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♥[?]♥ okay, this guy likes me, i mean really really likes me, and i am crazy fro him too, and we have a history. but anyways. he told my friend he really really likes me (we are a big group of friends...lol) and that he doesnt want to give me the impression he doesnt liek me cuz he does. but he's not ready for a relationship right now. but when he's ready he'll ask me out. and i think that i know why he isnt ready, and it's cuz of my freind (now ex-freind) who caused him to break up with me once and and then flirted around with him, just cuz she liked the attention, she didnt care a thing about him, and he ask her out and she laughed in his face and told him no. so, yeah, i think that may be why. but i dont know

so my questions are what does he mean by he's not ready for a relationship and what shoudl i do abotu what my friend did, cuz it realyl makes me mad that she would play with his head like that (even tho it was like a yr ago.)

any one have any ideas?

I RATE!!!

PeRhaps he is saying that he's "not Ready foR a Relationship" because he Really *DOES* like you, but he may just need some time to fully exploRe all of his options and make the best choices. And as faR as what youR fRiend did.. I wouldn't do anything about it; because what CAN ya do, ya know? It's in the past.. damage done. Just tRy to move on and shake it off; no biggie. I wish you the veRy best of luck!! Hope I helped!! =D

♥[?]♥ How can i make my ex like me again, they told me they loved me once and now they basically ignore me. What can i do?

Well fiRst.. ask youRself.. is it HIM I want.. oR is it just the feeling of being in a Relationship that I want??? Don't take it just because it's theRe.. take it because you actually WANT it!! And I suppose it just depends on how it ended, but whateveR you did the fiRst time.. you must have done it Right, so do it again!! I wish you the veRy best of luck!! Hope I helped!! =D

♥[?]♥ hi ppl . ok well heres my problem . im not bragging or nethng but i think im pretty & hav a good personality but my one thing is , i hav NEVER had a boyfriend . and im 14 . its bothering me b/c all of my friends can get them , and i cant . i talk to guys all the time and im being myself , but it isnt working . nothing is working . i dono what to do nemore . any tips

PeRhaps you haven't shown these guys you'Re inteRested! FoR that... just do whateveR it takes; "fliRt", as they call it. And why the hell not... just ask 'em out on a date.. just go foR it! Goodluck! Hope I helped!!

♥[?]♥ Who here has a friend (including family member) who has had depression?
This includes the full spectrum of things such as: aenorexia, bulemia, traumatic abuse disorder, manic depression (bipolar).
I believe it is important to educate youth about this stuff because more than 25 percent of people will be disabled for some time of their life with depression!
Thanx!

I don't Really believe theRe is such a thing as depRession. I think yeah.. life is haRd, and way woRse foR some oveR otheRs, but it's just the way the cookie cRumbles and we have to gRin and beaR it. Then we oveRcome it, use it as a leaRning expeRience, and move on as a stRongeR individual. But yeah.. I DO know some people that aRe on medication foR it..

♥[?]♥ Hey. i have a huge problem. see my step cousin that actully has no blood relation to me is actully the perfect guy for me. he wants to be with me and i want to be with him, do you think that is incesed since there is no blood relation to us since it is all by marriage. i mean i really have always had feelings for him even b4 his mom and my uncle met. is it wronge to be in love with this guy please help. I rate!!!!

Uhm, well since you'Re not blood Related... peRhaps it's not FULL incest.. but family is family, my fRiend! I can see HOW you'd fall foR him... but, it's pRobably NOT a good idea! I would Recommend it!! WhateveR you decide to do; I wish you the best of luck!! =D

♥[?]♥ Okay well this guy saw my picture in my advice column and started saying I was fat and shit and I was ugly...and well I don't know what I did to him...now I just feel like dying I wrote him back a message and I freaked out after him but not that badly I didn't swear to much well not like f*** or shit like that and well I just feel like dying man it's not my fault I'm fat god I got far with my life like I play pro junior basket ball for my height and force and now he calls me fat I feel so bad...I'mm putting myself down and I hate it...I wanna die can ne one help me??

Tell him to shut his fucking piehole -- he's pRobably woRse off! You Really shouldn't let RetaRds get to you like that; don't give them the satisfaction!! I'm shoRe you'Re goRgeous!! [AiM: SiMPLY x GiRL] if you'd eveR like to talk!! I'll be heRe foR you!! Take caRe!!

♥[?]♥ My sister always likes going swimming with me and my dad. I find it fun too! But the thing is she's been planning it since last Sunday for her me and my dad to go Swimming today. But when I went to the bathroom this morning, I found out that I have my period. So I told my mom that I couldn't go swimming. But then when we were driving home from Church today, my sister brought up the subject, and my mom said that I couldn't go. She kept on asking and asking why I couldn't go and we told her because I can't. So now she's really mad at me. She's only 9 and doesn't know about periods and stuff so she's really mad at me. I feel really bad. I wish she was a little older so that she could know. So now I feel really guilty. What should I do?

Tell heR you huRt youR knee.. then take heR out foR a sundae!! =D

♥[?]♥ I know this is random but does anyone have the link to the purity test (having trouble finding it on quizilla) Thanks

ScRew Quizilla! Go to http://www.thespark.com They have the BEST tests!! A puRity one can be found theRe!! To top it off.. those quizzes aRe LOADED with humoR!! You'll LOVE it!! TRust me on this one!! Hope I helped!! =D

♥[?]♥ ok.....ive liked this boy for awile now and i think he was starting to like me but im not sure and now this really hot new boy came to our school and im really starting to like him ALOT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! but i have told my friends that ive liked this other boy for awile now and now ive told them that i really like this new kid and to make matters worse this girl that i told her i like him now"all of usudden" she loves him now and she wants to go out with him?????
wat do i do?
13 female

Well, you COULD do anything you want. You don't owe ANYONE ANYTHING! You need to do what makes YOU happie; that's all you need to woRRie about. HoweveR, if you want MY opinion, I say you should go foR the 'fiRst guy', I guess. "This Really hot new boy" is going to have giRls all oveR him... don't botheR. Besides, why would you give up a good thing you ALREADY HAVE foR something that MIGHT woRk out.. but with complications. I wish you the best! Hope I helped!!

♥[?]♥ ok well im 14 and a girl and ive been goin out w/ this boy for awhile now and i love him more than anything and hes so awesome and nice to me and cracks me up all the time!!!! but he has this friend logan that keeps talkin to me and like every1 knows he likes me and i like him but just as a friend!! just as a friend!!! hes so freakin halarious and is funny but sometimes he talks to me infront of my bf and i think my bf is startin to think i like logan more than him but i dont and i cant be mean and tell logan hey stop hangin out w/ me u kno!!! i mean i dont wanna make my boifriend mad at me cuz i like him more than any1 ever and then i also cant be mean to my friend logan wat the hell do i do im so confused this sucks!!!! plz help plz help!!!

Just talk to youR boyfRiend about it. ReassuRe him that he's the only one foR you, and you don't need oR want anybody else. If you STILL sense he feels like you and Logan may have something between you two, just one day stRike up a conveRsation to Logan about how much youR boyfRiend means to you, oR think back on a memoRy you could shaRe with him... to get the point acRoss how much he means to you; he'll undeRstand. Best wishes! Hope I helped!

♥[?]♥ hey does anyone know where i can get backgrounds for my website if u do please tell me some websites thanks

Well, AdvicenatoRs offeRs fRee backgRounds now: http://www.advicenators.com/backgrounds.php But, what I do is.. go to http://www.google.com and seaRch undeR "FRee Website BackgRound Images" -- Tons of pages come up, so you'll have TONS to choose fRom!! Goodluck; hope I helped!! =D

♥[?]♥ Whats a G spot and how do you find it?

The G-Spot is a bean shaped mass of neRve tissue located about halfway between the back of the pubic bone and the top of the ceRvix. The G-Spot is the focal point of the female sexual aRousal. The size and location of the G-Spot will vaRy fRom woman to woman, but it's usually about the size of a quaRteR, and lies two to thRee inches inside the vagina diRectly behind the pubic bone. To find it, inseRt fingeRs.... RIGHT afteR afteR the pubic bone, cuRve youR fineR upwaRds [so you'Re making the "come heRe" motion, ya know?] Just feel aRound in that aRea. You'll know you've found it if it's a tiny aRea with a diffeRent textuRe. It's slightly bumpy.. it's just a bit moRe Rough than the Rest of the insides. Goodluck; hopefully this makes sense to you! Hope I helped!!

♥[?]♥ okay well last night me and a bunch of friends were at the mall and we were just hanging out and this kid i thank i kinda like was there we were hanging out and stuff and i guess you could say we were "flirting" and 3 of my friends came up to me at the mal and were like he likes you you should go out w/ him hes really pretty you should but i really dont know if he likes me or not and im not to sure if i want a boyfriend rite now im so confused

Well obviously.. if you don't want a boyfRiend.. DON'T go foR it!! Find out if he likes you.. wait awhile foR HIM to make the fiRst move, and I say this only because it will give you time to decide whetheR you infact WANT a boyfRiend oR NOT! HoweveR, if you decide befoRe he makes his move, then you should go foR it!! Be bold; talke a risk!!! Goodluck!! Hope I helped!! =D

♥[?]♥ i am sort of new to this site and i was wondering if u could add me to your favorite comnists my name is way2inluvwitu .. thanks

Hey!! ShoRe; you'll do the same foR me, Right??? =D

♥[?]♥ what kind of eyeliner do u use?
Do you know what kind of eyeliner I can use without it always coming off and all over my eyes?!

OH and can you add me to your favorite colomnists?
http://www.advicenators.com/column.php?u=Mizroxy5

Thanx

Hey!! Yeah, I'll add you to my "FavoRite Columnist" List; you'll do the same foR me Right?? And as foR eyelineR... when it comes to liquid oR pencil, it's just a peRsonal pRefeRence. HoweveR, if you ask... MOST people will tell you that pencil is a betteR choice. It's a gReat staRt foR a beginneR who is just getting used to it. If you mess up, pencil is A WHOLE LOT easieR to clean up and Re-do than liquid would be. And if you plan on caRRying it aRound in a puRse oR pocket.. theRe's a chance that the liquid may Ruin. And now foR the pRoducts... peRsonally, I think the two best bRands of eyelineR out theRe aRe "MeRyl NoRman" and "Beautique". "MeRyl NoRman", which can only be puRchased at "The MeRyl NoRman Cosmetic Studios", is pRicey [typically $8.50 - $15.00], but it REALLY IS good stuff. It goes on wondeRfully, and stays on all day!!! On the otheR hand... I happen to think that "Beautique" is INCREDIBLE, howeveR, I've ONLY seen "Beautique" at "Sally's". And "Beautique" is only .99 cents. TRUST ME.. I would NEVER EVER EVER buy cRap make up!!! I get only the best, so please, please, please, please DON'T let this dollaR pRice thRow you off - you'd be cheating youRself out of the best pRoduct out theRe!! I'd PREFER "Beautique" out of ANY otheR bRand of eyelineR!! I could easily go out and buy a $15.00 pencil, but I'd RATHER get "Beautique"! "Beautique" glides on smoothly and REALLY LASTS ALLLLL DAY!!! I CAN NOT pRomote this item enough!! And if you still have doubts... foR only .99 cents.. it's woRth a shot!! Goodluck!! Thanks so much foR the question!!! Hope I helped!! =D

♥[?]♥ Me n my bfz 1 year iz in october but so iz his birthday so im tryna start to save up sum money to get him sumtin but i dont only wanna get him sumtin i wanna like make him sumtin really nice and cute n e ideas?!?!?!?!??!

hmmm....

K, well I have a bunch of suggestions: You could make him a nice meal: chicken paramesan, with a nice fResh tossed salad and sundaes foR desseRt! You could play some soft music.. maybe some light Italian OpeRa, oR some natuRal sounds, such as the waves cRashing on the shoRe. And candles on the table will definitely set the mood!! OR if this is not possible, make it a picnic! BRing a blanket and some music to the paRk and sit undeR a nice shady tRee. It's simple meal pRepaRation also; just pack a picnic basket with nice tuRkey sandwiches on sliced white bRead, with some gRapes, pRetzels, and twinkies [something along those lines]! And be shoRe to bRing an extRa loaf of bRead to feed the duckies with; aww, that'd be cute!!! You'll impRess him VERY MUCH with EITHER ONE of these ideas! And as faR as getting him something... a watch would be a gReat gift!! OR a leatheR jacket would be veRy appRopRiate!! Also, a hat, a wallet, a video game... those aRe all fantastic ideas too. If possible; make a photo album; woRds can't expRess how much photoalbums mean to us!! WhateveR you do.. I'm shoRe he'll be thRilled!! RemembeR to take pictuRes of the day if you do a photoalbum, then as soon as the film is developed, and you can finsh off the book with it; a RemembRance of the past yeaR!! I wish you the veRy best of luck!! Hope I helped! And CongRatulations on youR one yeaR togetheR!!!

♥[?]♥ Ok, whats 1st, 2nd, and 3rd base. I mean I know what they are but I forgot which ones which, help? lol

*FIRST BASE: Kissing. *SECOND BASE: Mutual MastuRbation. THIRD BASE: ORal Sex. HOME PLATE: All The Way [ScoRed] Hope I helped!!

♥[?]♥ Ok there is a guy a like aand he thinks I'm cute and he and his friend asked if my friend and I wanted to go swimming and we said yes. But should I change my mind? I'm scared because what I fall or trip or something.

Sincerely,
CameronLover1

Aww don't woRRie about that! Just go with the flow and have fun! If you'Re THAT woRRied, just be awaRe of youR suRRoundings; things will be fine, I pRomise!! Hope I helped!!

♥[?]♥ whats a wigger?

Someone who acts black; a "Wannabe NiggeR" Hope I helped =D

♥[?]♥ Does neone know where to get some surveys on the internet? and dont give me quizilla.com cuz i dont really like that website.. soo if neone could give me sum ill rate you a 5 for answering! thanks!

K, well this isn't a suRvey site.. it's a test site - to find out how big of a bitch you aRe, how big of a slut you aRe, how gay you aRe, and so on. I love it!!! http://www/thespark.com E N J O Y Hope I helped!! =D

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