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okay well me and my boyfriend like 2 days ago had sex twice but we didnt have a condom either time cause we ran out and couldnt go get anymore at the time. well the first time he cummed in me but i went to the bathroom and try to clean myself and the second time he pulled out without cumming. and this kinda happen before but i wasnt preg. last month. and i should start my period at the end of the month like the 30th, now how much should i be worrying now? (link)
stop stressing anbobout your period because that willd elay it, and you want it to come as soon as possible. fertilization occurs the 2nd weeks between periods, and so you have a week left before your period comes. which means you have a highish chance
go buy a morning after pill, an e.c. and then you could probably relax


soo what if your pregnant..can you still have sex?

and if yes..what if you get more sperm next to your already baby thing..what happens?

thanks. i rate high :D (link)
of course you can still have sex
and if they cum in you it wont matter cuz the egg has already been fertalized, so its not like theres another egg coming in...

ps don't write "i rate high," because that will get your question automatically deleted
also, you should give your question a real title instead of just like "...." even like "pregnancy questions" or something
=]


What days should I avoid having sex during a girl's
cycle?
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well if your gonna be having unprotected sex than you shouldn't be having sex at all
anyways, fertilization occurs 2 weeks between the periods (since its a 4-week cycle).
so right inbetween is the highest chance to get pregnant.
however, theres stlil always a chance, so just use a condom or have her go on birth control.


am i pretty?


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yea
but i suggest getting your eyebrows shaped and done
and wearing eyeliner and mascara
becasue doing these two would make your eyes POP!
(plus, no offense, but your eyebrows aren't very great)
ive never seen eyes like that beforee
and everyone says i have the nicest eyes in the world haha


Hello Everyone.
I was wondering if there was anyway for me to take my unprotected music and get the link to it (www.blah-blah-blah.mp3), so that I can upload it to projectplaylist.com.
Thanks! (link)
Sorry, this isn't much of an answer...

www.fileden.com


=] hope i helped


okay me and my boyfriend's 6 months is the 27th and i was thinking of getting him some stuff from his favorite store. but then i realize his birthday is july 8th. so i was wondering what i should get him then. i probably will get him the stuff from the store for his birthday but i need some ideas for 6 months (link)
well really depends on the person hey. if hes a bigshot success and hes old (not a teenager) you cant go wrong with cufflinks. or has he got some srt of games console? how about a game for it? if not, then im not sure....what do you think he wants? how about ask someone to ask him like "soo your 6 months wif so and so is coming up, got a gift in mind you want?" some bullcrap like that....:D :D !#~ hope i helped :D


how do i get rid of razor bumps and how do i minimize them in the first place (link)
to minimize them in the first place, you need to shave with hairgrowth, not against, yeah you might not get a shave thats as smooth, but it'll be worth it when you aint covered in razor bumps. to get rid of them, i think you might have to see a skin specialist, they can do it, because if you want to do it, you can get sterile tweezers, and sort them out, but bettetr be safe than sorry and see a specialist, because you might get infected or something.


like the war in iraq and stuff. i dont get it.. did it start when 9/11 started? and no dont tell me to research because i dont get what the journalists say and stuff.. im only 13 so put it in a way i'd understand, please. like basically how did the war start, what happened during the war and why hasnt it ended yet and stuff? (link)
the 9/11 thing is different i think. that was to do with afganistan. i think USA went to iraq to help calm the people down because of saddam hussein , but im not sure. people say george bush went there for oil, he might have done, and stupidly, the uk's primeminister(uk)-tony blair followed with america's idea because he really loves to fly the stars and stripes...even though he should have listened to what us uk people said....but hes a jakass anyways...... hope i helped 15/m :D :D !#~


okay well me and my boyfriend like 2 days ago had sex twice but we didnt have a condom either time cause we ran out and couldnt go get anymore at the time. well the first time he cummed in me but i went to the bathroom and try to clean myself and the second time he pulled out without cumming. and this kinda happen before but i wasnt preg. last month. and i should start my period at the end of the month like the 30th, now how much should i be worrying now? (link)
Don't take a pregnancy test until you've missed your period. Don't stress till you've missed your period either, it'll just delay it.


my boyfriend and I were having sex the other night and he went soft. Why did this happen, is it because of me? Or because he was drunk or what? (link)
I doubt it's because of you. I wouldn't worry too much about it if he was drunk. If my boyfriend is too drunk he won't be able to have sex. So don't worry about it until it happens multiple times when he's sober. Oh and don't make a big deal to him about it, it'll make him sad :(. Just pretend like it never happened.


i`m a 17 year old girl. what`s the average weight for the height of 5'4? i`m around 125.. mostly 122ish. is that normal? and i have 36C boobs so i think that takes up some of the weight.. what should i weigh? (link)
You are perfectly fine the way you are. You are already at normal weight your BMI is 21.5

* Underweight =


soo its like this. i got my industrial pierced almost 3 weeks ago. the dude said not to change it for 8-12 weeks but i am soo tempted. ive been keeping it clean as instructed and have had no problems at all and all the crusting is gone. would it be ok to go ahead and change it to a brand new barbell as long as i keep cleaning it well? ive had no problems with any of my piercings getting infected and im extremely impatient and excited =]. i know its not recommended but do you think itd be ok? (link)
Personally I would wait to change it just because you do not want to risk infection. I think you would be really disappointed if you changed it and it got infected I know I would. If you really want to change it and risk it then go ahead!

Hope I Helped
&
Good Luck!


I just wanna know what might be the best way to ask a girl out. Thanx :) (link)
Don't hold back just ask her. Maybe bring her flowers or something you think she'd like. Make sure you guys are alone so her answer isn't influenced by anyone. Girls find it attractive when I guy come up to them and asks them. Most girls find it extremely unattractive when a guys friends ask them out for them. Go up to her with confidence and if you get shut down don't go off on her just act cool. There are plenty more fish in the sea.

Good Luck!!


so my best friend left to go on vacation today, he'll be there for 10 days. we talk every night, and we love each other very much and all [not like bf gf though]. i dont know its hard to explain but that's not the point. The point is he's very close to me and I'm really depressed because I miss him like crazy. What can I do to lift my spirits or anything? I cant call him because he didnt bring his phone so =/ idk some1 help. im super bummed =[ thnx in advance.. (link)
Try to keep you mind off it and keep yourself occupied. Go out with your friends and have a good time! As long as you try not to think about it and have fun he will be back in what seems like no time.

Good Luck!!


i am uncomfortable with the size of my breasts. is there any way besides surgery to make them larger? plz help! (link)
Not really. Try wearing a really good push up bra, Victoria's Secret has some good ones but they are kind of expensive. You could also get removable pads. Gaining weight can also make your breasts bigger depending on your body type.

Hope I Helped.


so when me and my boyfriend have sex, i never orgasm. it feels really good, and i love it - but i just don`t get off. i get off when he goes down on me, etc., but not during sex. what`s wrong? am i doing anything wrong? i don`t understand why i don`t get off... i`m 17 btw. any suggestions or answers would be helpful! thanks (link)
I suggest experimenting with different positions. Not all positions work for everyone! Have him sit up and you sit on him facing him try like that. If he is usually on top you try being on top. Eventually you will find a position that works for you and him.

Good luck!!


I was just wondering why are girls so uptight bout admitting that they masterbate cause guys are open about it...thanks (link)
Maybe they just feel uncomfortable on talking about it. Girls tend to be not as open as guys are with the entire subject including all types of sex. I guess some girls could be open with it but some girls tend to be embarrassed. I do not know anything else to say I guess it depends on the girl.


Hope I Helped.


14/f

I'm not sure that I'm completely straight. The idea of lesbian sex doesn't gross me out or anything, it kind of turns me on. like i would do it without protesting. A lot of times I get these huge crushes on girls because they're really attractive. I feel pretty much equally attracted to guys and girls. I'd rather go on a date with/marry a guy, and I first noticed guys, not girls (like when i was little). But still...

Do you think I'm Bi? or Trisexual? I just think I'm a little bit too attracted to females to be "straight".


any advice appreciated.



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You very well could be bisexual. I don't know if I'd recommend you experimenting with girls being your only 14. I'm sure in time as you get older you will discover your preference.

Hope I Helped.


I am looking for house cleaning solutions that are made from household items. And all natural, can you help me? (link)
I couldn't really find too much on it. I don't really know what kind of cleaning solution you ment but hey, maybe this will help you.

http://www.pioneerthinking.com/cleaningsolutions.html

Good Luck & Hope I helped a little!


i always try to see the good in people. i know that when someone acts mean or rude, its probably because something bad happened to them. like they have problems at home or they're insecure or something. but there's this one girl that i really wonder about. she has been a mean, selfish person all her life and i cant see a reason for it. she's gorgeous, rich, popular, her parents are really nice to her, boys fall at her feet, girls worship her and do whatever she says... so what reason does she have to be so mean and hateful? is it possible that some people are just born that way? (link)
I don't know the girl but by the way you describe her she seems like a person who is really conceited. She probably just thinks that she is better than everyone because people think she's pretty and she can get all the guys. A lot of people are like that unfortunately, those are the types that I choose not to hang out with.

Hope I helped!




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