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I'm Freaked and Have No Freaking Idea What To Do!!!!!!!!


Question Posted Wednesday July 18 2007, 4:53 pm

13/f

My ex boyfriend moved away a year ago, after we broke up. He swore he'd come back when I went into 8th grade. I talked to the teachers and... He is coming back for sure. I'm scared! I no it's stupid but I am. He's really cute, but it's the reason we broke up that scares me... We broke up cuz he left a bruise on my arm at a dance in front of everybody, that's why nobody dares date me(Don't know why exactly), and I found out 3 months later he was cheating on me... I lied to people and told them I cheated on him too, but I didn't... I just want to know what to do! I got really really REALLY uncomferable around him after we broke up. Now, I get chills even when his name is mentioned... Please somebody give me advice ASAP!!!!!!


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Smallazn4lyfe answered Wednesday July 18 2007, 8:15 pm:
It doesn't seem like he was a really good boyfriend from what I read. He left a bruise on your arm at a dance, and he cheated on you. I would probably be the same way you are if I was his ex-girlfriend, but that shouldn't matter, you have to face your fears one time or another even if it is a whole school year! You have to face your fear to over come it. When school starts, just don't really close him out of your life, talk to him once in a while, and you'll get over your nervousness.

I hope this helped.
//Smallazn4lyfe

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yourrtrustyhelpline answered Wednesday July 18 2007, 6:16 pm:
just stay strong. don't let him scare you. no matter how much it scares you, don't show him that you're scared. don't let him get to you.

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ashleyXO answered Wednesday July 18 2007, 6:14 pm:
the fact that he left a bruise on your arm is kinda scary...and that he cheated on you..thats juss not rite...i think like if you seee him...wait for him to come up too you and see where things go...from there....if he doesnt then you could juss say hii or ignore him...if he is still kindaa abuseive or seems like the cheating type i think u guys could juss be good friendss for friends withh benifts... juss act normal not like all nervous around him try not to think about it that much.....maybe you should talk to more guyss nd try to forget about it haha


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