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too different of ages?
I am 14 and this guy that I like is 17, we both like each other but everyone keeps telling us that it is too weired for the ages too be together what do you all thing it is only 3 years. Im going to be a freshman next year and he will be a senior. So are our ages too far apart?
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i dont think its that big a deal. i have a boyfriend that is 2 years older than me. i guess its only bad if he pressuress you into things or whatever. but i wouldnt worry about what other people are saying,
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Three years isn't that big of a deal, but it is looked down upon when you're a minor. I wouldn't consider it too weird or too far apart. I believe the only time the age difference will ever be a problem is if he's pressuring you to do anything sexually. That's a red flag that he's trying to take the advantage that you're younger & more vulnerable. Be glad you have friends/peers who are looking out for you. Unless he doesn't treat you right, there doesn't seem to be anything screaming that this is a bad idea.
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It's your decision. No one can tell you what's right or wrong. Seniors do like to use freshman girls for sex, so be careful. Make sure you are 100% certain he really likes you before you go out with him.
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nahh its not im 14 and i have been with a guy who is 17...but it all depends on what ur age limit is and it dosnt really matter what other people think they could juss be jeolse of you or something stupid like that nd 3 years isnt a lot
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If you guys like each other that is all that matters, BUT its just an odd situation because this boy is in high school while you're in middle school, there is just a whole lot of difference in maturity levels. If you guys care about each other dont let people stop you from it, just keep in mind that boys normally go for the younger girls for one reason, trust me i know from a prior experience, its to take your virginity. (i was dating an 18 year old when i was 15) Im not saying you're guy is like that but just keep it in mind if he starts pressuring you into things. But if you both care for each other than i say who cares what others say.
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You two may like eachother, but I say that you shouldn't go out,because he should be dating at least a junior. Your just going to high school and hes about to leave soon. It'll be only three years when your older, but now its a big three years. You should date someone is who your age or 15. Theres a couple things on a guys mind in their teen years, so imagine almost 18. Whether you guys feel weird around eachother or not, it might look weird, and if it doesn't look weird than it will be weird when people know your ages. I say they are too far apart, but its up to you and him.
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i was a freshman and my boyfriend was a senior. don't worry about what everyone else is saying, only you and him can decide your relationship. it really depends on the people, most seniors are looking for a committed relationship while most freshman just want to party and have fun. the only problem i had was when my boyfriend graduated.. but we are still together. hope i helped<3
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I dont think its weird. If you really like this guy, then dont let other peoples oppinions change how you feel. =]
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if you like him alot then age doesnt matter. but once he turns 18 it might be a problem. If you are still dating the law will get in the way, it says anyone over 18 being with someone under the age of 18 is called molesting, if you kiss or anything. but i think you will be fine :)
<3 Anna
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