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letter..
Kinda late at night but ohk..
I am writing a note letter to my ex that lives in florida i live in maine 6 months ago we broke up and don't really talk that much. I love him to death but he tells me constantly that he was not a great boyfriend and i need to get over him he wants me to because he feels it would be easier on me. he claims to be totally over me even tho we were in love. But ohk he was full of shit on the word so just dont believe it lol. well in this letter i want to tell him stuff like how i feel about him now, what he taught me like in the way of what to really look for in a guy and dont fall in love fast, stuff like that.17/f <-- me
I need Ideas soon. if you could answer tonight it would be great but if not just continue pleease.
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Quite honestly, as someone who has been in this situation 2 too many times. (two long distance relationships.) I live in MA and both of my exes live in Florida. I thought that by writing a letter telling one of them how they had helped me see that there is more to a relationship than loving someone and all of those wonderful things you want to write in your own letter.. I thought it would help. Maybe it would bring him back.. or maybe it would help me get over him. But it didn't work. Quite honestly, I feel it was a waste of my time and words. Save your meaningful words for a guy who will truly love you and understand that a relationship is more than just love.
If I could give you any bit of advice, it would be to NOT write that letter. Or maybe to write the letter, but don't send it. Getting everything out on paper might help, without actually going through with sending it. You have learned your own lessons about love and life.. let him learn his on his own.
I hope I helped, hun. Good luck.
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its not even 9:00 yet...
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Hey,
This is a hard place, but my advice is you have to get over him. Yes he may still love you, but at our age long distance relationships dont work. I have had my heart broken by may of them. So in the letter I think you should recant on your past memories that you treasure the most. It is better to have loved and lost, then to have never of loved at all. Keep that in mind. If you do follow what I am saying, this will be hard, but please, I know it sounds stupid but it will help you move on with your life, but that doesnt mean you have to forget about him altogether, still be friends with him.
Cya when I see ya,
Hebasquash
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Tell him everything uve learned from him and what not but dont write anything about a relashionship between u 2 beacuse he will feal like crap for leaving u like that.
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