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Location: New York
Age: 14
Member Since: June 24, 2007
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Last Update: July 21, 2007
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does making out with braces hurt?
because i'm getting them next tuesday..and i was just wondering for me & my boyfriend's sake. haha :) (link)
haha nahh it doesnt hurt i have braces and i have madeout with so many guys ur boyfriend wont even realze that you have themm

hope it helpedd


hey. so i finally FINALLY mustered up enough courage to message my crush on facebook. things are going pretty well & the conversation is pretty smooth. but, i'm really nervous about what i say to him. like i type something once, reread it, edit it, delete stuff, etc. how do i force myself to just CALM down & not be so nervous? i'm being as open as i can, but i'm afraid i'll say something stupid / something i'll regret! (link)
juss act like yourself...you should juss thinkk its one of your guy friends your talkin too no 1 important but try your best to keep him interested after a while of you guys talkin you could ask to see a movie..but dont be nervous...i mean if ur not chill about talkin to him online how would you be in person lhaha...and dont try to hard on your answer eitherr...juss say anythingg that would keep the confo flowingg


13/f

My ex boyfriend moved away a year ago, after we broke up. He swore he'd come back when I went into 8th grade. I talked to the teachers and... He is coming back for sure. I'm scared! I no it's stupid but I am. He's really cute, but it's the reason we broke up that scares me... We broke up cuz he left a bruise on my arm at a dance in front of everybody, that's why nobody dares date me(Don't know why exactly), and I found out 3 months later he was cheating on me... I lied to people and told them I cheated on him too, but I didn't... I just want to know what to do! I got really really REALLY uncomferable around him after we broke up. Now, I get chills even when his name is mentioned... Please somebody give me advice ASAP!!!!!! (link)
the fact that he left a bruise on your arm is kinda scary...and that he cheated on you..thats juss not rite...i think like if you seee him...wait for him to come up too you and see where things go...from there....if he doesnt then you could juss say hii or ignore him...if he is still kindaa abuseive or seems like the cheating type i think u guys could juss be good friendss for friends withh benifts... juss act normal not like all nervous around him try not to think about it that much.....maybe you should talk to more guyss nd try to forget about it haha


hope i helped




OKay. how old do you have to be to move out of your parents house and not have to listen to them in NY state?? (link)
youu would havee to be 18...and i kno how you feel..im 14 and i ALREADY wanna move out haha


sorry if its long.

14/f. me and my best friend were inseparable, until she got a new boyfriend. (i'll call my friend jen and her boyfriend zack.) jen started hiding lots of things from me, stuff we used to tell each other all the time. she started sneaking out and doing vandalism like spray painting, TPing, forking, egging, rubberbanding etc.
she told me this and told me not to tell ANYONE.
but im not sure i can do that. should i tell someone like my mom?
or do I keep quiet...? (link)
well if you relle care about her you would tell your mom but...that would def. juss ruin your relationship with her and if you keep quiet you guys would still be friends and maybe she would tell you even more things she does...but i think you should juss talk to her about and it ask her why she is doing it...its juss makin her a bad person


Well I am 14.
15 in March.
But anyways
I haven't had much fun,I know its sad but I am 14 and I haven't even made-out yet. And like every girl when they are like my age always have fun,right. Well I know this is like a hard question but how do I start having more fun. Like going to party's and all that stuff. Bcuz I am suck of being like being doing non-fun stuff.
you know what i mean.
can anyone like help me? (link)
well lets juss say that im one of those girlss who have madeout with guys and do have a lot of fun....you have to get like guy friends and hang out with them on weekends hang out with more fun people and maybe wear the type of things they wear like hollister or abercrombie and dont make it seem you try that hard but juss be yourself and have the best time that you could have ive been to parties nd stuff but sumtimes things dont turn out for the best..jus be carefull and make good choices making out juss leads to even worse things...and you could get hurt....i kno from expirience juss be alert for things like that


i hope i helped =)


Okay my boyfriend was like can i finger you ?? and i was all i have to go but the thing is what is fingering??? and were should he (finger) me ??
Thanks in advance! :) (link)
fingering is when a guy puts his finger/fingers into yourr vagina its like having sex but you dont have a dick in you haha itss safer and yeh it may hurt or feel wierd on your first time


I am 14 and this guy that I like is 17, we both like each other but everyone keeps telling us that it is too weired for the ages too be together what do you all thing it is only 3 years. Im going to be a freshman next year and he will be a senior. So are our ages too far apart? (link)
nahh its not im 14 and i have been with a guy who is 17...but it all depends on what ur age limit is and it dosnt really matter what other people think they could juss be jeolse of you or something stupid like that nd 3 years isnt a lot


whats the difference between a blow job and a head job??? can someone clue me in plz!! thanxxxx (link)
same thing juss dif werding


im a bit worried im 15 and my penis is about 5.5 inches long is this normal for my age? (link)
yehh thatss def. nornal forr ur agee dont worry bout it the ladiess will be happy haha


how long do you get your period for? like is it 4 days or a week? i get mine for only 3 days and it gets ligter every day. is that normal? (link)
yehh thats normal every girl has it differently i have mine for like a week....it sucks...your so lucky haha


you know how they say a guy gets an erection every 90 minutes? do they really? cos if they did, dont you think youd walk down the hallways seeing guys with erections alot?"? (link)
yeah well that stuff isnt truee but if that were true you see themm with boners in the hall but its not...so yeah ha


14/f

I'm not sure that I'm completely straight. The idea of lesbian sex doesn't gross me out or anything, it kind of turns me on. like i would do it without protesting. A lot of times I get these huge crushes on girls because they're really attractive. I feel pretty much equally attracted to guys and girls. I'd rather go on a date with/marry a guy, and I first noticed guys, not girls (like when i was little). But still...

Do you think I'm Bi? or Trisexual? I just think I'm a little bit too attracted to females to be "straight".


any advice appreciated.



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yeahh u mite be bi like oh my god i feel the same EXACT way...like litterally its scary im 14 too andd i do get like crushess on girls because they are madd attractive like ive kissed a girll and stuff but...thats only when i was drunk i partyyy a lot haha well this wasnt an advise thing but...i juss wanted you too kno yourr not the only one....so you dont have to rate this ha well pEaCee


if a girl like never stops talking to me on msn and facebook sometimes until 1am or later does that means she realy likes likes me and wants to go out?

( i have already asked her out and she said she needs to think about it. but i can tell she has some strong feelings for me.)

what do i do? (link)
hang out with her

and if she relle seems to like u


thenn make a move like put ur arm around her...


if she likezzz that kiss her


So a few weeks ago i get a pic cmmnt from my ex bf ( i thought i loved this kid) and we broke up over a year and a half ago, and him and his gf just broke up (they were dating right after we originally broke up, so they were dating for the year and a half) and weve been iming and he came over one night (but i had snuck out so i had to send him home) and stuff and so i tell him ill always have feelings for him and he told me he thinks about me too, but he wants to see what his options are (ass) and that our parents would prolly disown us (cuz they kinda hated us dating) and stuff and i was all idc what they say, and then he said whatever happens happens, but today he was talking about some lame freshman girl..
ugh. what do i do to make him see things my way?
i never even noticed how much ive missed him until now.oh yeah and by the way, he like reads all my bulletins on myspace and stuff. so does he like me or not? and what do i do?
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this is wat i think....he is kinda like...a player.....try ur best not to fall for him that easy...its happened to me b 4..and i kno im only 14...but a lot has happened with guys in my past..im expirienced nd if he relle cared enough he wouldnt be talkin about other girls...like that freshman u were talkin about.


Female

Ok well i was a virgin till yesterday. We didn't finish or go for that long and yes protection was used. I highly doubt I'm pregnant or anything but yes im nervous. Today I got a random clear discharge like a lot and it was like uncontrollable. I dont know if this means anything but of course im nervous

please help and give me tips on how i know im safe and ok

thanks in advance (link)
well i think u should wait about 2 to about 4 weeks....and if ur feeling sick a lot...and throwing up...u mite be pregnate..




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