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ask mackenzie





I did not write the book of love,
and I do not claim to be full of wisdom.

I sure do make mistakes,
but I live and learn!

I try to let no one come to me,
without leaving happier. [:



"Exert your talents,
and distinguish yourself.
Don't even think about
retiring from the World,
until the World will be
sorry that you retire!"



advice

♥[?]♥ Well I'm not looking forward to a root canal I'm doing on my tooth after New Years..haha ive heard it hurts sooo much!!! and if ne of u has seen finding nemo the guy is like freaking out LoL! so if u have done a root canal or know someone who has tell me..does it hurt? a lot? what happens..thanks i'll rate high..even if your answer isint the best cuz i dont wanna be mean! haha
K, well I've neveR had a Root canal done peRsonally, howeveR my fRiend has hand tons!! When asking heR about this, she said, "They just dRill". I asked if it huRts and she said, "No, not Really". She goes to the dentist all of the time, and neveR complains. I'm guessing you'll be fine. SoRRie I couldn't be of moRe help!! I wish you the veRy best!! =D

♥[?]♥ does age matter cause im 13 almost 14 n i like a 17 year old n a 18 year old n my friend is bout ready to get me n the 18 year old out..plz help me
Nah you'Re fine.. go foR it!! HoweveR, just use youR head mixed with some good judgement... he's an "Adult", you'Re a MinoR.. which could lead to tRouble! Just be caReful!! Hope I helped!! =D

♥[?]♥ my boyfriend... who i HAVENT talked to in like 3 weeks... seems to be ignoring me becuz he knoes im wantin to dump him... so what do i do sinc ei can never get in touch with him? Do i call and leave him a message breaking up with him?
No.. foRget about him. It's as good as oveR... he obviously wants it that way too... if he didn't.. he'd be tRying to woRk things out with you. Nothing needs to be said... it's done with. Hope I helped!! =D

♥[?]♥ I know this is going to be long, so sorry. But I will rate you high even if you answer!!

Well, I have a feeling that I could be a lesbian. And it's really difficult and I know that I'm going to have to wait and see if I actually am. The thing is I feel so much more comfortable around girls, and I actually have my eye on this one girl from my school. But the thought of getting married to a girl and not a guy makes me feel sick. And I just get this feeling when I'm around guys like Wow i'm so embarassed/nervous, But then I get this feeling like ohh YAY i'm so glad im here when I'm with girls. It's just everytime I like a guy, I only like him for like a week. Is there a chance I could be lesbian, or do you think it's just a phase? Please help!!

Well it could veRy well be a phase! Just do what you'Re comfoRtable with foR now! You'll figuRe it out in time!! I wish you the veRy best!! Hope I helped!! =D

♥[?]♥ my friend is going out with the guy i like i dont want to tell her that i like him cause then she will think oh u just like him cause i do ( she is like that ) what should i do?
You should keep it to youRself - he's taken. SoRRie; but that's just one of the unwRitten fRiendship Rules!! I wish you the best! Hope I helped!! =D

♥[?]♥ hey well I really like this guy and he likes me too but we know it cant work out. (long story) But I asked him what he didnt like about me..and he said I was flakey..i didnt wanna seem dumb and be like what the heck is that so im like ohh ok and i changed the subject lol....so thats where you advice ppl come in..whats flakey? haha..
Flakey means you'Re weiRd, peRhaps uptight also. Hope I helped!! =D

♥[?]♥ I use to hate this girl at my school, i never said anything to her hurtful its just that she acts stuck-up but the problem is that my friend is friends with her and i cant stand being around her, I dont wanna tell my friend because i am scared she will stand up for the girl and stop talking to me.
Ugh.. I've been theRe... it blows. I would say to just gRin and beaR it! PeRhaps even TRY to get to know heR... deep down.. she may be decent! =P Just be open minded! Hope I helped!!

♥[?]♥ What does 69 mean?? and what does it mean to be 'wet'?
"69" is a sexual RefeRence. Bodys aRe in some postion wheRe theiR gentials aRe accessible to the mouth of theiR paRtneR at the same time; oRal sex. And when someone is "wet", it means they aRe sexually aRoussed. Yes.. it IS actually wet.. theRe is moistuRe.. and tons of it!! Hope I helped!! =D

♥[?]♥ omg my freind was on the fone to the guy i lk then she kept tellin him to ask me out then he asked her out and she said yes then they broke up but he wants her to go out with him again and then she wants to go out with him again but she nows i lk him alot wut should i do should i be mad at her cause i am help!!!!! i will rate u
OMG!! I would be sooooo pissed!!!! What the HELL kind of fRiend is THAT??? YouR fRiends should want what's best foR you.. not take eveRything you want away!! I would confRont heR on it!! Tell heR it was a fucked up, Rotten thing to do!! Let heR know how much you'd appReciate it if she didn't stab you in the back anymoRe!! WhateveR so decide to say.. DEFINITELY talk to heR and let heR know exactly how it makes you feel!! I wish you the veRy best of luck!! Hope I helped!! =D

♥[?]♥ I'm 13/f with long blonde hair. I'm getting my hair highlighted (a lighter blonde) in a few days and i was just wondering is it really really bad for your hair? Can highlighting it do permenant damage? I'm not sure if i still want it highlighted if it's gunna ruin my hair.
Uhm.. kind of. If you have daRk blonde haiR and get light blonde highlights once oR twice.. no, you'll be fine. HoweveR, if you have bRight Red haiR and you highlight it blonde... it will have some discoloRation. And wheneveR you fully dye the head you'll see some discoloRation... and afteR the second time you'll see some damage, and it will always be dRied out! I have daRk bRown haiR with caRamel/golden highlights, and I used HeRbal Essences at home highlight kit, which can be puRchased at WalgReens, CVS, EckeRd, Wal-maRt and so on, foR about $8.50. I love the way it looks!! The coloR stays in foR a Really long time, and it's so simple to do; I had my Mommie do mine foR me!! I don't have any discoloRation oR damage fRom it whatsoeveR!!! If you ARE going to do this.. I Reccommend checking out that pRoduct!! Goodluck; hope I helped!!

♥[?]♥ How do you keep your self hygenic you know, down there? im 13 female
Just showeR daily, and if you'Re not against it... shave.. then use lotion, followed by a bit of baby powdeR! Hope I helped!! =D

♥[?]♥ Whats like the maximum age difference thats considered normal??
Well, it DOES just depend on the age.. like... 10 and 15 is NOT okay.... but 30 and 35 IS, ya know?? I would say no moRe than 6 yeaRs at the most pRobably. Hope I helped!!

♥[?]♥ Is it werid that i never want to be around my mom.. and i avoid everything about her? i mean everbody else likes to be with there moms and stuff? plz help
ill rate :)
thx.. vballdevil
I don't think it's "weiRd" at all Really. I usually don't tend to hang out with my Mom much eitheR. I lock myself away in my bedRoom with my music, poRno and cell phone. It's no big deal.. Hope I helped!! =D

♥[?]♥ well my n my bf have been going out for 3 years now...16/f btw...well weve gone too 3rd base...well once i was giving him head and he pulled down my pants we did 69 and the dorr knob was turning and his parents were there so we QUICKLY stopped and then pulled our pants up n sat there his mom was like hey guys...she said adam youre pants are unzipped! i was like oh crap she didnt think anything i hope...well i was wondering how do we prevent getting caught...should we do it in the car or got oo a ahotel maybe? MODS DONT DELETE!!! you dont understand i need help
Haha, oh shit.. I've been walked in on soooooooooo many times.. I've even been caught!!! I suggest doing it in the Room with a LOCKED DOOR, yeah; that could help. But if that is not possible... a caR would be okay.. tRy a fRiends house!! Goodluck; have fun!!! Hope I helped!!! =D

♥[?]♥ hey yall i need some help (16/f/single) well i was with my bff yesterday..and we invited over her bf and his friend who i kinda like!..well my friend and her bf were makign out...and i was talking too the other guy and well he put his hand on my leg no big deal then he was rubbing it you know it was comfortable..well i told him i liked him and he said he liked me! it was great lol then he fingered me...while we were making out...then he asked me out i said ya...then i ono what came over me i took his hand and wa\lked upstairs and we had sex..greaaaat sex...i was on the pill anyways and we used a condom...but am i a slut and was that a bad thing?? im not pregnant or anything...sry that was long..please tell me! PLEASE DONT DELETE THIS IS IMPORTANT TOO ME!!!
Haha.. that's fucking awesome!! You'Re totally NOT a slut, but who caRes WHAT eveRyone else thinks.. scRew 'em!! As long as you'Re educated on sex, know the Risks involved, and have enough sense to use pRotection, just do youR thing and have fun!! Take caRe!! hope I helped?? =D

♥[?]♥ Ok, I just started a relationship with a girl that goes to a different school than me. I will probably not be able to see her more than once every 1-2 weeks and I know theres gonna be a lot of guys hitting on her at her own school. Any advice on how I can keep her interested and make this work? I wont be worried after a few weeks have gone by, but this first little bit is going to be tough.
Yeah, it IS going to be a bumpy Ride... How come only once eveRy one to two weeks?? I would obviously suggest woRking something out so you can see heR two to thRee times a week!! Also, if you two have te same lunch houR, you could go out foR lunch like once a week, oR eveRy otheR week. And theRe's always the phone and computeR when you come home at night. Things may be Rough, but they aRe definitely possible!! I wish you the veRy best of luck!! Hope I helped!! =D

♥[?]♥ I have braces and for me its hard to brush them right. so when i get them of (in 6 months) i want to get something that will whiten my teeth so i can get baq on track. do you have any good-cheap ideas of what will work. (cuz i try so hard at doing a good job but it doesnt help!)
thankyou so much!
Uhm, well this isn't Really cheap, but you could tRy those CRest Whitening StRips. I suppose they woRk foR some, but not foR all! They didn't do a DAMN THING foR my paRents, but my fRiend's Mom said they completely Renewed heR confidence... she sweaRs it did so much foR heR. So I guess if you'Re willing to Risk it, go foR it; and I suppose it's woRth the "Risk"!! HoweveR, I just use whitening tooth paste, and my teeth aRe so white it's blinding!! I suggest tRying to toothpaste befoRe you put a cRap loud of money into the CRest Whitening StRips!! Goodluck; I wish you the best!! =D

♥[?]♥ I was wondering if it's okay for girls to shave their stomachs because somebody told me that it's one of the places you shouldn't shave. Is that true? and what are the places you shouldn't shave other than your face?
Of couRse it's okay to shave youR stomach!! TheRe isn't a place you "shouldn't shave", just always be awaRe that once you do it.. you kind of have to keep up with it. Hope I helped!!

♥[?]♥ hi does toothpaste rellay work on pimples/zits?!
KLG
That's what eveRyone says; neveR woRked foR me though!! Goodluck!! =D

♥[?]♥ Ok, im 15 and I have alot of wetness under my arms. I wear deoderant, but it dosen't stop it. There isn't any smell or anything, but I have these big 'pit stains' and it sucks cause I can't raise my arms in fear that someone would see. Dose anyone know of a deoderant or something to use that will stop this?!?
AlRight, I'm not ashamed whatsoeveR... I totally have this pRoblem in July and August!! I know exactly how you feel! People have told me to use CeRtain DRi, but I can't find that in any stoRe!!!! What I do is... just put some deodoRant on.. wait about two minutes, then apply baby powdeR!! TRust me; IT WORKS SOOOOO WELL I SWEAR TO YOU!!! You'll be amazed... you won't have ANY wetness whatsoeveR!! I *neveR* have *ANY* moistuRe.. eveR!!! I CANNOT pRomote this enough!!! Hope I helped!!


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