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14/f
okay well my friend said she didnt like this guy anymore but i like him a lot. he is everything that i look for in a guy and i am everything he looks for in a girl. would it be rude to start flirting with him.would it be mean if i dated him. i dont want to ruin our friendship. (link)
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i really like the fact that you are considerate of your friend, thats sweet.
but if she said she didn't like him anymore, she's telling you that he's free to do whatever. so flirt with him doll :]
& if she gets mad, just simply tell her that she said she didn't like him & that you do, and she should be okay with it.
good luck
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I have always had regular periods ever since I first started to get them. I have been off birth control for about 6 or 7 months now and I have missed my last 2 periods. I have taken a few home pregnancy tests and took one at the doctors office too and they all come back negitive. Can i still be pregnant because that would be great. I was told to reschedule an appoitment with my doctor again if i don't get it by the end of the month to get a blood test done. I have been getting really bad headaches, a lot of nausea,lower stomach cramping as if im going to get my period. I have also been extremly tired.
19/f (link)
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those are all signs of pregnancy, but you could just be more paranoid & seem to notice these things more now.
if you are very athletic, your period tends to sort of disappear sometimes, and yours may have done that.
some girls just have really 'off' periods, such as my mom who goes 3 or 4 months without one, and then 3 with one. it's strange.
i know you said you've already taken tests & been to the doctor, but maybe you should go again, or try it all over.
good luck though =)
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what exactly is a yeast infection and how long could it last if it hasnt been treated?? i think i may have one but i've had this
certain problem "down there" for a long time. so please someone
tell me what it looks like and just what it is, and how long it lasts
if not treated, and how to treat it. THANK YOU!
14/f btw. (link)
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usually symptons of a yeast infection are; strong fishy smells, down there, mucus like discharge, itching, & weird pains after you pee, feeling like you need to pee again, but can't.
if you think you have a yeast infection, treat it as immediately as possible, because it can lead to far worse infections.
girls get these all the time & there aren't any reasons to be embarrassed. just tell your mom that you feel you have one & need to see a doctor. it'll be all right, so don't panic :]
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18/F
Okay, my boyfriend and I have been together for 2 and a half years. I really want to lose my virginity to him. He is not a virgin but obviously I am.
I've talked to him about it and he says its my decision and he will stand behind which ever I make. (Wait or Not Wait)
Half of me wants to do something, then the other half is just like worried. I know I'm gonna spend the rest of my life with this man.
What do you guys thimk I should do?
Also, I heard you bleed a lot when you lose it. He has a rather large penis. So will I bleed heavy like on my period? Or just a little? And if I put my pants on afterwards, will I bleed threw my pants?
Thanks. (link)
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if you aren't 100% sure you want to do it, then don't. wait until you have no doubts in your mind whatsoever. it'll make it so much better also.
you only bleed if your cherry hasn't been popped. i'm 16 & i've been having sex since i was 13 (yeah, yeah) & i've never bled during it, not even once, mainly because my cherry was popped while i was running.
but if he does pop your cherry, it doesn't bleed a lot just a slight amount, enough to go through your underwear probably, but not your jeans. so i would take cautions if you put your pants & stuff back on, if you know your cherry hasn't been popped.
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What are the chances of being pregnant but still having your normal menstrual cycle? (link)
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i'm not very sure what the chances are, but by what a friend of mine went through, her period was actually quite normal & on time and everything, when she ended up being pregnant. but most of the time, you don't have your period if you are pregnant. & if you would like to know why, just ask me. =]
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Okay.
So, I've realized I have a fishy smell "down there"
What caused it?
How can I get rid of it?
Um...like you can get rid of it right? Its not gonna smell like this forever??
PLEASE HELP! I'm worried.
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if its a really strong smell, you could have a bladder infection, kidney infection, or bacterial vaginosis, usually these follow symptons of fishy smells & mucus like discharge.
but if it just smells slightly weird, you can buy many products that can help this smell go away. Summer's Eve has a lot, and then there are also vagina deodorants that you just spray on. you can search those up on almost any department store.
hope i helped :]
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So there's guy, and (obviously) I have a crush on him. The trick is we have no classes together and I have no excuse to talk to him, even when I really want to. And then I get really nervous if I do try to talk to him and don't know what to say. What should I do?? (link)
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it's okay to be nervous although don't let him know or think that you are. it'll give away the idea that you like him.
sometimes just a simple conversation is a good idea, such as 'bump into him, accidentally - haha' it sounds dorky, but it'll work out.
& once you do run into him, just ask him how he is & how you haven't talked to him in a while or something, just casually do that everyday & sooner or later, you guys will start talking more & it can progress from there.
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I want to give my daughter pink streaks in her hair for Halloween (she's 3). I bought spray on hair color that goes on really nice and bright. But I can't figure out how to give her streaks, like highlights. After I get the streaks right I want to pull back her hair in a ponytail and put glitter on it. It will look really cute if I can ever figure it out.
Any suggestions? (link)
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you can actually buy temporary hair dye that comes with a comb on the nozzle & as you squeeze the hair dye, it comes out on the comb, make sense? lol
i'm sure you can just about buy it anywhere also :]
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How do yall scrunch your hair?
And make it look beachy and cute (link)
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after you get out of the shower, use a gel called 'Curls Rock, by Catwalk' & scrunch it all in your hair. If you have extremely straight hair, this might be a little bit harder for you to do, but you can try anyways. you can blow dry your hair a bit just do it doesn't look bad.
& then scrunch & spray your hair all over again & it should give it the look you want.
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i got a good body all i really want is a flatter stomach, its not that big its just got a little fat that bugs me , i wanna be able to wear short tops n not be insecure about it please tell me how 2 make my stomach look hot (link)
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start doing sit-ups or crunches.
try to do as many as you can & then every night, increase your amount.
crunches are my favorite & they are really easy to do
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can you get a job if you're 14?
like besides babysitting i mean (link)
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in virginia; fast food places willl hire you if you have a work permit, but won't let you near ovens or anything.
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To get it straight, envy is my biggest weakness, and I can never stand being with anyone that is better than I am (in whatever way: intelligence, appearance, accomplishments, etc.) Whenever I come across someone whom I perceive is a better individual than me, I'll run away from him/her as far as possible, otherwise the envious fire at my heart would burn me to death. Paradoxically, I fell in love with a guy whom I perceive is smarter and more accomplished than I am. He loves me too (or even more than I do him). But part of me doesn't seem to be able to carry on this relationship anymore, because I can’t stand the fact that I'm inferior than my boyfriend in some areas. I usually date someone that is equal to me or slightly dumber than me so that I can feel I'm in control. My boyfriend's intellectual superiority makes me insecure and vulnerable. I shiver whenever seeing his grandiose accomplishments. I remember someone said, "envy's true nature is the will to completely destroy the envied"—do I want to destroy my boyfriend then? Well, yes, I do RESENT him for having talents that I don't have. Yet at the same time I'm in love with him. Yes, I love AND hate him simultaneously! Such feeling is too much to handle. Ugh. I don't think I can leave him, because he loves me so deeply that I'm afraid he'd have a huge breakdown if I went away—that'd be too selfish of me. If I could get rid of my envy, everything would be fine. But how can I do it? This bad trait of mine is so ingrained in me. I always uncontrollably compare myself with others. I can't help it. So I am seeking advice from you guys. Please don't say, "everyone has his/her talents and defects. You are equal to your boyfriend because you have talents too." Yes, I do have several talents he doesn't have. But from what I perceive, my boyfriend has MORE talents than I do. He is superior to me MORE OFTEN than I am to him. I can't stand this. Meanwhile, I wish I could eradicate my envy and have a wonderful relationship with this guy. (link)
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you shouldn't be jealous over his accomplishments, you should be happy for him, thats what he wants you to be.
you need to get over this & think about what you two can achieve in the future together, if you love him deeply & truly then don't ruin this relationship because your boyfriend is better than you. he won't be the first person you'll meet who is better than you. sorry to say it hun & im not trying to be rude, but get over it.
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ok im worried... im on the pill and i was supposed to get my period last week but it never came.. ive been under a great deal of stress lately and took a preg. test which said i was not pregnant. so why didnt i get my period? am i just really paraniod? i never miss the pill & i take it every night at the same time.. HELP! (link)
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if you are athletic you can miss your period for months & months.
if you think you may be pregnant but the test said you weren't, take 3. some tests can be wrong, while others are right. and if you still don't trust those, go to a doctor.
when my mom was younger she used to miss her period all the time & at one point or another, a girl will miss her period at least once.
so don't stress bby.
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My husband and I seem to only ever have sex. I know that it's supposed to express love, but neither of us waited to marriage...we both slept around a lot. I do love him, and he promises he loves me, and not just my body. But it seems like, unless we're making love, we're not getting along. Is it possible to love someone with liking them? Seriously... I love him, but I don't like him because he's rude to me and not really abusive, but almost. So... what now? (link)
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sometimes having sex before marriage can lead to not being able to communicate with this person. & this even goes for having sex after marriage & in my opinion, this looks like your problem.
there really isn't anything you can do, but to try & stop having sex with him & get to know him better.
go out to dinner with eachother, instead of staying up all night having sex, stay up all night & have deep conversation about interests/hopes/&dreams.
it'll work, trust me
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I'm a cheerleader and I have to participate in these themes that we do at school each week for our footbal team. Well this week it is celebrity day...So me and my friend want to be two celebrities that are friends but we don't now who to be besides Paris Hilton and Nicole Ritchie but a lot of people were doing them...so does anybody know who we can do? (link)
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me & my friend went as Blue & Magenta from Blue's Clues. yes, they are celebrities. =)
if you want to know more about how we dressed up, ask me on my profile & i can show you some pictures :]
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my best friend is crazy about my boyfriend. he was her boyfriend first but they only went out for 2 1/2 weeks. he was her first boyfriend. she says hes the only guy shes ever loved. i think shes a little over dramatic. ive been going out with him for more than 2 months now. i love him alot and this is the most serious relationship ive been in, and ive been in a lot of relationships. i love him so much. but now ive been reading on my friends and my boyfriends myspaces. they both admitted to still having feelings for eachother. my best friend came to school and told me the only reason he hasnt broke up with me is because he doesnt know how and he really loves her. she also told him that i wouldnt break up with him because i dont want them going back out. thats not true. i love him. my friend is really mad at me now and i didnt do anything. she gave me her blessing to go out with him. i dont know what to do. they like eachother and my friend is telling me all this crap. my boyfriend says he loves me more than hell ever love her or like her, but how do i know? my friend was with him first. what do i do? please help me. thanks. (link)
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if your friend was any friend at all, she wouldn't be telling you all this stuff. honestly i think she sounds rude.
i hate to tell you this, but if your boyfriend said on his myspace that he still has feelings for her, your best bet is to talk to him about this & see if it's true. he's a guy & he's willing to lie, but you have to trust what he says & go with your heart.
if you think they will cheat behind your back, break up with him now & save your heartbreak.
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Hello! My friend keeps leaving me out now and i dont know why. She never talks to me or answers my questions anymore and she now talks to two other girls that dont talk to me and when we do all get to hang out together...they talk and they communicate but i am left saying nothing. We never sit with eachother at lunch or be parteners together for school and it makes me depressed all the time!! I dont know why but can someone please give me advice? Thanks (link)
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the best thing you can do, is just to talk to her about it.
let her know how this makes you feel, or you can always try & make new friends to, so she'll know how it feels to be left out.
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Is It Most Likely For A Girl To Get Pregnant Before Or After Her Period? (link)
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before. yet sometimes after.
a girl usually has a 24 day cycle. which means your period is somewhere in between every 24-30 days, right?
well you are usually most fertile, 13 days after your period, all the way up to your period & sometimes the next 3 days after your period.
you are fertile for about 2 weeks & you are unfertile for about 2 weeks also, so it evens out.
so anywhere in between those days, don't have sex.
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I had this boyfriend once and he asked me out. By the way i am 13 if that helps....anyways..i said yes so we went out for a week but i never really had fun with him. All my friends have boyfriends and talk to them on the phone and invite them places and i dont think anybody is cute in our school. I dont know if i am just not into boys yet or not because whenever i say i am not into boys yet they just look at me like i am a baby or not mature or something...please help? (link)
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it's okay to not be interested yet. but in the meantime you still need to search around, talk to different guys, even if they aren't cute. because sometimes someones mind can completely take you away & make you never want to look at another guy again.
i promise that soon enough someone will come along & you'll see exactly how your other friends feel. just give it some time & have fun for now
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i'm 16/f.
i just got out of a really long relationship, and now i like this guy a lot, but i don't know if he notices anything. what little things can i do to get him to notice me or anything like that? i'm not good at talking and flirting so what can i do? thanks! (link)
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there aren't really things you can do besides talking & flirting.
maybe dress extra nice, randomly run into him & casually start a conversation(cheesy:yes, obvious:no)
just glance at him every now & then, let him think you are interested yet keep it secret so it'll drive him crazy to know you more.
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