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I need help figuring out wut i want for a screen name on AIM
my name is liz im 15 and i want something rebillous fun cute and sexxy....i was thinking of toxickiss or baby girl so i would just like some more ideas...
i love singing and music im in a beauty pageant um...i dont really play sports anymore however i use to figure skate i love reading
please help
ps
something hot fun and sexxy but also rebelious

lizwas-nothere
whereisliz
wantakissfromliz

Something like that.
I honestly hate people who use the 'xoxo' or 'xnamex' thing. It's overused, and it doesn't look good.
Stick to something more unique :)

Ask if you want anymore.
And sorry if you don't like them...I personally do :P

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Is there a way to send a whole file folder as an attachment to an email? I have a whole folder of pictures that I want to send and I really don't want to attach them all separately...

I use hotmail and AIM for email if that helps.

Thank you!

Nope.
It's not possible.
Most mail servers can't cope with people putting a folder full of documents or like 30 pictures.
Sorry.
The best thing to do is upload them on a website like:
www.photobucket.com
www.flickr.com

You can upload multiple pictures to photobucket and it can be accessed by everyone, or just the people you want to be able to see them.
It's a good way to manage photos.

:)

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Whats a good store to get band tshirts? I heard Hot Topic had those. But what kind of bands are they? I'm looking for bands like Nirvana, Hendrix, the Beatles, you know, older bands, not modern ones. What stores would have those? Thanks!

Loads at:
www.grindstore.com
www.pushposter.com
www.ebtm.com

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Last year, my mom said I could get my tragus pierced which was AMAZING I can't believe she let me do that what an awesome mother right?! LOL so anyways, it turns out I wasn't old enough to get it done so I had to wait till my next birthday, which is coming up in a month. And in that year of waiting i kind of changed my mind a little. I would absolutely love a nose piercing. for a couple of reasons 1. (not to sound like a narcissistic ego maniac) I have good bone structure in my face so a nose piercing would look good. 2. I've actually, no joke, had people say to me "you should get a nose piercing it would look so cute" and 3. You know in the Sex and the City movie where Carrie dyes her hair brown after Big leaves her at the wedding (sorry if i ruined it for anyone) because she wants to change and like not be herself anymore.. that's kinda what I want. I recently have been through a bad break up and it would just be awesome to get my nose pierced and I don't know why it would just make me feel better.

So anyways, what my question is I don't know how to confront my mom about the nose piercing.. I mean it's like a miracle that she let me get my tragus pierced I'm so thankful. I don't want to ruin it!

Please help! thanks a bunch

Tell her that you love the tragus piercing, but you're looking for an image improvement, and the nose piercing would do it.
Tell her that others have said it.
She will probably understand. She might hate facial piercings though...
Also, you can tell her that a nose piercing is easier to heal and to hide.
Tragus piercings tend to get infected if you use earphones a lot and such.
Also tell her that you asked for your boyfriend / best friend whether they thought that a tragus piercing looked good, and they said no. So you don't want to walk around with a piercing if people don't think it looks good on you.
:)

When you talk to her, be calm and relaxed. For fuck's sake, do not yell, get bitchy or stomp off. That will show her how immature you are.

If she says no, ask her to list reasons why, without being mad.

Like I wanted a industrial piercing at first, but I changed my mind and wanted a nose piercing(retired now)
I told my mom that the industrial would be v. dangerous for sports, and it takes long to heal. For the nose I could put in a small stud, and it'd be easy to hide.

It took her a while to consider it, but it worked.

Ask if you need any more reasons why you should be able to get a nose :)
Good luck!

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So I was wondring the other day, what ever happened to jojo? Like, the girl singer jojo? Is she going to come out with a new album soon, or is she done with the singing buisness?? I just wanna know, cause I like her music, I had just forgoten about her. Thanks for answering!

''She is currently working on her third album, All I Want Is Everything, which is set to be released in late 2008.''

this was on Wikipedia.
She did some acting in between.

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i just got my tongue pierced yesterday &; i was just wondering what to do &; what not to do. when can i change my long bar to a shorter one? i can't eat/talk right with the long one in. is alcohol-free mouthwash alright to use? salt water? also, i have this little tiny ring of whitish yellow discharge around the barbell at the bottom of my tongue. is this normal? OH! &; do you think it would be okay to drink?

1. Don't do sexual stuff, making out, smoking, alcohol and extreme eating.
2.You'll be able to change it to a shorter bar once the swelling goes down, and your tongue isn't as sore.
3.Alcohol-free mouthwash is good, Listerine can be too strong.
4.Salt water is also good, but make sure it's sea salt, and tastes like tears :)
5.The discharge is also normal, just put some mouthwash or saltwater solution on a q-tip. and clean around the barbell once or twice a day.
6. If you mean drinking as in alcohol, I really wouldn't recommend it over the first two weeks. I did that, and I got a bad infection :\

Good luck!

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well so i met this guy and i just moved to a new place and im going to a new high school and everything. im gonna be a sophmore. i used to live here so i still have some friends from when i was younger. anyway my friend introduced me to this guy and a few of us went to the movies and he kissed me. now since we barely knew each other we are getting to kno each other and stuff. the problem is i dont think i actually like HIM i just like the guy attention. a few months ago my bf and i broke up and now ive moved on but now that im single i really want guy attention. the guy acts like he likes me and we do flirt but i dont think i actually like him. i really dont think i like him i think i just like the attention. he says hes been thinking about me a lot and has even brought up us dating in the future but i dont kno what to do. if he only had a casual relationship would it be ok that i dont like him a lot? cause lots of people date people casually that they arent in serious like with. but i also dont think its a good idea to date someone before i even go to the school because i dont want people already making assumptions of me. the guy seems nice and genuine but im still not sure if he is. i have a hard time trusting guys. anyway thanks for your input!! :)

Well it's not the best idea to go out with someone if you're not sure.
I did that, and it ended badly.
I suggest hang out with him, get to know him and then make your decision.

If you try to get too much guy attention, some guys will think you're a slut, and that'll be shit.
You honestly don't want all the guys you know to think that you're a slut, cause you might get attention, but they'll be hoping to get into your pants...

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where can i get a tote bag? im just looking for a plain black one with maybe a little design on the front.

You could check out hot topic :)

Link:
http://search.hottopic.com/search?p=Q&ts=custom&lbc=hottopic&w=black+tote

:)

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This is kind of funny but is there a website where you can go to find out who has products cheaper than other stores? For example a certain type of shampoo from stores like target wal mart dollar general...etc? Thanks

http://www.ciao.com/

You could try this.
It was the best link I found.
Hope it helps? :)

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ok so I've been wearing make-up forever now and only recently my eyes have become super blood shot. They started doing that towards the end of the school year &+ now. I don't suppose I'm allergic or anything because my eyes didn't do that in the beginning or the middle of the year. I really don't know what it could be. My mom thinks it's my eyeliner (but we're not really sure) and she also wants me to stop wearing make-up altogether. So is there a way that I can still keep wearing eyeliner without it making my eyes blood shot? Maybe I should switch to a different eyeliner brand? or what? Does anyone have any suggestions?

thanks,
Michellemonster

Don't wear eyeliner for a couple of days, at all.
See if your eyes are less bloodshot then.

Another thing you could try is to buy a hypo-allergenic eyeliner.
That could solve the problem.

If these two don't work, go to an eye doctor :)

Good luck!

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I've been gauging my ears and I am currently 2g. I have the taper and plugs for 0g and all the rest of them have been easy but for some reason I can't get the 0g taper through my ear all the way so I can put the plug in! Advice? Help! I really want to get to 0g! And I'd prefer not to blow out or tear my lobes :/

I had the same problem from 4 to 2 to 0 gauge.
What I did was got PTFE tape, and added a layer to my 4ga plug every other day, and that got me to a two gauge. Then I repeated that to get to 0 gauge.

PTFE tape is available in most stores where they sell stuff like that, and also don't forget to clean your ears, and use lube :)

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I want to gauge my ears to something really small. like around a 10, 8 or 6. I don't really want it big (i think they look better small.) How would be the best way to go about doing this if my ears are at 20 right now?

I'm patient, I'm not in any hurry to get there overnight.


Explain in detail, links to websites/pictures are appreciated :)

http://www.bmezine.com/pierce/01-ear/bme-pg01-exp-s8-001.html

Read some experiences.

Basically, do what the person below me said, but don't put in another size whilst your ears are still sore.
That can cause tearing and infections, and honestly, you don't want that.
Whilst gauging, clean your ears at least once a day with lukewarm water and sea salt mix (should taste like tears)

Happy gauging :D

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Ok, so next year I will be a freshman in highschool. Scary right? ha ha well, I really want to change before so that when I walk in, it's like "Woah! you've changed so much!". I know it's a bit early to start thinking about the first day of school, but if something goes wrong, i'd rather have enough time to fix it :). Anyways, basically, I just want to alter my appearance. Does any one have any suggestions? I don't know where to start... I'll post a pic of me:

http://i240.photobucket.com/albums/ff196/hitoast/002.jpg
(sorry 'bout the silly smile :3 i'm a dork)

and if you can't see it, my eyes are smokey blue/gray-ish and my hair is light brown with blond highlights :) if that helps at all.

Thanks a lot!

You're really pretty :)
I think you should just get a new haircut, maybe with more layers.
Maybe something like this? http://z.about.com/d/beauty/1/0/8/E/Oval5.JPG
Also for a change every now and then curl it or scrunch it.
You could shop at some different stores, and change the type of clothes you wear, but remember, don't wear things you're not comfortable in, and still keep you in your clothes (so for instance if you wear converse, jeans and a t-shirt now(I don't know what you wear) and you suddenly start wearing mini skirts, pink blouses and heels then there's no you in your clothing.
Sorry if that doesn't make much sense.
You could also wear makeup, not too much, but some
:)

Good luck next year in school!

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Do you have to have a certain type of tongue to get it pierced? I want mine pierced but my tongue is pretty short, like I can't stick it out that far. Would that be a problem?? Thanks~

It depends where you want it pierced.
If you want it towards the front, it'll probably be ok, but if you want it in the center or back then the piercer will have to check it.
Go to a reputable piercing studio and ask a piercer to check your tongue out :)

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Is there a website/search engine of sorts out there, that lists cover songs by artist or title?

I love listening to different versions of songs, and would like an easier way to find them.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_cover_songs#R

I found this.
Maybe it's a bit of help?

:)

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14/ female.


okayyyy, so me and my friend like six months ago smoked a blunt at my house and took pictures doing it.. i know dumb idea, lol. so yesterday she saw them on her photobucket and decided to put them on her myspace. well, my brother has her as a friend and he saw the pics of me and her, and he copied the pic and sent it to my mom!

so my mom told my dad to loook at my friends myspace, but me and her had deleted it, but we didnt notice it was on her album cover, soooooooo we got screwed.


my mom had a talk with me and told me that she was upset and hurt that i did that but that she wasnt mad, but i did have to be grounded. ):

it wouldnt bother me much to be grounded but at the moment it does, cause the guy i like is gonna leave to Jersy in 8 days, and i wanna see him before he leaves, and now since im grounded idk how im gonna do that.

so, can you help?
how can i get my parents to unground me asap?!
and/or how can i do it to see this guy before he leaves even if im grounded?!


thanks so much!!!!


p.s NO im not a druggy or none of that, im a goooood students and i behave very well (:

Ohh that must be shit :(

Well one thing you could try, is calmly explain to your parents that those pictures were from six months ago, and it was the first and last time you'd smoked a blunt.
Then tell them that a good guy friend is leaving, and you'd like to see him before he goes, so ask them if they'll let you out for like 5 hours. But just once. The rest of the time you still stay grounded.

Don't get mad, or yell at them, or stomp away.
Be calm and mature, and maybe they will understand :)

Goodluck!

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Ok I really really REALLY want an emo boyfriend but how do I get them 2 notice me, I'm already emo but its just I don't know how 2 talk 2 one and they don't come 2 me so how do I get them 2 come 2 me if I'm alreadly emo

I agree with the person below me.
You make it sound like you want an 'emo' boyfriend because it's 'cool'.
So just cause he's emo, that makes him an amazing person with a great personality?
And the fact that you're emo doesn't mean that you're guaranteed to a emo boyfriend.
I suggest being yourself, talking to them and so on.
Stop making it sound like he's gonna be an accessory.


And if you say that you're already emo, do you mean physically, or mentally.
Emo isn't just skinny jeans, depressing music and suicide you know?

Think about this.

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how do i put in a contact buttons like message me comment me

http://myspace-crash-codes.com/blog/codes/myspace-contact-links

:)

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how do you make words on myspace underlined

texthere

for more codes like this:

http://www.graphicsarcade.com/myspace/codes/text_codes.shtml

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My sixteenth birthday is coming up in like a month. I am going to have a pool party at my house. I want something extra. I wanted one of those Sumo Wrestling moon bounce things, but one of my friends already had that so I need a new idea. It can be renting something, but it can also just be a really fun activity to do. Like one year I had a Tie Dye station and everyone made a tie dye shirt. Give any idea you have.

Also, if anyone can and should suggest just good ideas for everything in the party. Food, music, games, decorations, play things, ect.

Well my friend had a pool party last week, and he had the best idea ever.
He got two surfboards, some inflatable mattresses or whatever they are and some wakeboards, put them all over the pool, and we had competitions who could spend the longest jumping from one object to another or trying to get from one side to the other.
:D
We filmed it and it was so funny.
So that's one thing you could try.
Generally, the people before me had good ideas already :)

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