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My orientation?
14/f
I'm not sure that I'm completely straight. The idea of lesbian sex doesn't gross me out or anything, it kind of turns me on. like i would do it without protesting. A lot of times I get these huge crushes on girls because they're really attractive. I feel pretty much equally attracted to guys and girls. I'd rather go on a date with/marry a guy, and I first noticed guys, not girls (like when i was little). But still...
Do you think I'm Bi? or Trisexual? I just think I'm a little bit too attracted to females to be "straight".
any advice appreciated.
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yeahh u mite be bi like oh my god i feel the same EXACT way...like litterally its scary im 14 too andd i do get like crushess on girls because they are madd attractive like ive kissed a girll and stuff but...thats only when i was drunk i partyyy a lot haha well this wasnt an advise thing but...i juss wanted you too kno yourr not the only one....so you dont have to rate this ha well pEaCee
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Some researchers think that everyone falls on a continum between being completely gay and only attracted to the same sex and being totally straight and only attracted to the opposite sex. From what you say if you have sexual feelings for both men and women, you are probably bisexual. As you get older, your orientation and dating preferences will become clear, so I wouldn't stress out about it too much now.
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Heya,
From what you have said I don't think your bi i just reckon that the thought of something out of the ordinary and you havent done before is appealing to you.
When you haven't tried something before you might get urges to do that thing.
Also because you're fourteen you are still exploring your sexuality.
If you do end up liking both guys and girls then fair enough there is nothing wrong with that.
You can like whoever you want to and labelling a person bi or lesbian or straight should'nt worry you, just go with your instincts and don't care overly much about what other might think.
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As you mature you will discover your preference, if you have one. You very well could be bi- sexual, however, at such a young age, it could also just be curiosity. Give it time. There are many women who find lesbian sex attractive and think the female form is attractive but are not bi- sexual. The reason being that they are not interested in dating or engaging in a serious relationship with a woman. It is one thing to like watching women engage in sex with each other, or to want to engage in sexual relations with a woman, but it is a far different thing to want to commit to a woman.
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You very well could be bisexual. I don't know if I'd recommend you experimenting with girls being your only 14. I'm sure in time as you get older you will discover your preference.
Hope I Helped.
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