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i cant say my r's and everybody makes fun of me for it i mean i already think im ugly and i cant say my r's and i have a new york accent which makes it worse.. how can i get people to stop mocking me??

I use to not be able to say my R's when I was little so I went to speech, and the lady helped me out and many other people too! Just go there! =D And don't listen to those other people who make fun of you! They're just rude, they'll grow up sooner or later! But, for now try to ignore them and then they'll get the hint you don't care! And they'll leave you alone. Hope this helps, if you still need to talk about it or anything, just post a message in my inbox!

xoxo Kourtney

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i have been single for like 5 months and i feel really lonley i dont like anybody now but when i do i feel like they are not gonna like me back i mean i dont put my pic on my advice column cuz i feel like people are gonna be like "wow shes ugly she needs to take that off" what do i do??

So what if you've been single for awhile! You'll find him! I'm sure guys like you, just afraid to tell you, because we all know how stubborn they can be sometimes lol. I'm sure you're pretty. I wouldn't worry about what other people thought of you. I've had rude comments in my feedback (my ratings), someone told me I couldn't ever get a guy lol. I just learn to ignore it. You just move on, don't listen to them! Just put your picture up hun! Don't be shy! lol

xoxo Kourtney

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i have and incredibly small penis my friends call me my friends call me teni weni (my last name is valenTINI)my girlfriend went dowm my pants and she asked wheres ur penis and the looked and laughed and left my house
how can i get her back?
i love her

Your girlfriend shouldn't care about how big it is. She should love you just the way you are. She's shallow for laughing at you and walking out. Wait for the girl who won't care! So forget about that girl and try to move on and find a girl that will treat you right!

xoxo Kourtney

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Tomorrow
is just another day

Tomorrow
isn't eternity

Tomorrow
is like a magic eight ball
holding its decisions in

Tomorrow
sad, yet, true

Tomorrow
will be wasted on you

Tomorrow
has a heart, feelings too
it is the exact opposite of you

Tomorrow
is cushioned, but firm

Tomorrow
is a dream gone
over the edge

Tomorrow
sad, yet, true

Tomorrow
is the day, i'm finally over
- you -

By: Rachel Knack


is that a good poem?
i am rachel and i wrote it, but
i'd like to give it to
my best guy friend cuz that is how i feel about
or relationship at this point. cuz we got in ANOTHER fight last night (7/29) and like, he is just being this big ass... he was talkin shit about me and i asked him about it and he was like, i don't want to do this anymore.. no! and i was like well... geez.. and he blocked my screen name.. and yah. He was sayin, no! don't tell her, you'll release the inner beast in her and all this shit!! and i dunno what to do....

Please HelP!!

I think that is a great poem! I really like it! And I'm sure many people can relate to, at one point in my life I went through that. I just really like that poem! You did a great job on it. You should keep writting! And for you boy problem, if you need any help, just post a message in my inbox, I'll try and help you out!

xoxo Kourtney

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On my advice column it doesnt show my average ratings even though i have been rated. Could someone help me figure out the problem?? thanks a bunch! Twizzler

You have to rated I think like 5 times for it to show up, but mine took awhile for some reason too. Give it a day or so for it to show it. Hope this helps!

xoxo Kourtney

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heyy i just got my first bf about a month ago but i broke up with him in lyk 4 days! i did not feel lyk i was ready for a relationship and even though my parents said it was ok i knew that they were not thrilled about it! He got mad at me a i felt really bad! What do i do not?

P.S. I am goin to a party later this week and ik he is goin to be there idk what to say to himeven though he knows my reason for brekin up with him! plz help me!!

Hey! You should try talking to him and just being like "I'm sorry I broke up with you, please don't be mad at me, its just I don't think I'm ready to have a relationship right now." And just talk to him like you would with a friend, just hold a conversation with him. But if you are ready to have a relationship, tell him that you are and that you're sorry you weren't before. Just tell him why you broke up with him in the first place and that you're sorry and that you just weren't ready it wasn't the right time. Hope this helps and good luck. If you still need help, just post a message in my inbox! Good luck.

xoxo Kourtney

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How do you get a picture on the side of your column?? Please help me out if you can! Thanx!
-J. Fitz

Save your picture to your computer (make sure its 15k) and then go to where it says Welcome, ________! then go down to profile settings, and scroll down to where it says Upload a picture of you, and then hit browse, find your picture, and double click on it and then it'll be in the Upload a picture of you and then scroll all the way down and hit submit! Hope I explained that well enough! =D

xoxo Kourtney

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okay so, i have an inny penis, and my girlfriend wants to get into my pants, i do not want her to be disapointed with my problem, what should i do?

If she really likes/loves you, she won't care! Some girls are different though, some like smaller some like bigger. But, you would rather be with a girl that doesn't care, she should accept you for you. You can't help if your big or not big. You can always try talking to her about it too, just be like "I don't want you to be disappointed but I'm not that big" or just say something like that. Hope this helps, if you still need help, just post a message in my inbox!

xoxo Kourtney

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ok...my boyfriend isnt that great of a kisser. hes not bad, hes just not...great lol. should i just let things move along and see if he gets better at it or like...i dunno? lol, advie please!

Let things move along. Maybe he's not too experienced with kissing. Show him some new techniques and practice makes perfect.. right? Just let him follow what you're doing and show him some new stuff, and he'll soon get better! Good luck, hope this helped!

xoxo Kourtney

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Me and my girlfriend have been goin out for 2 weeks but last night she wanted to fuck but my dick was monsterous she changed her mind and left, how do i fix this problem?? The bigger the better right?

Girls are different when it comes to how big the dick is. But, you've guys have only been going out for 2 weeks, maybe she freaked out when you two were about to have sex because she's not ready to have sex with you yet, I mean its only 2 weeks. Give it some time before you two have sex. Try talking to her and being like "How come you freaked out on me? Is something wrong? Are you not ready? Because if you're not, then I can wait til you're ready." Just make her feel comfortable and ask her what her deal was. Hope this helps!!

xoxo Kourtney

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when i tt my boyfriend my stomack flips like when your going down a rollarcoaster it feels really weird is it love?

You may be in LOOOOVE!! =D Its the best feeling in the world! You'll know you're in love, you won't think twice about it! =D

xoxo Kourtney

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I went out with this guy. I knew he was a player and stuff. and a lot of grls liked him. But he liked me and asked me out. So about the first 3 days we were together he kissed another grl. but when i told him i didnt no if i want 2 b with him he threatened to kill himself. so i stayed with him.. later i found out that he fingered a grl and made out with her. but i still liked him a lot. Was i wrong for staying with him after the first tyme? am i worng for being his friend?

I've gone out with a player before =/, but he never did that to me. Its not wrong to be his friend! You're being nice and being his friend. But the whole "I'll kill myself" speech, is just for you to stay with them, don't always fall for it. But, I would break up with him, because I mean the first time he messed up, you forgave him and gave him another shot, the second time he did it worse, now I think you should break up with him. He'll only hurt you more and when you get hurt, it REALLY hurts! Just tell him something like "I just dont think this is working out between me and you, I think we should just be friends." Don't say something like "I gave you another shot, blah blah blah..." Because then he'll think of an excuse for you to stay with him again and then he'll do the samething to you. He just needs to grow up and get passed the whole player thing. You deserve better! Hope this helps! If you still need help, just post a message in my inbox!

xoxo Kourtney

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I have been seeing my BF for about 3 months now. I guess I should start off by saying I am 22 (almost) and have had nothing but really horible relationships. I just moved to GA in Feb and I found my current BF. He absoulty wonderful. I have always told past BF I love them. Being with this new guy has be amazing..even for 3 months. I am happier than I have ever been. I didnt know that people like him were really out there. My question is, do you think its too early for me to be in love with him. If not how do I tell him. (he already told me he's falling for me..(he didnt say the L word though) I just dont want to freak him out to bad, only cause of the short time period we have known each other. Please help...Thanks a Bunch xoxoxoxoxoxoxo
Christin

You're N.E.V.E.R. too young to fall in love. Yea, its only been 3 months, but thats okay! You can't control who you love, your heart does. And maybe he's thinking the samething you are, he doesn't want to freak you out by saying he loves you, because he seems like a great guy, so maybe he doesn't think you're ready to say it quit yet. Try talking to him and just being like "I know we've only known each other for 3 months, but you make me so happy, I've always had horrible relationships, but this relationship that I'm in right now with you, has been great, you always make me smile. You've told me you're falling for me and I know its only been 3 months, and I don't know how you feel and I'm not sure if you're ready or not to say it, but I do love you, and if you're not in love with me, then we can wait to say it til you're ready!" Just say something like that. Don't say exactly what I said lol, but whatever you heart tells you to say, say that! If you still need help with this, just leave a message in my inbox! Hope this helps and good luck hun!

xoxo Kourtney

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my friend moved out of town and i talked to her friend (boy)and hes really nice and he sent me a picture and hes really hott!!! hehe is it a bad idea to go out with him? cuz he likes me and i like him!
((hopeless))

I don't see anything wrong with it, UNLESS he's going out with your friend or something. But, if he's not then go for it! You both like each other, so whats the problem!? lol. Meet up somewhere so you two can meet in person. And then ask him "So...is there any chance for me and you hooking up?" And then see what he says. Just ask him to go to the movies or the mall or somewhere fun wherever you live so you two can meet!! =D

xoxo Kourtney

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what does s.o.s mean cuz people go i love s.o.s

Some.One.Special. Meaning he/she loves someone special and they don't want to tell anyone. =D

xoxo Kourtney

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my best friend has changed soo much since last year.. her brothers are stoners and drunks and now she is starting to smoke and she also drinks some.. and i love her dearly and i dont kno what to do i try to talk to her but i am afraid shell get mad at me or something, somebody please help me!!!!

Try writting her a letter and saying how you feel about this whole situation. Just be like "You're my best friend, so I'm ALWAYS going to be looking out for you, I'm not trying to be your mom, or preaching to you, I'm trying to talk to my best friend and helping her out. But, you've changed so much from last year, I mean you're drinking now and smoking! You can get into a lot of trouble doing that, and I for one don't want you to because your my best friend. You have a lot of things ahead of you, don't ruin it by smoking and drinking. I don't want you to get addicted to it because that would be really bad...." Just say something like that just keep going on about how you feel and how you want her to stop and that if she needs help with that, that you'll be there to help her out. You can write that in a letter or sit her down and talk to her about it. Hope this helps and good luck! If you need anymore help, just leave a message in my inbox.

xoxo Kourtney

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I usually give advice-but i have never been to highschool-so i need advice about this
I'm going to Highschool this year(as a freshmen). Does anyone have tips on what to do and what not to do or what to expect! I would really appreciate it! Thanx
Twizzler

Thats how I was, I remember before High School even started, I said I wanted to be home schooled because I was so afraid lol. But, once I got there, I was totally fine. Just imagine it as Jr. High, its exactly that, just except well BIGGER and TONS more people. Thats the great thing about high school, you meet a new person like EVERYDAY! Its great. You meet tons of new friends. All you really have to do is just act yourself and be outgoing. Try talking to the people around you and hold a conversation, try doing that in all your classes. And when you get your schedule, compare them with your friends, so you know which classes you have with them, and then on the first day you can meet up with them so you know where to go for your classes (which isn't too hard to find, I mean I'm blonde and I found my classes fine lol). The only thing I can think of, of what NOT To do is act like your in 8th grade and pulling all those stunts off. Like, throwing pencils up on the ceiling, REALLY dumb lol. Yea, people in my classes did that lol. But, thats all I can think of. You'll be fine and just have fun, take lots of pictures too! lol. Hope this made you feel better =D

xoxo Kourtney

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if a girl was short and skinny nice bod and hott would you wanna go out with her? me and my buddy are fighting over this thing...plz answer

I'm a girl and I only look at guys lol, but if I was that girl I would want you to like me for me. But, don't just go out with a girl you think is just hot and has a perfect body. Go out with her because you like her personality and just everything about her. Don't judge her by her looks. She can't help that she's short and skinny. Like her for her! Hope this helps!

xoxo Kourtney

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cscottjr39@hotmail.com

geez I hate when people do that, I've had some rude comments in my feedback too. Its like geez I'm sorry, I was just trying to help you know! lol. Just ignore them hun! I'm sure you give great advice!!

xoxo Kourtney

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I was talkin to my ex boyfriend( who i still love way to much!!) and he sed he didn't really like me anymore..i would do anything to be with him again but what should i say to make him love me back..cuz i really would do anything to be with him again..please help me

You can't really make someone love you. But, I will *try* to help you, because I know how much that must hurt! =( You can try flirting with him and stuff. But definnatly try talking to him. Write him a note, talk to him on AIM, face-to-face, on the phone, anything that you'll feel comfortable with. Just be like "I know you told me you don't like me anymore, but do you really mean it, I mean I really like you I mean I LOVE YOU still, and I would do anything for you, you made me so happy, and I just really want to know if you really dont like me anymore..." Just say something like that and how you feel about him and stuff. Hope this helps and good luck hun tell me how it goes!! If you need help, just post a message in my inbox!

xoxo Kourtney

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