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i am not in to boys yet
I had this boyfriend once and he asked me out. By the way i am 13 if that helps....anyways..i said yes so we went out for a week but i never really had fun with him. All my friends have boyfriends and talk to them on the phone and invite them places and i dont think anybody is cute in our school. I dont know if i am just not into boys yet or not because whenever i say i am not into boys yet they just look at me like i am a baby or not mature or something...please help?
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I am 13 and feel EXACTLY the same way.my mates will slobber all over some boys and are like "oh my god there he is".It's perfectly fine not to be into them at the moment.The thing with me and it may be the same with you is that I am quite mature for my age and the boys I know are like.. so babyish so if I was ever to be into the someone it will be someone older but because I don't know anyne older, I just don't seem to be into anyone.Your fine and it's fine not to be into boys at this age.Also if you are a slow developer you hormones havn't kicked in yet to make you feel as if you like someone
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it is way okay not to be interested in guys yet at this age. dotn feel bad. everybody matures in different ways. be yourself and dont try to date or act like you like someone just because your freinds are. you probably are into boys a little bit but maybe not fully yet. and thats good. you get to concentrate more on school and dont have to try to be anyone your not just to empress a guy you like. well anyways i hope i helped and feel free to email me anytime at scdgirl288@yahoo.com.
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Thank you. Thank you for being the first rational girl your age on this site! You get so sick of hearing kids your age asking about pregnancy and sex!
It's absolutely fine to not be interested in dating. Dating takes up too much time and effort, and you should enjoy being young while you are. Take the opportunity to be goofy, enjoy your age, and act it! It doesn't mean you're any less mature, it actually means you're more mature, because you're not just rushing to act like an adult.
If your friends have a problem with it, just tell them that you're too busy and that you have better things to do with your time than have some pre-pubescent guy drooling on your neck.
You're definitely taking the right stand here.
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It's completely fine to not be interested in guys yet. I mean, you are only 13. Most girls DON'T get interested in guys until around that age. At least, whenever I was 13 they weren't. Kids today are trying to get boyfriends way too quick, and way too fast. So while they're out there living the taken life, enjoy the single!
This is a chance to, even if you're not interested in guys, practice and perfect your skills with talking to guys and everything, so you're not so nervous and everything as for when you do! Plus, it'll get you alot of guys friends, which'll make your taken friends jealous, I bet!
So just go around, talk to guys, make friends with them, and see if there's any that suddenly might start to just catch your interest, and you really then start to like, and just get a feel for what type of guy you'd like to hang out most with, so whenever you do want a boyfriend, you'll already know what to start looking for.
As for your friends, they really shouldn't be looking at you like that. I mean, I'm not saying you guy's aren't, but you're only 13, like I said, 13 is NOT a very mature age, anyways. You guys are teenagers. You're supposed to be running around, causing mayhem, being a little immature and having the time of your life. You're not supposed to be like, mature adults sipping mocha frappichinos (sp) and playing chess while discussing the theory of relativity or something.
So like I said, just go out, have fun, meet new people, make new friends ( especially guy friends ), and when the time comes for you to be interested in guys, it'll happen. Save the boyfriends for later whenever they're more meaningful and more mature.
I hope I helped.
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it's okay to not be interested yet. but in the meantime you still need to search around, talk to different guys, even if they aren't cute. because sometimes someones mind can completely take you away & make you never want to look at another guy again.
i promise that soon enough someone will come along & you'll see exactly how your other friends feel. just give it some time & have fun for now <3
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