he didn't answer her yet, but I'm really upset because I reaally like him.
what should i do besides talking to her because i already tried that?
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i dont think she really likes him because if she really did she would have asked him before she knew you liked him too, but on the bright side.. if she hangs out with him and friends go , and when they eventually brake up maybe he will ask you out
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Ok. if you tried talkiing already, then i can really only think of one other solution that will actually help. If yu really like this guy, and yu feel upset, then maybe yu should wait and see what happens. If he says "yes" then i think yu shud wait and see what happens. I kno yu'll be upset, but its better to have one person upset, than 2! So wait it out. Then if nothing happens, such as breaking up, or arguments, maybe yu could try finding someone else. I kno yu may think that he is "the one", but, trust me, there are probably 30 other guys that yu didn't even kno existed.. After a while, if thats a "real" friend, she should notice how upset yu were. - From there on yu need to use yur own judgement. I hope this helps! Good luck! & trust me, there are atleast 1 million people who are going thru the same thing, or who have experienced it too.. including me.
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If your friendship means anything to her she will tell the guy forget about it and say sorry to you if you do think she is a good friend and they do go out then just be happy for them and don't let that tare your friendship apart just hang in there your happiness will come soon and in plus there's more fishes in the sea anyways probably even better.
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this has happend to me before. me and my friend were at a school dance and i asked this guy to dance. after we danced, on the next slow song, she ran to him and asked him to dance. he wanted to be nice and said yes. later, i asked him out. then she thought about it and did the same thing even thought she new i liked him. so what i did, was i told her that it hurt that she knew i liked him but still asked him out. she said that she could like who she wanted to so i let it go. then she saw how much it upset me and told him never mind and that she didnt want to go out with him anymore. i told him the same thing. friends are more important than boys. if he says yes to your friend just be happy for her. dont let it break you guys apart. hope it helps :)
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I wouldnt call her a friend if shes willing to do something like that to you but...... If you really feel shes a friend you should let it go beacuse even though she upset you - you shouldnt let a guy get in the way of things.
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i wouldnt be friends with someone who does something as lousy to you like that, and then doesnt even care. if she doesnt apologize and break it off with him, i wouldnt want to be her friend.
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