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confusing way ex bf.
So a few weeks ago i get a pic cmmnt from my ex bf ( i thought i loved this kid) and we broke up over a year and a half ago, and him and his gf just broke up (they were dating right after we originally broke up, so they were dating for the year and a half) and weve been iming and he came over one night (but i had snuck out so i had to send him home) and stuff and so i tell him ill always have feelings for him and he told me he thinks about me too, but he wants to see what his options are (ass) and that our parents would prolly disown us (cuz they kinda hated us dating) and stuff and i was all idc what they say, and then he said whatever happens happens, but today he was talking about some lame freshman girl..
ugh. what do i do to make him see things my way?
i never even noticed how much ive missed him until now.oh yeah and by the way, he like reads all my bulletins on myspace and stuff. so does he like me or not? and what do i do?
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Two things: give him space & don't get your hopes up. Don't act like you're that desperate to get back together, especially with someone who doesn't seem to sure or eager to get back with you. He doesn't seem so sure of what he wants right now, so give him time to think it over. He just got out of a year & a half relationship which means you can't expect him to jump into anything new right away. He needs to see things himself, not just yours. He is not with anyone right now, so he is entitled to talk about other girls. In the meantime, back off a little & let him make his decision. If he chooses to not get back together with you, learn to accept it & move on. You wouldn't want to have a relationship with someone who didn't feel the same way back. & if he decides he wants to get back with you, then great - I hope you can both work out eachothers differences. As far as the myspace bulletins - just because he reads them doesn't automatically mean he likes you. Maybe he's just bored or curious of what you have to say, that's all. :)
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Well, I think he might feel awkward bringing it up again. What I think is that he felt embarrassed about what happened within the last few weeks and is trying to cover it up. Or, he might not like you anymore -- maybe he did but you were taking things too slowly?
I think if you don't feel comfortable asking if he still likes you, try flirting with him (but not to the extreme) and see if he comes to you again.
Plus about the bulletins thing, you can't really tell. Its possible though, if he reads them he deff sounds at least interested about whats going on in your life..
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this is wat i think....he is kinda like...a player.....try ur best not to fall for him that easy...its happened to me b 4..and i kno im only 14...but a lot has happened with guys in my past..im expirienced nd if he relle cared enough he wouldnt be talkin about other girls...like that freshman u were talkin about.
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Okay, first of all, forget about the MySpace shit. Yeah, maybe he's looking at your bullitens and commenting your pictures, but maybe he's doing that with other girls too. MySpace is a WEBSITE. o_O Don't get overexcited.
And I understand that you're just now realizing that you really do miss him.. That sucks potatos =/ But maybe you should consider his side too. If he REALLY liked you, he wouldn't care about his parents either and would've been with you by now. I think you should keep talking to the fellow and see where things go. Because he's also JUST out of a year-and-a-half relationship as well. He could be looking just to get some booty with an ex. >.< I'm just saying.
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