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first bf
heyy i just got my first bf about a month ago but i broke up with him in lyk 4 days! i did not feel lyk i was ready for a relationship and even though my parents said it was ok i knew that they were not thrilled about it! He got mad at me a i felt really bad! What do i do not?
P.S. I am goin to a party later this week and ik he is goin to be there idk what to say to himeven though he knows my reason for brekin up with him! plz help me!!
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How old are you? If he already knows the reason for the break up, maybe you could explain it to him again to reassure him that its not him. Hang out with him as a friend. Then you can understand why he got upset. Maybe it is because he really likes you, or maybe he is upset because of a sex realted issue. Guys will feel inadequate if they arent able to go to "3rd base" . If this is the case then he is not worth it. Also, i would hope your parents are understanding of your desicion. Talk to them, maybe they can give you advice. Only YOU know YOU..and if you are not ready, then you are not ready. You make that call. No one else
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Hey! You should try talking to him and just being like "I'm sorry I broke up with you, please don't be mad at me, its just I don't think I'm ready to have a relationship right now." And just talk to him like you would with a friend, just hold a conversation with him. But if you are ready to have a relationship, tell him that you are and that you're sorry you weren't before. Just tell him why you broke up with him in the first place and that you're sorry and that you just weren't ready it wasn't the right time. Hope this helps and good luck. If you still need help, just post a message in my inbox! Good luck.
xoxo Kourtney
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Talk to him, 'n if you're ready to have a relationship at that time, then ask him out again.If he still acts all mad 'n stuff, then leave him, he doesn't deserve you.Hope I helped,'n Good Luck~*rate*
-tori
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Well it all depend on if u want a relationship , if u like him , and if u think ur ready but if ur not just give it some time and ask him out again if ur ready !
I hope that everything works out 4 u! :)
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well you should talk to him and tell him how you feel... and tell him that you want to be friends... if he gives u attitude and acts mean then forget him...
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well if you werent ready to be in a relationship then you werent ready. its good that you trust your inner instict, it will help you alot more in the future. and as for seeing your ex at the party, just be like whats up? small talk, nothing serious. and if you feel really uncomfortable talking to him then dont.
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first of all, how old are you? if it didnt feel right then thats okay, your growing up and your going through many changing, this is going to happen a lot! at the party try to get along with him and just talk, be good friends before you go out. youll feel more confortable then, thats what works for me! give it a try, wont hurt anybody! I hope it helped out! -Jackie
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jus tlk 2 him n b his friend!! maybe in time ull be ready for a relationship n yall can try again!! remember at least it shows he cares if he was mad! jus wait till ur ready n try 2 b friends w. him
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