hi ppl . ok well heres my problem . im not bragging or nethng but i think im pretty & hav a good personality but my one thing is , i hav NEVER had a boyfriend . and im 14 . its bothering me b/c all of my friends can get them , and i cant . i talk to guys all the time and im being myself , but it isnt working . nothing is working . i dono what to do nemore . any tips
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? xbellaxobambinax69 answered Monday August 23 2004, 3:53 pm: well one thing you need to know is that you should never change for any guy! bc if he doesnt like you for who you are then he isnt worthy of being with you. besides would you rele want to be with somebody who doesnt like you for YOU plus if you stay together for a long time you will just be living a lie! and nobody wants to do that! maybe the guys are just too shy to make the move so its about time that you make the move! you cant sit around forever w8ing for them to make the move!
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Mackenzie answered Monday August 23 2004, 12:38 pm: PeRhaps you haven't shown these guys you'Re inteRested! FoR that... just do whateveR it takes; "fliRt", as they call it. And why the hell not... just ask 'em out on a date.. just go foR it! Goodluck! Hope I helped!! [ Mackenzie's advice column | Ask Mackenzie A Question ]
UnluckyWishes answered Monday August 23 2004, 12:20 pm: Dont concentrate on getting a boyfriend.Just go with the flow and you'll pry end up finding a boyfriend.It seems to work for me and my friends.whenever we think about getting a boyfriend we cant and then when were just hanging out having fun, we get one.hope i helped.good luck. [ UnluckyWishes's advice column | Ask UnluckyWishes A Question ]
SaraEliKirk answered Monday August 23 2004, 1:22 am: Well your 14...its not really time for a boyfriend...Dont worry about it, i believe that there is someone for everyone and when your time comes it will be well worth the wait! :*:SaRa:*: [ SaraEliKirk's advice column | Ask SaraEliKirk A Question ]
xxKillerQueen answered Sunday August 22 2004, 7:19 pm: Ohmagoddd! I mean, its lyk, my main worry and concern in life and its lyk makin me so depressed and shit cuz i cnat get a bf! Hm, commit suicide...
xASH answered Sunday August 22 2004, 6:54 pm: it sounds like you have a lot of confidence,which is good, and maybe guys are a little intimadated by that.instead of waiting for a guy to approach you, you should ask someone out and hopefully they'll say yes. [ xASH's advice column | Ask xASH A Question ]
cutie_babee answered Sunday August 22 2004, 6:36 pm: I think it's cuz u have to much confidence about being pretty so you don't get what you want...just lay it cool and don't always go for the hot guys cuz their not always the right ones and they're very picky and heart breakers
ljk88 answered Sunday August 22 2004, 5:58 pm: its ok 14 is kinda young to be in relationships... studies have shown that if you are in relationships too early in life you have better chances getting stds and having sex, and all that bad stuff. so really wait till your 16. thats when parents start letting theres kids have bfs! so don't worry [ ljk88's advice column | Ask ljk88 A Question ]
iiLoVeYOU08 answered Sunday August 22 2004, 5:48 pm: ONG!!!! im feelin the same thing you are, try goin for older guys, they dont know a whole lot about you, it turns out workin out sooo much better, i am 14 and i resently got a boyfriend he is a year older than me and he is cute! hope my advise works!!!! [ iiLoVeYOU08's advice column | Ask iiLoVeYOU08 A Question ]
SNAKE answered Sunday August 22 2004, 5:40 pm: hey well im 14 2 and nea had a gf. and i deided i wouldnt till im 16 cuz wen u get a bf or gf at 13 or 14 the relationship is stupid. all u do is say i love soo much and make out a few times and then ur cryin and u hate eahother a week or 2 later. its ridiculous. ive decided not eve 2 bother. u shud 2 cuz ur win up getting hurt but a boy cuz hes cheating on u or duznt like u ne more and it only lasts a few weeks or so. so take my advice and just wait and b patient. if u wanna do it then go ahead. on and i put this on all my aswers bcuz its a good piece of advice itself: "It is not out abilities thta show who we truly are, it is outr choices." chose wisley ;) [ SNAKE's advice column | Ask SNAKE A Question ]
Karen answered Sunday August 22 2004, 5:35 pm: You need to have confidence in yourself. Just go up to a guy and start having a conversation with them. Guys like confidence in a girl. Also, just be yourself and something you aren't. Hope I helped :) [ Karen's advice column | Ask Karen A Question ]
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