k, so I got new naeighbors and well their kid or teenager came to my house and we talked for awhile but now scence we hang out he just wont leave me alone , I mean I like him and all but he gets annoying, what do I do???
you can avoid him and maybe he'll get the picture or tell him your always busy, or just start making excuess' not to hang out with him.
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Hey well lets start off here, I'm 14 in a month 15(going to be a freshman), and the guy I like is 18(just graduated highschool). I know its crazy, but the thing is he was the one to approach me. He didn't think I was my age because I guess I look older, but we still hung out and had fun, talked on the phone now and then and texted eachother all of the time. One night I snuck out to see him ... and we kissed, and had dry sex (i'm not a slut it was the firstime I did something like that with someone that wasn't my boyfreind ... well dry sex first time ever). So of course ... I started to like him, this went on a few more times, But whenever we would talk he would talk about the age difference and how young I am, he also told me not to tell anyone, that made me kinda sad... not like I would have anyways. The thing is he treated me really wel lwhen I was with him, and made it seem like he liked me by saying tons of little things. So it's like two months later, and I got like no attention from him, one night I needed to talk to him but he was in Vagas and had to go. So I started to give up which was going okay. Then last thursday I saw him agian, and he hugged me and totaly acted like things were normal agian, I'm so lost, and I like him too much to try to let him go, I'm not sure what to do and I know everyone will tell me to leve it alone, I honestly don't think thats helping or that I can, Ive also been having problems trying to exlplane it to him, I told him I liked him, what else do I say? Well thanks for you time, and help me if you can!
Alright girl this may not be something you want to hear but guys that are that age are sooo horny and the whole dont tell anyone, See older guy have a way of pressuring you into something you dont want to do, like they do it in a way that you dont notice that hes doing it. Believe me i've almost been caught up in that stuff but i got out soon enough. He could get into major trouble and he might just think that your young so you'll give it up more. I do think that you need to be done with him, Your going to be a frosh and there are SOOOOO many hot guys in high school. Seriously you'll have your hands full with guys! You'll forget about him. Also if the police would have caught you guys he could have been but into jail! Just watch what your getting yourself into... and if you really cared for him you'd let him go... so he didnt get into any trouble!
-holly-
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okay i wonna know, how to have a nice ass? WHAT should i do?/ RUN?? or something?
Go to like a gym and figure out what some good things to make your butt tighter... but to guys sometimes having a "nice ass" is being big... and whatever... but I dont understand why but whatever.
-holly-
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Theres one guy who changes mood's rapidly. He used to always be happy, now he's always mad, yet today he was happy. We used to like eachother, but never said anything. Point being, I still like the guy. I don't know if he likes me. I'm 19 he's 16. Sucks, yeah. But I love the guy. He's all I think about during the day. Even now..haha. Help? If I tell him, I know he'd laugh it off and act as if I'm joking. I don't really feel like talking about lovey shit, either.
Yeah I know a lot of guys with mood swings.. thats my question on guys still... I mean girls we've got the best excuess come on were girls... lol and guys they should be glad they dont have periods lol. Anyways off track back to your question... Ok I think you should talk to him not in a lovey way just be like yeah i use to like you laugh about that together talk about old memories then be like yeah I still kind of like you... and go from there. Good Luck
-holly-
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I'm 13 and I weigh 126 pounds. I would like to weigh 110, and I really need a way to know how I could lose just a few pounds. My friends know me as the big eater. I'm not fat, actually I look very thin, but my stomach is a little bigger than I'd like for it to be. Some1 please help!
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Sweetie your only 13... i'm sure the "bigger" stomach your see is still some what of your baby fat! Dont worry you shouldnt be worrying about your weight at this age!!! Go have fun with your friends... i'm a thin one too but i'm still a big eater!
-holly-
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ok, ive been together with my boyfriend,drew, for 14 months. its been great. this one girl tree that drew used to like has always been in the way. they are always talking n shit and drews friends used to tell me that he still likes her and shit. so id get jealous off and on. well tonight he tells me how he stayed online until 5am talking to tree. well i said how come u dont stay up with me. he could tell that i was jealous and he said why cant u accept that im best friends with her? i replied how can u be best friends? u never hang out. i doubt she looks at u as a best friend. well that was rude of me and he got all mad. he looks at me and says "There is something i have to tell you" and he tells me that tree told him a long time ago that she likes him. i knew it all along. should i be mad that he kept that from me for months and months when i knew it all along ?
Ok yeah i get jealous all the time when my "boyfriend" I guess you could call him would talk to these few girls. But did you tell him you knew he liked her? Cuz see he probably didnt want you to get mad at him and jump to conclusions and assume that he liked her. I'm sure he did it for your sake... Dont be mad just talk to him and ask him why he kept it from you. Good luck!
-holly-
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What do girls my age (14) like in us guys?
Ahhh i'm 15 so I can answer this pretty well... Well just like any age girls are always looking for a sweet guys. Guys that can always give you good compliments and tell you your gorgeous on your worst days. I know I like it when my boyfriend or the guy i like calls me just to tell me he missed me or called just to say he likes me. And also the biggest thing for me is a guy that isnt ashamed to be around me and will claim me as their girlfriend and be proud. Good luck!
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theres this boy thats one of my friends n we hang out all the time like wit other ppl n stuff wit us. n durin the day this boy is the BIGGEST asshole. but then when night time roles around hes all touchy feely n wantin me to flash him n we mess around. it doesnt bother me or nothin because i love sweet guys...n when hes sweet...hes sweet! should i still let him be an asshole n then mess wit him when he 'becomes' sweet?
NOOO dont let any guy be an asshole to you! Seriously no one should be treated like that. you should talk to him. he might just have major mood swings. talk to him and tell him how you feel and tell him hes being an asshole.
-holly-
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I've been having problems with my dad lately ... well now that I think about it i've always had these problems. Sense my parents got divorced when I was like one I've only seen him everyother weekend. I used to hate it and lately i've been wishing I'd never see him. He always seems busy, and when hes not he always seem to be judging people, and mostly me. He won't let me have certian piercing because he think they will make me a bad kid ... he honestly said that! He also said he'd be embarresed. I've just started to learn he doesnt realize im growing up, I just can't stand him sometimes, he makes thing seem like there always my fault, and I just feel really uncomertable around him, like I can't be myself, and he doesn't know me so hes always asking me questions about drugs and stuff, I just don't know what to do, ive tried to tell him not to judge me to get to know me, and i've told him im growing up and he needs to accept it, i evenasked him to respect me because he didn't act like it. And after he seemed like he felt bad, but it didnt last long. Any advise would help thanks aton!
Hey your dad does have a say in your life because he is your father, but he does need to loosen up a little bit. Also I think it depends on your age but there is a certian time in your life where you can say you dont want to go over there anymore, (my friend did it and she was only 15 when she picked to do this) But I may be wrong! Maybe you could talk to your mom and have her talk to your dad about it. Good luck
-holly-
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This question may sound dumb but what does it mean when a guy "pops your cherry" when you first have sex? I just want to know.
Please answer my answer and I will rate ya :)!
(14/f?
Theres a thing called the hymen and its like a layer of skin and sometimes NOT always will it "pop" or break or whatever you want to say, and when it does it sometimes bleed... So thats where the term popping your cherry comes from.
-holly-
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I know this question was asked not too long ago but what do guys prefer hair "down there" on a girl? Trimmed or shaved? But lets just say if I did shave all of it off lol, do I just have to shave it whenever it's growin back? This question is mostly to the girls so please help me out girls! I really want to know lol.
Ya know i've never heard of a guy that had a problem with a girl shaving. But most guys like it that i know of. Havnt heard any complaints yet. Yeah you just shave it when it comes back, but make sure its like not to short cuz that hurts sooo bad to shave! So make sure it grows out a little bit.
-holly-
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What happens if the person who made you cry is the only person who can make you stop?
You should talk to that person, and tell them your feelings. And if you dont feel comfortable go to the next best person, or like your mom or something. good luck hope things are alright
-holly-
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how do you know when a guy likes you ?
well each guy is different, but if a guy is flirty with you then that tends to mean he likes you, Or sometimes in my case guy tend to be rude to me then i find out they want to ask me out lol. Guys tend to stare a lot too.
-Holly-
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hey i no that this has been asked alot but i really want to no if i am overweight. i am a 13 yr old girl that is 5'7 or 5'8 and i weigh around 120-130. is this considered overweight or normal?
Oh no your not overweight! Your a tall girl! So dont worry about it!
-holly-
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I'm a virgin, 15 yrs old & totally in love with my boyfriend. We're both ready to have sex & the only issue I have on it is do you guys like hair 'down there'? I know some guys dont mind or & some guys really do. What do guys my age like? I dont want him to be disgusted when were about to have sex cause of my hair! He's not a virgin.
I'm not a guy but i've got a lot of guy friends, and I have never heard one guy tell me that he liked it. So i'd say get rid of it. Have fun and be safe! Good luck
-holly-
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okay..well theres this boy and its been like 2 months since he dumped me..and i just cant seem to get over him, i love him to death..and i miss him more then anything..but i wouldnt say that i was in love with him..but i guess we were pretty close..im trying my hardest to stop thinking about him..but its not all that easy..what should i do?
Well you could tell him how you feel and he still might feel the same way for you. Or you could get involved with other activitys, or find like a job or do some sports and you might find a cute attractive guy while doing that. That should totally keep you busy and keep your mind clear of this guy! Good luck
-holly-
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how do u get a better voice?
voice excersises, and get a trainer! Good luck
-holly-
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Ok i dont know what to do, im goin into 9th grade next year and ive been with this guy for 6 months, he took my virginity but ever since i said i didnt want 2 anymore he cheated on me and hes made up for it but its ruining me i cant stop loving him, but sometimes he also gets mad and verbally abuses me hes a lil shit head but hes more nice than he is mean..i love him, ive even lost friends 4 him, hes all i have anymore..help holly! :(
Aww hunny, no matter how nice he can be at time's hes just going to get worse! I know its really hard to break up with someone you like so much believe me i just had to recently do it because he cheated on me as well. You deserve way better! And I think when school starts you'll find a bunch of attractive guys... 9th grade is a big year and wow can you say hotties around every corner! :) But really you guys are so young and hes already cheating on you because you dont dish it out to him. That is so messed up! And remember this quote i'm going to tell ya... "Chicks before Dicks" Boyfriends come and go Friends stay forever. I think you need to talk to the lost friends and tell him your sorry for things! But sweetie I'm serious if you dont get out now its just going to get worse! He maybe nice at times but that doesnt make up for the rude things he says. Good luck and Keep me posted with this.
-holly-
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Ok, I talked to the guy online. Ive hade two coincidences where he seemed to like me. I was sitting there like "Everyone at school hates me..." And then he came up with "Well..I dont hate you." SO you know I was like frozen. So then later I was talking to him on AIM. I said my stepsister was like "Oh, now that I have my own friends, I wont hang out with you. I dont need you." He was like. "Oh.." And I was like "Yea." So then hes like "Well you can hang out with me." Is it just me or does he like me? You kinda have to know him to know the way he said it and they way he is. But, from what you know, what do u think?
I think he probably does like you but he might just be REALLY friendly :D. You should ask him be like so who do you like blah blah blah and what not ya know! Good luck
-holly-
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me and my bf have been goin out for 4 months and like ive kissed him numerous just on the cheek cuz im afraid if i kiss him on the lips he wont kiss me back and ive talked to him about it and he says he doesnt know why he told me he loves me-and i really think he means it and doesnt kiss me...he just doesnt...and hes kissed all his other gf....and i really REALLY do love him- *I RATE*
Maybe he wants to take it slow or something. I'm sure if you kiss him he'll kiss you back!! Got to take risks. Cuz if you dont you'll never know! Good luck!
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